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FairyDust75
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posted April 21, 2014 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Mincey,

You have done some readings for me in the past and I was wondering if I could get you to do a really thorough one for me please. I've been stuck with moving on from this one guy P. I keep getting told he will contact again. Part of me believes it and part of me just doesn't see why he would. The last time you read for me you felt he would be in contact again, looking perhaps for more of a fling type thing. I was wondering if you would really read on it for me see once and for all if he's going to contact again and if so what he wants/how he feels. Also, if you get any timing as well. If you don't see any contact or anything more from him I would want to know that as well. I am trying to move forward but I just feel as if it's still weighing me down. If you don't mind doing this for me I would truly appreciate it. Thanks and have a nice day.

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MinceyMouse
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posted April 21, 2014 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure thing, just give me a few moments.

1- what do you need to know to move on:

a. VIII of Wands popped up. Means passion and a fling.
b. The Star
c. Wheel of Fortune reversed
d. Ace of Cups, reversed.

I'm going for this on a completely intiutive level, so hoping this makes sense. Why are you stuck on him? I keep seeing the passion card, essentially saying that you miss the passion you felt with him. Passion is not the same as love, it's infatuation in this case. Card a and c says that you need to know what exactly you liked and disliked about him and make a judgement call and take the communication/joys you had in the relationship into account. It does not paint a rosy picture, does it? Take the bits you liked, and cherish it- and let it go. The process takes a lot of time, no doubt.

My little advise: on some paper, write some pros and cons about being in a relationship with him. EVERYTHING. Then see. Did the relationship teach you something? Do you want to learn the same lesson again by going back into the lion's den?

2- will he contact:

a. X of Pents, rx
b. III of Cups, rx
c. II of Pents.

Once again, the fling card came up (c). He will contact by 2-3 months, but it's not going to be deep emotions from his part. You need to know that he will contact you out of frustration (sexual) [card a]and that he is incapable of holding a relationship because of his immaturity [card b].

Is that what you really want? to fall for (again) a person who is not ready for anything and will cause you heartache if you don't brace yourself?

Hope this resonates and this helps.

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FairyDust75
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posted April 21, 2014 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't thank you enough Mincey. You really put it in a way no one else has been able to for me. That's the thing when we were together it was good. He's not a bad guy, just likes to be in charge and I guess I let him because I was so charmed by him. With that bossiness he also made the decision to just walk away with no explanation or without discussing it. It was good one minute and the next it was as if he felt he was done and just cut me out. I guess that's why I struggle because I didnt have the closure. I know we don't always get that in relationships but this was an extreme case for me. And I can totally see him reappearing merely looking for a hookup. He has disappeared for a month or two at a time and then reappeared. I also know he's back on the dating site we met on and I'm sure if he's just looking for sex he'll find it. I can't say I'm angry with him as I'm just more hurt by him. So I guess when he does reappear I have to keep my guard up with him and be very careful with how I proceed with him. I guess I was hoping to find someone new so if/when he does reappear I wouldn't want to let him back in.

Do you feel there will be anyone new for me? Thank you again for taking the time to read for me. I truly appreciate it.

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MinceyMouse
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posted April 21, 2014 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Will there be anyone longterm for fairy in the next 6 months:

The Magician
The Lover
IV of Swords, rx

No one long term, but someone in the short term in the next 6 months. Seems to be a strong person, interested in the occult (for some reason.. I may be wrong on this bit). Yes, there will be some sexy time. But it's short term. Not long term here. Hope this helps

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FairyDust75
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posted April 21, 2014 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes it does totally help. Thank you so much again for your insight.

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FairyDust75
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posted April 24, 2014 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
UPDATE MINCEY---So no, I haven't heard from P yet. But you did feel that someone short term, aka sexy time. Although unfortunately my heart is still with P, I am still trying my hand at on line dating. Anyway, started talking to someone new and it's VERY clear he's interested in a hook up. I really don't have feelings about this guy, and I'm not even sure I like him. All reasons why I SHOULDN'T pursue this. But I just wanted to tell you this did come up for me as of today. I sort of feel sick over the situation, so I honestly don't think I will pursue anything more with him. And maybe this isn't even what you saw in my reading, but since it came up I thought I would tell you. For some reason, I feel like I would be doing something wrong if I go through with it, like it's against P. I know I shouldn't feel that way b/c I'm sure he's out there doing whatever he wants. And I can't stop my life for him. But I still don't feel this is a good situation for me. Any thoughts?

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MinceyMouse
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posted April 24, 2014 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just from a 3rd person point of view- you feel guilty. Guilty for moving on. Well, you shouldn't.

Also, do you want sex without any emotion? It'll feel very mechanical (yes, I have done this too, and I didn't feel to good with myself after the sex afterglow wore off). Honestly, don't feel guilty. Move on with your life as he is certainly moving on with his. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

When I was in the oh-my-god-I-love-this-person relationship, it took me a good year to get over him and even attempt having sex with someone. What I'm saying is that you will need to take some time out from dating and just being around friends who love and support you unconditionally will help immensely.

If it feels wrong, it probably is at this point.

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FairyDust75
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posted April 24, 2014 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah definitely doesn't feel right and I think all the P emotions came up because I wanted to have the same feelings as I did with P. But I just don't feel it with this guy so I'm definitely not pursuing it. As crazy as it sounds I think I was expecting to feel that same emotion and it didn't happen. So just gonna cut my loses and move on from this guy. It's just not gonna work.

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