posted April 29, 2014 07:48 AM
Hi Cherful,Saw your post the other day on relationships, but was busy with other threads and a little tired these days:
Here's something that will help with your relationships (someone told me this and it worked for me):
Write down on a sheet of paper all the good qualities you see in the men/guys around you. Do this for a good while until you have about a page or so.
Then hand write a letter to God or whoever your higher power is and tell him/her what it is you would like in a partner for you.
I believe this really works.
Forget about the things you don't like and try to focus on the good things. If you catch yourself saying something not so nice just saying it over again, but make it positive. After a while, the negative will start fading.
Take care,
Spring