posted April 23, 2014 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
do you want to exchange?

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posted April 23, 2014 06:34 PM            

life would be a lot easier if I had all three that were positive...... that's never been in my cards.

I'm very worried and I feel like a loser. not trying to compare myself to others I'm just very far behind on where I should be at the 35-year-old. I am just now getting over pneumonia, I have tried not to internalize my worries and fears but it didn't really help I'm still getting sick and of course I couldn't work so now I'm hurting with money.

when I look at you know my ex's have gotten married and have kids my friends from high school or college I'm like the only one that is suffering so much

is it going to change it all? my life just meant to have a ton of obstacle? all I want in my life is a husband to be a stay at home mom and have good friends and some hobbies..... that's all I want but it looks like I'm probably not going to get married if I do its a good to 34 years away, realistically something that dating anyone. then I am scared that I probably can't have kids and I'll always have to work and I'll always have to work in low paying jobs that are truly the demand ing of my capability..

life should not be this hard and stressful and difficult for anybody and it isn't for anybody in in my peers or my family, but this is the way it's been for me

posted April 23, 2014 11:34 PM            

I know I sound like a broken record but you know I want a family and as I look at my Solar Return up until like 20 20 I have Saturn square Venus on and off for like several years!!
and then I have Saturn also in the second house couple of years

its ******** !

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Hmmm… Cherful do you mind if I do a chart reading (or try to anyway, I'm not as accurate with those as other members here) for you instead?

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posted April 24, 2014 01:07 AM            

It's funny because you and I have some similar aspects like Aries placements, and Mars in your 7th house which would oppose your ASC. Keep in mind I read differently than what's correct or technical.

What I notice first is the Mars. It just draws my attention. I feel like because it opposes your ASC by sign, that this is why you may face a lot of obstacles in love. You may feel like your partner is always going against you in someway. It's also uncomfortable in the 7th house. You see them as indecisive, flaky. Mars in Libra there's never just one person in the mix, I feel like. Very 3 of Swords placement. It's also near your Moon and Venus. I feel like this is why you tend to have to watch your exes move on? Because Venus is in your 7th house which seems like your lovers stay apart of your external life somehow.

However, Venus in Libra IN it's home house is pretty freaking good. It's also semi-squaring the Sun which may be where the frustration with kids comes in, but the fact it makes an aspect with the Sun is promising to me. Your Sun is in Virgo, so you may tend to feel like you attract wishy-washy types who don't know what they want, but you could turn this into a positive by looking for hard working, generous, helpful guys too. Your Mars is conjunct Venus, which to me makes me wonder how you are with Venus in Aries? Do you get along with fire signs well?

You have Mercury in the 5th though, so if you had kids you would have multiple ones. You'd most likely have little girls because Mercury is sextile Moon and Venus. Or feminine boys.

You DO have Uranus in the 7th house, so you may have to let go of your idea of what traditional is in order to find the right relationship or marriage partner. I have Uranus in the 7th house too and I understand it's not fun! But it can be if you adjust to it's energy or accept your own Uranian tendencies. Also noticed your Mars and Venus are square Jupiter… that could work in your favor, try dating Pisces or Sags? But with the Sun semi-squaring and Mars squaring Venus I feel you'd do best with a fire sign that has Venus in Libra perhaps.

posted April 24, 2014 01:13 AM            

ok so yes thank you for my reading! I don't date anybody but virgos and Leos.... I know that I need space like if I had a guy that traveled for a living I would be very happy absence makes the heart grow fonder I feel!

posted April 24, 2014 01:35 AM            

I get where you're coming from like me I have natal aspects of my chart that say I exude sexuality and I don't even realize it nor do I try to do that, same as probably true of you

with that said you have to come off differently. to give you an example and I'm not trying to be mean picture of a lesson pretty girl who's pretty much overweight and who has a very strong character. when she talks to guys there is no sexual overtone nor allow that from anyone who speaks to her. she commands herself with authority and respect and if anyone doesn't so that to her she simply won't give him the time of day so many know they have to be a very best behavior. and when she does have conversations its always about interesting things never too personal not at first not until deeper into the courtship, she really makes a man work to get to know her first on a personal level than on a deeper level than an intimate level.

posted April 24, 2014 01:52 AM            

so that's why I was trying to say that's what you should believe that your character, your mental abilities and the way that you communicate should be the strong pool of attracting these guys

QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
^^ No that's me - the pretty but overweight girl. I don't think I divulge too personal info though but that's subjective. Is there a way you sense what I do wrong?[/QUOTE]