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luckystar25
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From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 02:12 PM
  
Hiii..how are ya? i have a question for you if you dont mind...and you are very accurate also if your busy its totally fine...im confused, and kinda sad..i dont know if what im being told by others about my guy is true or not... if i asked him it would creat drama and start a fight betweem friends and thats the last thing that i want to do... is he happy with me or is he not but just not telling me?IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower
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From: USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 03:09 PM
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Originally posted by luckystar25:
Hiii..how are ya? i have a question for you if you dont mind...and you are very accurate also if your busy its totally fine...im confused, and kinda sad..i dont know if what im being told by others about my guy is true or not... if i asked him it would creat drama and start a fight betweem friends and thats the last thing that i want to do... is he happy with me or is he not but just not telling me?
Hi Luckystar, Go ahead and give me their birth dates, no time or birthplace needed. I'll look at compatibility and see if your best friend is just jealous of your relationship. Take care,
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luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 04:49 PM
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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Luckystar,Go ahead and give me their birth dates, no time or birthplace needed. I'll look at compatibility and see if your best friend is just jealous of your relationship. Take care,
Spring
My guy is 09/10/85 & friend (thats his best friend and mine too but has a crush on me so i dont know if hes daying this because he cares or he thinks il go for him ) friend birthday is 01/25/86
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Springtimeflower
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From: USA
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posted April 23, 2014 07:04 PM
@Luckystar,I see where transiting Neptune is squaring your friends' natal Saturn in his chart making him less secure. Your boyfriend has had transiting Neptune opposing his natal Mercury, which could mean he has been receiving deceit or lies from others or just feels like he's out there somewhere--from not having balance in his life. I don't see that changing until late February 2015, but it will also reappear briefly in 2016. The two of them share a venus square mars aspect, which indicates jealousy between the two of them, but your boyfriend has a lot of natal Jupiter planets contacting your friend, which tells me that your boyfriend extends himself more to your friend then vice versa. With your friend less than secure, I would agree with what you think is happening except that your friend may feel threatened if your boyfriend and you take your relationship to the next level, which means typically that the dynamics (how your relationships are based) will change and it will affect your friend. He may think the outcome is worse than in reality it would end of being. Transiting Neptune will soon oppose your boyfriend's natal Sun and could create more confusion for the three of you. On aside, from your charts you are more compatible overall with your boyfriend then your friend. It's too bad you couldn't find someone to fix your friend up with. Hope this helps,
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luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
@Luckystar,I see where transiting Neptune is squaring your friends' natal Saturn in his chart making him less secure. Your boyfriend has had transiting Neptune opposing his natal Mercury, which could mean he has been receiving deceit or lies from others or just feels like he's out there somewhere--from not having balance in his life. I don't see that changing until late February 2015, but it will also reappear briefly in 2016. The two of them share a venus square mars aspect, which indicates jealousy between the two of them, but your boyfriend has a lot of natal Jupiter planets contacting your friend, which tells me that your boyfriend extends himself more to your friend then vice versa. With your friend less than secure, I would agree with what you think is happening except that your friend may feel threatened if your boyfriend and you take your relationship to the next level, which means typically that the dynamics (how your relationships are based) will change and it will affect your friend. He may think the outcome is worse than in reality it would end of being. Transiting Neptune will soon oppose your boyfriend's natal Sun and could create more confusion for the three of you. On aside, from your charts you are more compatible overall with your boyfriend then your friend. It's too bad you couldn't find someone to fix your friend up with. Hope this helps,
Spring
I tried finding someone for him he finds something wrong with them lol.. what worries me is me and my guy dont have a title, and its been over a year..i want to bring it up but he scaries very easily  i keep having nightmares about him too..i dont know if they are premonitons,a warning or an insecuirty...like last night someone was saying to me he isnt faithful, but he would tell me hes honest and he knows i would walk away from him. I dont put up with ******** for long but i just cant get myself to walk away from him unlike others in the past :/ thank youi
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Springtimeflower
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From: USA
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posted April 23, 2014 08:49 PM
Hi Luckystar,Transiting Saturn is also squaring your boyfriend's natal Venus, which can make him feel like relationships are a lot of work. It can also make him feel lonely, too. If he's busy at work and you are busy, too, it could mean that you aren't able to spend much time together making him feel that way. I don't see him as unfaithful. Ask Lost what she thinks just for confirmation. You have transiting Pluto in your 12th house, which dredges up old relationships, etc. and allows you the opportunity to process them again and then let them go. Was there some circumstances from the past that you have forgotten about that may be causing you to have this fear--your nightmares, which is just you worrying about losing him. Hugs,
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luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 10:09 PM
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Originally posted by Springtimeflower
Hi Luckystar,Transiting Saturn is also squaring your boyfriend's natal Venus, which can make him feel like relationships are a lot of work. It can also make him feel lonely, too. If he's busy at work and you are busy, too, it could mean that you aren't able to spend much time together making him feel that way. I don't see him as unfaithful. Ask Lost what she thinks just for confirmation. You have transiting Pluto in your 12th house, which dredges up old relationships, etc. and allows you the opportunity to process them again and then let them go. Was there some circumstances from the past that you have forgotten about that may be causing you to have this fear--your nightmares, which is just you worrying about losing him. Hugs,
Spring
Ugh yea..my first love was the biggest cheating sick twisted ******* iv ever met that hid it so well..i was with him for 3 years and we were supose get married eventually ..he went to the marines andi faithfully waited for him...he had a different girl waiting for him too..cheated on me so much and i had no idea until his cousin told me..he denied it but then owned up to it..like an idiot i forgave him and then he broke up with me and immediatly got engaged to someone els while he was in japan..ended it later on with her..came back and convinced me he had changed..then met some girl on myspace like a creep, moved to georgia to be woth her and shattered me..2 years ago(when i was 24) he tried to come back a few weeks before he got married, that was my closure because i always felt i wasnt good enough..he made a mistake blah blah, grass will always he greener on the other side for him & i feel ba for his wife IP: Logged |
luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 10:14 PM
Me and him officially broke up when i was 19, but the one after him was bad tooIP: Logged |
luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 23, 2014 10:19 PM
After him it was my best friend at the time, we were in love and things started happening wit us but he was bipolar and had alot of problems and i always tried to help him..it got to a point wlhere he stopped drinking because he had a problem and i tried helping him but all that did was have him take it out on me and call me ugly and all these other horrible things. it was months of us not speaking and then him coming back..repeated pattern..i had enough and when he went into and out of mental instiutions after awhile i tried to just be there for him as a friend..but he was a burden, badly..and he ended up attacking me and that was it for me, cut him out..3 years ago this was and he ocasionally still stalks me, i bought peper spray because of him..iv come thru hell and back lol... IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 24, 2014 12:18 AM
Wow..so for awhile i felt like i was hitting dead ends in my love life..but also thinking that i worked thru all of those old issues..and your making me realize that mayb it is still affecting me in ways that i havent realized..IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower
Knowflake Posts: 230
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 24, 2014 12:36 PM
Sending you lots of hugs Lucky. I've had some not so good relationships, too, and later on the good ones came eventually. Check yourself to make sure you don't say things like "All the good ones are taken." "I haven't met anyone yet, but most are jerks...etc. etc." Maybe it's time to talk with Daniel and tell him that you are sincere about how you feel about him and that you are working on making a career change so you can spend more time with him. I have a book on names and the name Daniel is a sweetie. I think your fears are causing you not to want to talk to him thinking that he may disappoint you like the others. I don't see transiting Neptune squaring his Venus even in progressions. Take care,
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luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 24, 2014 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Sending you lots of hugs Lucky. I've had some not so good relationships, too, and later on the good ones came eventually. Check yourself to make sure you don't say things like "All the good ones are taken." "I haven't met anyone yet, but most are jerks...etc. etc." Maybe it's time to talk with Daniel and tell him that you are sincere about how you feel about him and that you are working on making a career change so you can spend more time with him. I have a book on names and the name Daniel is a sweetie. I think your fears are causing you not to want to talk to him thinking that he may disappoint you like the others. I don't see transiting Neptune squaring his Venus even in progressions. Take care,
Spring
Thank you, your really sweet, right back at ya  lol Haha your funny, call him daniel,i like that. i am a strong beliver in the law of attraction, and have changed my ways alot..but you are right i am really scared to talk to him about those things because i am afraid of the answer..i always hold stuff in and every few months when im really drunk i end up blowing up with word vommit(throwing up thing that i feel in th worst kind of way)...i just keep reminding myself it will happen on its own the way its mean to unfold ... When did you end up finding a good guy? I realized a lot of people on this site are from different countries which is really cool,where do you live
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Springtimeflower
Knowflake Posts: 230
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 24, 2014 02:20 PM
Hi Lucky,You're welcome. Wasn't sure when you would pick up my message. Sorry I was not here later yesterday--had a neighbor's daughter (old neighborhood) pass away last week and went to visit briefly after picking up flowers for her mother not knowing it was also the daughter's birthday yesterday--she would have been 39. What was sad is that her father passed away 11 months ago and she told me afterwards that he was the only one she could talk to for advice, etc. and didn't know what she was going to do. She had two children: one 18 and another 16. She was also getting divorced and that would have come final next month. She needed help health wise, but didn't like the traditional doctors and couldn't afford out of pocket for the other ones that the insurance wouldn't cover and that she felt more comfortable with. I would say I was around 30 when I started meeting nicer ones that were more responsible and I started seeing things about ones I would avoid that I didn't see before--red flags, etc., but I had to let go of wanting to experience life on my own and did that gradually. Now I feel like doing something is better with someone as a partner. Hope this helps,
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Springtimeflower
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posted April 24, 2014 02:48 PM
Oh, I forgot...Florida is where I live Good luck talking with Daniel Spring IP: Logged |
luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 24, 2014 11:19 PM
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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Oh, I forgot...Florida is where I live Good luck talking with Daniel Spring
Im sorry about your neighbor thats so sad i couldnt imagine..those poor kids..how are they doing? Ah i love florida i went on a roadtrip there 3 years ago and almost stayed(daytona) IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower
Knowflake Posts: 230
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 25, 2014 07:43 AM
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Im sorry about your neighbor thats so sad i couldnt imagine..those poor kids..how are they doing? Ah i love florida i went on a roadtrip there 3 years ago and almost stayed(daytona)
Hi Lucky, The kids, according to their grandmother, are devastated. The grandmother also told me her grandson couldn't understand how she couldn't show outward emotion and her explanation was that she cries inside. I had never heard it put that way. The funeral service is today at 11. What I learned from all of that is you have to be your own person on your own two feet. I'll bet there are more out there like this girl, too. I live south of Daytona Beach and Orlando and have been here over 45 years. Have a good day,
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