posted April 27, 2014 11:45 AM            

We met online and had an amazing 1st date last week.end. He was attentive,manly,funny and just my complete ideal. He's Russian and im Haitian btw...while on the date he couldn't stop talking about my eyes,thick black hair and dark.skin. He asked me what my parents would say if I brought him home to which I replied that my stepdad is white and no one in my family would care. He said his family is from Moscow and neither would they. We laughed about everything under the sun. When the bill came,I peaked while he wasn't looking and realized he'd just dropped almost $400 on a meal for two! It was a very nice place in nyc but I felt bad and found it a bit excessive. After dinner he wanted to go get more drinks so we did. I offered to buy the 1st round to which he seemed utterly offended by. Once again wr laughed talked and just had a blast. It was almost 3am by this point and I live in queens near the Long Island border. He asked me to come home with him. Because it was too late and he wouldn't feel comfortable with me heading home in my dress. I said ok but ge has to promise to be respectful and that we were not having sex. He laughed and said deal. We put on a movie while at his house and he got a few beers out of the fridge. Movie turned into a heated makeout session so I said wr should go to bed and I should take the couch. He said no but he promises not to touch me. We talked for about an hour before I turned over to sleep. We cuddled,he tried to get some and I playfully refused. He pouted,tried and tried until I threatened to leave. He apologized and turned over. The next morning we woke up playing and he tried again. He got so upset when I refused,it's almost like he took it personally. I told him that I like him a lot but don't want to ruin things. He huffed and puffed a bit then we wen back to laughing. He walked me to the train and gave me a kiss. He asked me if I liked our date,I said yes and asked the question to him. He smiled and said he's still "thinking about this experience". We kissed and I got on the train.

About an hour later nohe texted me to see if I made it home safe. I told him that I was at my friends house,still in bk and we were going to do brunch. He said ok but sounded very short. We texted a bit later and then i decided to call him. He was very playful and silly anf then I heard his friends in the back and he got all machismo saying "I'm betting with the guys,I have to go,call you back. Bye". He hung up and I just ignored it. Then he texted me saying that he noticed I had champagne without him (referring to an instagram pic I posted of my friend and I holding bellinis.)

The next two days he goes cold,I text him bith days and he responds right away but keeps it short. I ask him if he no longer wants to speak which I now recognize is super defensive. Ge texts me saying "relax! I don't feel well. I'll call you tonight". He doesn't so I gnore him. Two days later he texts me "how are you? What's new?" I said no much,he texts thathe is watching a hockey game. I said have fun and that was it.

This morning I call him and he picks up the phone with a very stern "Yes". I choose to ignore his attitude and be sweet. He says he's at work and has to go. I said no problem,enjoy your day.
He calls me 15mins later and says what'sup? I said nothing,I was making breakfast,I thought of you and was saying hi. He said he called back because he thought it was an emergency and he's working late. I said no problem and then he said he'll call me back around 3pm. I feel like he likes me but he's sooo machismo it's hard to tell. He comes off so harsh and dictatorial sometimes. His sun and moon is in my 5th house,my aqua moon is opposite his leo moon and sun. His Virgo Venus sextiles my cancer sun,moon,and mercury. His sun and moon also conjunct my mars and trine my aries ascendant. Based on our synastry and what I've said what do you guys think?

P.s excuse the typos. Courtesy of my phone : )