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Topic: Harassment Order against heavily influenced Scorpio
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rubynoir
Newflake Posts: 15
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 19, 2014 10:04 AM
  
I have been in and on and off casual/sexual relationship with a heavily influenced Scorpio man for the past five years.
Over time he has become increasingly abusive emotionally and physically and manipulative towards me and over time even speaks to me like I am an object not a person.This has taken a lot out of me and I've received counselling for depression and even moved out of my home city to be away from this man. He came back in to my life February 2014 after 9 months of no contact and being in a relationship with another woman.
He began the sexual side of things with me as soon as we met again for the first time and I discovered he was still with his partner so I told her.... She ended things instantly and since he has been in a spiral of madness, trying to get revenge for me 'ruining' his relationship which he believes in his own strange mind he had no part in doing so or his actions were all down to me.
He has been doing really nasty things such as sending private pictures of me to people, sending me abusive and racist messages and telling me how worthless I am. So I recently called authorities and he will be tried for harassment and causing me distress and alarm.
Although I feel I have took the right step after all of this time dealing with how he treats me I still feel like this isn't over, and I still love him. I don't know if it's just that I am delusional but I feel there is an attraction that never goes away, or we are bound to keep meeting over time.
I am a Leo - My Chart
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cmqcfileysCm9x-u1397865478/astro_2gw_01_ruby.50208.38854.gif He is a Scorpio - His Chart (No Birth Time)
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=mqcfileysCm9x-u1397865478&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=1&btyp=2&mth=gw&sday=19&smon=4&syr=2014&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=433%2C16 IP: Logged |
jenny415
Knowflake Posts: 485
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 19, 2014 10:35 AM
I am sorry about this Ruby! But, I think this may be his gemini mars( aggression, etc) acting out...constant nasty communication, etc. I have a very similar chart and would never act this way!!!! I have aqua mars and a cancer moon though. I am glad you have perished harassment claim against him- you should not let this person threaten you. Good luck.IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 330
From: New York
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 19, 2014 10:44 AM
Sorry Ruby for all of this, the situation sounds horrible.The first thing I noticed is that you have moon conjunct your north node in Sagittarius--so you like to be free and explore your surroundings so freedom of expression is one of your goals in this life and that's important to you--so that is going to mix with all of that scorpio energy (controlled focus of emotions and surroundings) so there is going to be a tug of war there. I would say the "attraction" you may feel comes from his scorpio planets sitting on top of your IC--this represents family and home life, so that energy is being expresses there which includes mercury, pluto, the sun....etc, so he is bringing that energy there.....so it may feel "familiar" but in this instance, it has become stifling. Let me pull an angel card for you... The card you got says: "Overcoming Difficulties--Archangel Jeremiel: "The Worst is now behind you, and you are surmounting any previous challenges" IP: Logged |
littlecloud
Moderator Posts: 2750
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 19, 2014 05:39 PM
I have been where you are. The best thing to do is accumulate whatever evidence you have, witnesses to vouch for the counseling you had to undergo. All his text messages, emails, all that is evidence. Keep it for the trial. You are not bound to be attracted to him. NO ONE should ever be treated the way he has treated you. Forget trying to change him and or help him because the only person that can do that is him. The best thing you can do is get some type of restraining order and cut him off. Continue your counseling, go to group therapies, it helps, but only if you are willing to move forward. I spent only a few months with my abuser and years later I still deal with the hell he put me through. So the fact that you went through this for years, I don't even know what to say. Good for you for finally notifying authorities, not many people realize the courage it takes to do that. Don't give up! Life will still be bumpy, but it'll be better once you're completely away from him. IP: Logged |
rubynoir
Newflake Posts: 15
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 19, 2014 06:38 PM
Thank you ladies, I always tried to read the synastry and composite charts to find some good in this situation but I'm starting to think I need to get real because there really isn't anything good about this at all.
I am going through hell at the moment but hopefully i'll come out of it on the other side.  IP: Logged |
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