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Topic: Mother-daughter synastry.Why so different and usually fighting?
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starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 407 From: romania,Ns Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 30, 2014 09:32 AM
Here is the synastry for me and my mother. She is the best mother I could ever have. Really. but I don't know why I keep upsetting her, and she back to me too. Since I was little we were constantly fighting/arguing. Not always is with meaness and harsh comments.But I don't know what's wrong. She wants me to be perfect,to make abs no mistake I want her to losen up and admit that no one is perfect, and I can never be the ideal she has in mind. Ideals are beautiful, but not possible.any thoughts on this synastry?(I'm on the outside, she;s on the inside)
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sag_stellium Knowflake Posts: 368 From: Washington, DC Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 30, 2014 12:48 PM
haha story of my life!I see mars square moon and mars opposite mars. My mom and I have some godawful mars/moon and saturn+planets synastry. IP: Logged |
starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 407 From: romania,Ns Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 30, 2014 12:52 PM
Hello sag_stellium and thank you for your reply! Even today we got into a fight and I barely came home..lol mars in aries with mars in libra is deff a clash. fire+gas it goes BOoM, :d but than I am fast to cool offIP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 1628 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 30, 2014 04:38 PM
I'm gonna look at mine and my moms as soon as I get comfortable at home. Anything in our synastry would be good for no one. :/------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 503 From: Virginia Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 30, 2014 04:44 PM
To me, what stands out are the sign placements--two people with moon in cap and an an asc in cap, trying to comunicate with a leo asc?Cap and Leo are TWO rulers!!! But, they rule in seperate ways. Cap rules by drawing a silent line in the sand and marking their territory. Leo rules by making a fuss! Your mom has her moon in cap and asc in cap--how she feels is also colored by how she views the world. However, you may feel the same as her (capricorn), but you believe you are equally right. But, fights don't last because ultimately, a Taurus sun wants stability, and a Cancer sun wants security--at the end of the day, it's not make or break. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3022 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 30, 2014 08:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: I'm gonna look at mine and my moms as soon as I get comfortable at home. Anything in our synastry would be good for no one. :/
Hahaha!!! I feel you on that. My mom has a grand cross and my sun falls right on her Pluto in her sun/Pluto opposition. All that control. I saw it and I was like 😳😫 it explained it all. Starlit road- just a few things that jumped off the page, Sub opposit moon/Uranus, Venus/mercury opposite Saturn, mars opposite mars. That last one is the doozy, you are both trying to enact your will on the other and the sun/moon opposite makes it difficult to teach that understanding of each other.
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starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 407 From: romania,Ns Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 01, 2014 12:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by lotus_flower: To me, what stands out are the sign placements--two people with moon in cap and an an asc in cap, trying to comunicate with a leo asc?Cap and Leo are TWO rulers!!! But, they rule in seperate ways. Cap rules by drawing a silent line in the sand and marking their territory. Leo rules by making a fuss! Your mom has her moon in cap and asc in cap--how she feels is also colored by how she views the world. However, you may feel the same as her (capricorn), but you believe you are equally right. But, fights don't last because ultimately, a Taurus sun wants stability, and a Cancer sun wants security--at the end of the day, it's not make or break.
Hello lotus_flower^^ thank you for your reply, but just wanted to clarify I little, I have the cappy rising, not my mom. Yes she can be very proud and flamboyant like a true Lioness:D She is a very stronng person, at least on the outside, but her innerside is sweet and caring. And also my sun is in gemini 0' the anaretic reckless degree. I probably don't match with her delicate inner core..:( IP: Logged |
starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 407 From: romania,Ns Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 01, 2014 12:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: I'm gonna look at mine and my moms as soon as I get comfortable at home. Anything in our synastry would be good for no one. :/
Thank you! But is it that bad? For u I mean? having strong aspects , how did u managed to cope with them? ^^ IP: Logged |
starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 407 From: romania,Ns Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 01, 2014 12:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: Hahaha!!! I feel you on that. My mom has a grand cross and my sun falls right on her Pluto in her sun/Pluto opposition. All that control. I saw it and I was like 😳😫 it explained it all. Starlit road- just a few things that jumped off the page, Sub opposit moon/Uranus, Venus/mercury opposite Saturn, mars opposite mars. That last one is the doozy, you are both trying to enact your will on the other and the sun/moon opposite makes it difficult to teach that understanding of each other.
wow, very true indeed!! I feel we are so different. I know we love eachother, but we are completely 2 diff individuals. It is hard to make compromise bcz than she feels at odds with her views and so do I. and it is frustrating to have these aspects with the mother who gave u life:( IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 1628 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 01, 2014 12:55 AM
Her Pluto conj my IC, Mercury and Venus. I am the favorite. Her Sun conj my Uranus. Tightest major aspect? Uranus Saturn square. 0°05. Ugly. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 1628 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 01, 2014 01:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by starlitroad: Thank you! But is it that bad? For u I mean? having strong aspects , how did u managed to cope with them? ^^
When I was very young, my mother and I had a very good relationship despite many barriers. Around the time I turned 10, things started changing. She stopped believing me. Never was one to lie to my mother, so not sure what changed. At 12, my grades started to suffer after being a years-running honor student. That was our biggest thorn, but when I graduated, she didn't want me to go to college and sabotaged everything associated with school. She wanted me to work and take care of her. At 19, I left and never looked back. Now, I have very low tolerance. As soon as she begins a tantrum, I shut her off, hang up, walk out. Being a Leo, I somehow give off the heir that I like to argue. I don't. Once I see you understand my point and you still disagree, I'm done if the conversation can't be civil. In a nutshell, I put her in a box. In my situation, the only thing I've done to upset her lately is refuse to take care of her. She's in her mid 50s. Call me on your 70th. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 407 From: romania,Ns Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 01, 2014 01:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: Her Pluto conj my IC, Mercury and Venus. I am the favorite. Her Sun conj my Uranus. Tightest major aspect? Uranus Saturn square. 0°05. Ugly.
:( I am sory ...it must be so hard , the power and control still continues? and in the uranus sq sat, u are the uranus, right?..it'd make more sense
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starlitroad Knowflake Posts: 407 From: romania,Ns Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 01, 2014 01:20 AM
OHH! You are Loadedpistil! I own you an apology. On that thread with the "fun-game" I said smth like with a mars in scorpio we'd just kill eachother,(I'm mars in aries) or have a heated game( well meant for the opp sex) and I really mean it as a joke, but I felt bad about it when I saw your comment. My bff is a scorp with many scorp planets, I really didn't mean to say bad things abb that placement. I am sorry!IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 40543 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 25, 2014 11:58 AM
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