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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted April 17, 2014 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For the past few weeks, I've been getting over N gradually up to now. It came to the point that I actually said I don't like him anymore and meant it. We haven't talked in a while--like actually talk until today. I haven't also thought about him as much. So we talked today and joked around and teased each other like we always do. I thought I could get away with this without feeling something for him or thinking about him anymore. But somehow, I do and I don't understand why. This has happened to me with him last year at least twice--where I thought I've gotten over him, but I really wasn't.

Why does he keep coming back? No matter how hard I try to ignore this feeling, I just can't.

If anyone could do a reading on this, it would be greatly appreciated. Will exchange in return--horary, transit, SR, synastry, natal and pendulum readings. I don't do cards.

Thanks in advance

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St@r2013
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posted April 17, 2014 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll be right back with a reading for you Solar

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poochycat
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posted April 17, 2014 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Solar,

Hi I don't think we have done readings for each other yet. Well just off the cuff I have to ask you why you are chatting, laughing and joking with him when you said in your e-mail that you don't like him any more and you have told him that? You may be giving him mixed messages so THAT is why he keeps coming back.

O.K. I did a tarot reading for you.

Strength, Queen of pentacles, The chariot

Strength, use this time to focus on what you DO want in your life and what you don't. Really think about what you want in a relationship.

Queen of pentacles I feel is you. A very feminine woman with dark hair and eyes who may enjoy the cat and mouse game with him. Do you feel a bit of an ego boost when he comes back? Sorry to be blunt but I do tell how I feel rather than give a person all roses.

The chariot. If you truly are not interested in him ( think hard about this) then you need to tell him gently and ignore any contact with him. Don't drag it on. Not good for you or him.

Get back to me on this on how you think.

O.k. I would like a pendulum reading. Will MK act with passion (a hug, tells me he missed me) when I see him again? Poochy

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St@r2013
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posted April 17, 2014 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok Solar, so without the cards or anything, my opinion is that it's difficult to overcome emotions when you see the person daily (or almost daily)...

As for the reading:

Firstly,I see N being busy with different projects at school at the moment and you're in a place where you would like to have everything right now - the whole package - you're ready for a real relationship. And your heart still hopes that you can have this with N.

The other thing your emotions to N are being represented by the moon - so your emotions are very up and down regarding him. Are you also finding it a bit difficult to sleep?

N on the other hand saw your latest conversation as a victory of some sorts, I think he noticed the fact that you guys were no longer talking and this conversation to him made him think like everything was ok once again.

I also wanted to see what his actions towards you will be and he will try to get more attention from you, but in reality he's just a kid who has no idea what to do - his method of trying to get your attention could be him "poking" you.. think a kid in a kindergarten....

You on the other hand, it seems like you are pondering a few options on how to deal with him and not sure which action to take with him... You're trying the more practical route, trying not to get your emotions involved...

Hope this kinda resonates Solar

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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted April 17, 2014 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@poochycat

Yeah, we haven't exchanged before. Anyway, I got a yes from my pendulum. I think he misses you a lot and he will be very happy to see you again.

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posted April 17, 2014 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Solar,

Hi I don't think we have done readings for each other yet. Well just off the cuff I have to ask you why you are chatting, laughing and joking with him when you said in your e-mail that you don't like him any more and you have told him that? You may be giving him mixed messages so THAT is why he keeps coming back.


Well, we're friends, so I technically would talk with him either way. I haven't told him I like him or not, I just dropped little hints along the way. The reason why I don't want to like him anymore is because he doesn't seem to like me at all in that way. I even had a dream about it last night.

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O.K. I did a tarot reading for you.

Strength, Queen of pentacles, The chariot

Strength, use this time to focus on what you DO want in your life and what you don't. Really think about what you want in a relationship.


Right now, I don't feel like taking relationships seriously. At least for now. I'm in high school and I don't think I should be doing that. I mean, I still want that fun and spontaneous romantic relationship with commitment and loyalty, but I'm thinking that's for my future, not now.

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Queen of pentacles I feel is you. A very feminine woman with dark hair and eyes who may enjoy the cat and mouse game with him. Do you feel a bit of an ego boost when he comes back? Sorry to be blunt but I do tell how I feel rather than give a person all roses.

What do you mean ego boost? You described me perfectly well, except I like to hide my femininity. People see me more as a tomgirl.


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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted April 17, 2014 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Ok Solar, so without the cards or anything, my opinion is that it's difficult to overcome emotions when you see the person daily (or almost daily)...

As for the reading:

Firstly,I see N being busy with different projects at school at the moment and you're in a place where you would like to have everything right now - the whole package - you're ready for a real relationship. And your heart still hopes that you can have this with N.

The other thing your emotions to N are being represented by the moon - so your emotions are very up and down regarding him. Are you also finding it a bit difficult to sleep?

N on the other hand saw your latest conversation as a victory of some sorts, I think he noticed the fact that you guys were no longer talking and this conversation to him made him think like everything was ok once again.

I also wanted to see what his actions towards you will be and he will try to get more attention from you, but in reality he's just a kid who has no idea what to do - his method of trying to get your attention could be him "poking" you.. think a kid in a kindergarten....

You on the other hand, it seems like you are pondering a few options on how to deal with him and not sure which action to take with him... You're trying the more practical route, trying not to get your emotions involved...

Hope this kinda resonates Solar


Very spot on, St@r

with the ready for a relationship thing, I am, but like I'd like to start dating casually first and see where it goes. that's my mindset right now. not really looking for a real commitment because that's almost impossible in high school.

my feelings for him are indeed like tidal waves--they go up and down. you're right about the sleep thing, too.

Very true about me taking the practical route and not get my emotions involved. It's like a "been there, done that" kinda thing.

And if he does think that everything's okay, well, it's not. Honestly, I don't even know how he feels about me. My friend told me he likes some girl, but I don't know who it is. Plus, I get mixed signals from him. Also, I had a dream where he gave this girl more attention than me..

I don't know for sure how he's gonna try to get my attention. We have a long easter weekend and I'm only gonna get to see him for two days because he's going to NYC.

Anyway, do you want to ask a question?

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St@r2013
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posted April 17, 2014 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Very spot on, St@r

with the ready for a relationship thing, I am, but like I'd like to start dating casually first and see where it goes. that's my mindset right now. not really looking for a real commitment because that's almost impossible in high school.

my feelings for him are indeed like tidal waves--they go up and down. you're right about the sleep thing, too.

Very true about me taking the practical route and not get my emotions involved. It's like a "been there, done that" kinda thing.

And if he does think that everything's okay, well, it's not. Honestly, I don't even know how he feels about me. My friend told me he likes some girl, but I don't know who it is. Plus, I get mixed signals from him. Also, I had a dream where he gave this girl more attention than me..

I don't know for sure how he's gonna try to get my attention. We have a long easter weekend and I'm only gonna get to see him for two days because he's going to NYC.

Anyway, do you want to ask a question?


Thanks for the feedback

I know you're saying you want the casual dating but in your heart it's either all or nothing - I have a feeling you're not the type of girl for casual dating, but rather you want to experience many things with one person...

You're not the only one who doesn't understand what he feels about you - he has no clue either, it's ok...

As for my question - I think I'll just bump my other thread with the horary question regarding the job opportunity (I'm just going to wait a few days for that Saturn to move from 1st house) and perhaps you'll be able to help me out with that one

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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted April 17, 2014 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Thanks for the feedback

I know you're saying you want the casual dating but in your heart it's either all or nothing - I have a feeling you're not the type of girl for casual dating, but rather you want to experience many things with one person...

You're not the only one who doesn't understand what he feels about you - he has no clue either, it's ok...

As for my question - I think I'll just bump my other thread with the horary question regarding the job opportunity (I'm just going to wait a few days for that Saturn to move from 1st house) and perhaps you'll be able to help me out with that one


Is he seriously that slow? Lol.

I know he has some kind of learning disability, but wtf. Anyway, I saw that in his chart, too. Him not being able to understand his own feelings. It all makes perfect sense.

And as for your question.. I'd be glad to help. Just bump anytime.

Thanks for the read

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LoadedPistil
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posted April 17, 2014 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Leo curse. We try and try and try and try and they don't budge and then w'ere done and the come back and there's nothing we can do. I try to warn them, but they don't get it. Then it's too late and I can't care no matter how much I try.

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Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted April 17, 2014 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
The Leo curse. We try and try and try and try and they don't budge and then w'ere done and the come back and there's nothing we can do. I try to warn them, but they don't get it. Then it's too late and I can't care no matter how much I try.


Ahh, I feel you. I wish there was a way to remove this curse lol.

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posted April 17, 2014 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Ahh, I feel you. I wish there was a way to remove this curse lol.

Me, too

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Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
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