posted April 19, 2014 03:43 AM            

Your reading (found the first question )

I'm not under the impression this P. is a shy character. Altought the topic you converse about may be a bit shallow and outwardly orientated (on ambitions, etc.) He also has a way of showing/porttraying the 'best possible picture'. Like he tells you stuff in a 'everything is amazing!'-way. Like he has a very positive outlook. Does he talk about cars at all?
Thing is: when I look at his feelings, it's clear he just doesn't know himself. They go up & down(and the same what he is thinking about life - but he wouldn't show insecurity often). Also he is still weighing his options: "shall I, shall I not". He just keep going back & forth, which - big surprise - leads to him giving of different signals. I do think the line of the first reading is still there & I expect him to show more passion towards you (in a very flirty way) within 6-8 weeks. He just hasn't fallen for you 'hard', yet.
There's also something hidden from you, from the outside.
It just feels like it's up in the air all the time. His intentions will be more from a sexual point of view though. Like 'having the hots', but not thinking he has (or wants) anything solid to offer you at the moment (I think he also has quite a bit going on what he iss not telling you about - possibly in regards to some problems surroundings his mums health).
And I think he likes you too much, to just use a relationship as 'pass time'.
I think that is what you are noticing.

Edit: I'm not sure about this, but how old is P? And/or is he a bit of a party-guy (drinks, etc.? - there's something about moods/mood swings and/or depression - altough this might refer to his mum, I'm not sure)

posted April 20, 2014 06:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
I'm not under the impression this P. is a shy character. Altought the topic you converse about may be a bit shallow and outwardly orientated (on ambitions, etc.) He also has a way of showing/porttraying the 'best possible picture'. Like he tells you stuff in a 'everything is amazing!'-way. Like he has a very positive outlook. Does he talk about cars at all?

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He can be a little shy when he doesn't know the person well and/or is out of his comfort zone. However, when he is with friends or in a social group of some sorts, he usually is very outgoing, likes to make people laugh, etc... About the positivity... What I've noticed is that at times I get the feeling that he is telling me a little white lie (about nothing that would really matter, just regarding everyday stuff) or exaggerating on something that he is telling me so that he leaves me with a great impression of him. At times I found some small inconsistencies on what he would tell other people versus what he would tell me... It hasn't bothered me that much to be honest, because I don't think he is bad intended, but it does lead me to wonder if he would be capable of lying about much bigger stuff, of course... But that's not something I need to be thinking about for now, I guess, as things between us are not that serious, anyway. About the cars, not really - not with me, at least. Maybe you picked up on that because we travel a lot together in public transportations? lol

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Thing is: when I look at his feelings, it's clear he just doesn't know himself. They go up & down(and the same what he is thinking about life - but he wouldn't show insecurity often). Also he is still weighing his options: "shall I, shall I not". He just keep going back & forth, which - big surprise - leads to him giving of different signals. I do think the line of the first reading is still there & I expect him to show more passion towards you (in a very flirty way) within 6-8 weeks. He just hasn't fallen for you 'hard', yet.

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Yes, that sounds like him. Honestly, him not being able to make up his mind is causing me some emotional stress. That's why I was considering moving on for good, I'm getting really tired of these games... But another part of me doesn't want to let this go without giving it a solid shot. Yes, I can see he is that way about his life aswell... We're taking the same major right now and will graduate in about an year or two and he seems to be a little lost in regards to what to do next, although, like you said, he wouldn't admit it. It's good that he will be more expressive and flirty... At least it means he might be open to take things further then.

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Originally posted by Twirl:
It just feels like it's up in the air all the time. His intentions will be more from a sexual point of view though. Like 'having the hots', but not thinking he has (or wants) anything solid to offer you at the moment (I think he also has quite a bit going on what he iss not telling you about - possibly in regards to some problems surroundings his mums health).
And I think he likes you too much, to just use a relationship as 'pass time'.
I think that is what you are noticing.

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Yep, it's definitely always up in the air... We have never been indifferent to one another from the first moment we saw each other and I don't think we ever will, regardless of where life takes us. The sexual perspective makes sense as the basis of all of this is a strong mutual physical attraction. There's a lot of desire, but maybe he's afraid that if he gets involved with me, I will want some sort of commitment from him? Honestly, I'm just open to getting to know him, spending time and have fun together... Having a "serious relationship" is not my goal at all, not at this stage of things.

About the outside thing that I don't know about... I've noticed that in our past conversations he has mentioned his mum a few times, although it was nothing relevant. But if she is going through a serious problem, it would make sense that she would be present on his thouhts quite a lot, therefore the reason why he mentioned her, perhaps.

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Edit: I'm not sure about this, but how old is P? And/or is he a bit of a party-guy (drinks, etc.? - there's something about moods/mood swings and/or depression - altough this might refer to his mum, I'm not sure)

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He is 19 - will turn 20 in a month from now. Yes, he does like to go out, although I don't think he does it as often as he'd like. We will have an academic week in about 2 weeks from now when there will be parties every night during that week, which joins together all universities from my city... We will go to do that, so maybe you were picking on that too? I'm not sure if we will go together ever, but there's a possibility that we might meet there, even if randomly. Last year, I did run into him a few times but it was a coincidence. We didn't know each other that well then, although the attraction thing was already there. The mood swings could apply to anyone, I think... I'm quite a big mood swinger, lol. I think he is too, at least from what I pick up from him and his attitudes. We're quite similar in many ways actually... Which is not a suprise, since we both have Moon in Virgo and conjunct, so it would make for similar emotional behaviour/responses/etc.

posted April 20, 2014 04:41 PM            

I'm not sure about the mum - but there was something a bit troubling as I described before.

I think that if he would know you aren't as serious as he thinks - he would flirt with you more easily. There's a strong sexual interest.

The mood swings mentioned are a bit more serious then the 'normal ones' we all have.