posted April 30, 2014 01:15 PM            

Maybe it's because I got my phone back on, I don't!

Ok, so if I do...it will just be a hi, how are ya, hope all is well.

My question is, should I or no? How will he take it/or respond

posted April 30, 2014 01:31 PM            

queen of swords/ 3 of pentacles/ 8 of cups

i think you should not call and hold back. there is third party involved here, or you are already aware of it? you need to be really honest with yourself and look into what you really seek from this guy? he wouldn't want to respond positively. it will actually surprise him quite a bit if you reach out to him. but i do see there is third party here.i think your emotions are pretty fluctuating at this time and you really want to push this situation further. but do get a handle on reality. don't rush. this is what i am getting from these cards. fee free to ask more or clarify.

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Originally posted by cherful24:
So, I wanted to reach out to Joe, the guy who I had dated for a few months. I don't know why I do..like I feel an urge! ha!

Maybe it's because I got my phone back on, I don't!

Ok, so if I do...it will just be a hi, how are ya, hope all is well.

My question is, should I or no? How will he take it/or respond

Feel free to leave a question!

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posted April 30, 2014 01:41 PM            

Ya, I've been thinking about him lately.

Keep looking elsehwere. I dont feel much energy around this place, sorry! Be perpared to wait for this one. If it does come thru, it wont be for months away.

Can you intern somewhere? That might be how you get in the door at a perm company. Recent work/experience has to show on your resume. I'd look into Volunteering or interning someone.

...I keep getting, keep looking, but I feel something, even if it's temp (which it looks) is coming around the corner...but not as soon as like a week or two.

Gosh, sorry this is taking you a while to find something!

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Originally posted by Britannia:
have applied for a job at HCL and wondering if this company will call me for an interview and hire me afterwards? should i expect something fruitful out of it or it's futile to think of them hiring me?
i have been applying for jobs constantly. i have hopes on this one because they don't need any specific background. they will first train people for the tool that employees will be working on later. it requires traveling too. so the work will involve going to different client sites and working on the tool.
what is the likelihood of me getting this job? or should i look elsewhere?i feel when i go for nterview the perso will lead me to somewhere else, another company may be?
can you give some insight into it?

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posted April 30, 2014 02:10 PM            

he seems to be in a relationship with someone. but there is something going on in their relationship. he is burdened and overstimulated. i would say that he still thinks about you and expects to meet you some day. but currently there is another woman, and they are dealing with an issue in their relationship.
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when you say intern, intern for whom? is there a person i need to meet? i am told that i will go to hcl for interview and meet a woman there. could she lead me to this intern position?

i am also thinking of learning a technical course in may. remember you had picked that i will be spending money on learning. i had no clue where that was coming from but all of a sudden it crossed my mind that until i get a job i shud get some certification done. am confused about which one though: SAP or QA....
can you tell me more about this intern position and how ill i get it? and in what kind of company?

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Originally posted by cherful24:
So, is she seeing someone....can you tell me about whether or not it's serious....when did he start? Gosh now I feel like a loser if this girl was someone he choose over me. Could she have been in the pic before me or even after me?

Ya, I've been thinking about him lately.

Keep looking elsehwere. I dont feel much energy around this place, sorry! Be perpared to wait for this one. If it does come thru, it wont be for months away.

Can you intern somewhere? That might be how you get in the door at a perm company. Recent work/experience has to show on your resume. I'd look into Volunteering or interning someone.

...I keep getting, keep looking, but I feel something, even if it's temp (which it looks) is coming around the corner...but not as soon as like a week or two.

Gosh, sorry this is taking you a while to find something!

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posted April 30, 2014 02:19 PM            

Keep applying. Apply to internships at different companies that you would like to work at. Again you have to do the applying.

It would be great if you got the training position and then yes I can see that leading into a job. But again, I dont see anything for months away.

I don't see you landing a job. I see you landing an internship or training program, but not a job. Something temp (which would be one other those) but not perm. You first have to gain skills, then you a perm will land.

So start applying for oppurtunities to intern or volunteer at a company until a job comes your way.

So, don't be looking for someone to walk into your life and say oh, we have an opening....i dont see it working that way. I see you having to get something recent on your resume...and what I am seeing is something like an internship or training.

Ok, so when did he start seeing this girl? Is this someone before me, was he dating her too, or after me?

Maybe he didn't find me attractive, I don't know really what happened. I felt like our last conversation, he said something that sounded like he was "putting in the friendzone" but I was so confused because he'd say I was beautiful, then I gained a bit of wieght and thought, will maybe hes not attracted to me anymore. Like I really don't know. Then my phone was off becaue I couldn't affoard to pay it, so its been like 2 months now.

....let me know any insight!

TY!

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Originally posted by Britannia:
sry! got an unwanted call

he seems to be in a relationship with someone. but there is something going on in their relationship. he is burdened and overstimulated. i would say that he still thinks about you and expects to meet you some day. but currently there is another woman, and they are dealing with an issue in their relationship.
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when you say intern, intern for whom? is there a person i need to meet? i am told that i will go to hcl for interview and meet a woman there. could she lead me to this intern position?

i am also thinking of learning a technical course in may. remember you had picked that i will be spending money on learning. i had no clue where that was coming from but all of a sudden it crossed my mind that until i get a job i shud get some certification done. am confused about which one though: SAP or QA....
can you tell me more about this intern position and how ill i get it? and in what kind of company?

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posted April 30, 2014 02:35 PM            

with you he was sexually attracted. but controlled himself because he thought that was the right think to do at that time. if you come into his life again he will be very confused and led to a point where he has to make a decision but i don;t see him making a decision. he will be stuck.

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intern positions are available for college students only. they strictly hire people who are going to college already. that's why i was asking if someone will help me with this. how exactly can it work out?

you had mentioned that i was looking through lots of financial statements and excel sheets? this is what SAP is all about that i am trying to learn from a person who takes classes over weekends. the batch will start on 10th of may and is a 2 months course. i am willing to learn this course. do you think this will help me find a job? or this person will lead me to an intern position?

posted April 30, 2014 02:47 PM            

He told me about his ex, who he ended things with because she was pushing to move in and he wasn't there/ready.

I wont reach out then. If I don't. Do u seem him at all doing so? Or will our paths never cross again?

Honestly, why are all these guys sexually attracted to me... I feel like they see me as that and never wife material? Is this true? WHy?

I'm smart and show it. Im very nurtuing and show it. But yet I keep getting guys who want to "f" me and not Marry me?!!

Whats going on!?

Ok, I dont know where you are, but here in CHicago....even adults can do internships. If u cant intern then volunteer. You need to be "working" somewhere taking class will help but you need actaul work expereince. Many companies here Love volunteers!!

Yes, I think taking that class, it will help for sure!

I don't see may, I see fall.

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Originally posted by Britannia:
okay this other woman is someone who has kind of reappeared in his life. he might have dated her before you came into his life. he is serious about her and want to get into something serious. but he has been waiting to hear from this other woman. may be it's long distance relationship? he is really keen to be with her and give it a name you know. a real time relationship~

with you he was sexually attracted. but controlled himself because he thought that was the right think to do at that time. if you come into his life again he will be very confused and led to a point where he has to make a decision but i don;t see him making a decision. he will be stuck.

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intern positions are available for college students only. they strictly hire people who are going to college already. that's why i was asking if someone will help me with this. how exactly can it work out?

you had mentioned that i was looking through lots of financial statements and excel sheets? this is what SAP is all about that i am trying to learn from a person who takes classes over weekends. the batch will start on 10th of may and is a 2 months course. i am willing to learn this course. do you think this will help me find a job? or this person will lead me to an intern position?

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posted April 30, 2014 03:01 PM            

i think guys do find you to be marriage material but something or else comes up. i see disappointment here, don't know why. either you get disappointed or them?

you will find man who is a marriage material for you but you need to wait little longer, first work on yourself, be independent financially and emotionally strong and perhaps travel to another place to meet this man. but he is out there and you will cross paths with him some day!
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what do you mean when you say "i don't see may, i see fall"

is it for a permanent job? or training itself happening in fall?

posted April 30, 2014 03:15 PM            

But I'm not gonna travel to meet someone. I live in the 3rd largest city! Boys everywhere How much longer do i have to wait for a marriage guy to come in?

Can u see what you see for my next romance? When, with who, etc

As for you:

I dont see accaptance into anything this May. In the Fall I do. Now if this is in Texas or wherever, I don't know. But the water and travel still pop up!

Your econd question: I dont see it being a perm job, its either training or temp/intern/vol.

Are you in the states? IF so, look on Craigslist, Meetups, volunteer websites or contact business in which you would like to learn from and see if they have any vol. oppurtunites.

I don't see much change. I feel like you're hitting a brick wall. You have to do something different to get noticed...again like apply for more appropraite things such as voluntering. The only things I see is in 1.5 months, I see you busy with something...so I dont know what that is.

But the way you have been doing it now, hasn't been working. If you are in the states, then there's a host of things for you to get invloved in/gain experience in.

The thing is, I don't see you really being realistic. I know you want a job, but I dont see that happening unless you do a training thing or vol., etc.

posted April 30, 2014 03:43 PM            

when i say travel, that means you might be traveling somewhere when you meet the person.

this year really looks like a year to go by the rules that have been set for you in motion by universe and practice patience and learn building a strong self, whatever it takes. i don't see partnership this year for you. sorry!!!!

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posted April 30, 2014 03:49 PM            

I think that's a long time. That's being patient. And in Sept I'll be 36. So, I do have an expiration date as I do want kids. I cant just sit and wait for a man to land on my lap.

Here's my rant! Don't mind me!!
I always think its funny that people say you have to go after things...but then when it come to love and if you dont have one, they're like, oh wait. when it's time he'll show up. OK we never say that about a job, a house, or anything else we want or a goal of ours!

So, I find that a tired run down exuse that people use.

I know in Nov Saturn will finally be out of my 7th (after 3 years!!!!!)

Do u see anything for 2015?

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Originally posted by Britannia:
well i don't see anyone coming in 2014 really. you will be disappointed. it's like you are hoping to find someone genuine to settle down with and you keep hoping and making your way through the coming months and ultimately getting disappointed because nobody will show up. the advice here that i am getting is to not think about it for a while and don't bother about not having a partner in your life at this time.
instead! think from your head not heart, be more rational towards this situation and don't rush into anything that comes your way mindlessly.

when i say travel, that means you might be traveling somewhere when you meet the person.

this year really looks like a year to go by the rules that have been set for you in motion by universe and practice patience and learn building a strong self, whatever it takes. i don't see partnership this year for you. sorry!!!!

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i'll look into volunteer positions again. i think i have no other choice now. thanks for your inputs. at least i will stop keeping my hopes high for getting a job any sooner

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posted April 30, 2014 04:07 PM            

i see 2015 to bring a major shift in your life. things that are not working will give way to fresh and new situations and perspective. i see shift in life. although i don't see any relationship but you are heading towards a clean up of sorts in 2015. and it will lead you to end the mourning phase you have been in for a while. with your intent and focus you will be able to get through it just fine. but honestly this is exactly what i see in these cards literally. no man, no specific event, nothing... still life giving way to something new and a change in perspective. you will feel victorious in the end and be proud. i again see travel in some way. may be you will consider to go somewhere that you are not considering at the moment? but i do see 2015 as an year of change for better overall not in just one aspect. your life in general will step on a better platform to put it straight.

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Originally posted by cherful24:
then that would be 3 years of having nobody (im talking about a rel. and not just dating).

I think that's a long time. That's being patient. And in Sept I'll be 36. So, I do have an expiration date as I do want kids. I cant just sit and wait for a man to land on my lap.

Here's my rant! Don't mind me!!
I always think its funny that people say you have to go after things...but then when it come to love and if you dont have one, they're like, oh wait. when it's time he'll show up. OK we never say that about a job, a house, or anything else we want or a goal of ours!

So, I find that a tired run down exuse that people use.

I know in Nov Saturn will finally be out of my 7th (after 3 years!!!!!)

Do u see anything for 2015?

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posted April 30, 2014 04:10 PM            

When then?

I always have someone, even if its just for a few months. I never go longer than 6 months without someone! You don't see anyone?! Whats so bad in my life that would need changing? Like the only think I feel, is a man and a family. other than that I cant see anything that Id need a shift in...what do you see?

Also, do u see when a new job is coming for me?

posted April 30, 2014 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
So in 2015, no man either?

When then?

I always have someone, even if its just for a few months. I never go longer than 6 months without someone! You don't see anyone?! Whats so bad in my life that would need changing? Like the only think I feel, is a man and a family. other than that I cant see anything that Id need a shift in...what do you see?

Also, do u see when a new job is coming for me?

TY!

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posted April 30, 2014 04:43 PM            

I get a vision of you not having recent enough work experience. It's the work experience that will get you a job.

It's like they know you know how to do it, but it's like you dont actually do it, because you havent had a job recently doing it.

So, the thing that pops out is get in somewhere and do actual work. Hopefully you can train and do work at the sametime. BUt in terms of training, I still see Fall time.

Of course go with your gut!

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Originally posted by Britannia:
can you tell me if i learn sap course will it help me get a job? the course will end in june starting first week of may,perhaps 2 months. will it help me in finding a job?

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posted April 30, 2014 04:49 PM            

or could be that you were like a family before,lived together at some point? i don't see a relationship yet. but you are advised to not invest in him. he will leave you disappointed and longing for more. it's a hard truth that you need to learn to let go of something that sure hurts.

what i also see here is that you should be looking out for men who you generally dismiss and not find yourself attracted to. who are steady, slow to reach out to you, very straight and sorted in their heads and AGAIN there is a possibility of travel(though it can only be pointing at waiting with patience) and the one you will find after waiting for quite some time.
you need to change your perspective quite a bit to find a man who will give you long lasting joy in a relationship and be strong and steady.

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Originally posted by cherful24:
It will help. But I dont see it landing you a job.

I get a vision of you not having recent enough work experience. It's the work experience that will get you a job.

It's like they know you know how to do it, but it's like you dont actually do it, because you havent had a job recently doing it.

So, the thing that pops out is get in somewhere and do actual work. Hopefully you can train and do work at the sametime. BUt in terms of training, I still see Fall time.

Of course go with your gut!

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posted April 30, 2014 04:52 PM            

What is it that I need change/my perspective?

how is my perspective now, that needs changing?

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Originally posted by Britannia:
i see a man, a leader like personality and very outgoing/energetic. i see him entering your life and you will be shocked to see him. may be you have known him in the past and are not sure about him really. may be you didn't trust him or were not sure what he wanted. he will want to be with you,he will like you but because of social bindings he won't be very forthcoming but patient. you on the other hand will be less inclined to move towards him. i believe he is someone from your past, someone who has a connection with your family and you might meet him through family only.

or could be that you were like a family before,lived together at some point? i don't see a relationship yet. but you are advised to not invest in him. he will leave you disappointed and longing for more. it's a hard truth that you need to learn to let go of something that sure hurts.

what i also see here is that you should be looking out for men who you generally dismiss and not find yourself attracted to. who are steady, slow to reach out to you, very straight and sorted in their heads and AGAIN there is a possibility of travel(though it can only be pointing at waiting with patience) and the one you will find after waiting for quite some time.
you need to change your perspective quite a bit to find a man who will give you long lasting joy in a relationship and be strong and steady.

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posted April 30, 2014 04:54 PM            

But if you want to try for this upcoming one, go for it!

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Originally posted by Britannia:
you mean you see me training on real job in fall only not before that?
what month when you say fall?

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