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Topic: Please help -can anyone do a reading?
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LuckyStar
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Elysian Fields
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 02:20 PM
  
I am so sad. A friend of mine that I simply adore had to severe ties with me. Why? Because his new girlfriend felt threatened by me. I am married, I am a good girl and I don't cross the line. I absolutely loved having him in my life. He admitted that he had to severe our friendship because she "sensed that he is attracted to me". I think there is more to it. I miss him. Will he come back? IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1965
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 02:27 PM
Sorry, no...I don't see him in your life as a friend, again.Let him "move on". Don't reach out. He's actually going to go down on a happy path.  quote:
Originally posted by LuckyStar:
I am so sad. A friend of mine that I simply adore had to severe ties with me. Why? Because his new girlfriend felt threatened by me. I am married, I am a good girl and I don't cross the line. I absolutely loved having him in my life. He admitted that he had to severe our friendship because she "sensed that he is attracted to me". I think there is more to it. I miss him. Will he come back?
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MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 661
From: Ingerland
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 30, 2014 02:34 PM
Gimme 5. IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 661
From: Ingerland
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 30, 2014 02:40 PM
I did a long term read- 5 card general with you and him. (1) Judgement, rx
(2) II of Wands
(3) Strenght
(4) Page of Swords
(5) X of Wands. First, he made a judgement call to keep his wife happy. Your paths will cross again, but you'll make the decision to close the door to him. I sense resentment on your part to be honest. I see you persevering through without his support for the time being and being overburdened. Close to breaking point right now. Will he come back? Not as a friend he used to be, but rather as a fleeting one who comes in and out of your life as he pleases. No real support is the message I am constantly hearing. Hope this resonates with you.
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LuckyStar
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Elysian Fields
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 04:45 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
Sorry, no...I don't see him in your life as a friend, again.Let him "move on". Don't reach out. He's actually going to go down on a happy path.
Hi Cherful,
Thanks for the info. It would make me very happy for him if this is a happy path. He is a little misguided in relationships. He cheated on his ex-wife for 10 years of their 17 years together. And I know and like her very much. I did not mean to get close to him but we shared a lot of interests and were really there for each other in a very platonic way. Which I think was really healthy for him. To see a woman not solely as a route to sexual fulfillment but instead as a kind and compassionate companion. I also taught his how to love himself. I wanted him to find another girlfriend and I knew our friendship would change but hoped it would still be there. I feel his new girlfriend does not understand. If he and I were going to get involved it would have happened a while back before she ever entered. I feel like I am being punished for his past. Which is unfair because I had nothing to do with his infidelities. Do you see if they are going to stay together. I have a feeling he will come back if they split apart. However, if he is truly happy then I wish him all my best, just still miss him.
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LuckyStar
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Elysian Fields
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 04:49 PM
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
I did a long term read- 5 card general with you and him. (1) Judgement, rx
(2) II of Wands
(3) Strenght
(4) Page of Swords
(5) X of Wands. First, he made a judgement call to keep his wife happy. Your paths will cross again, but you'll make the decision to close the door to him. I sense resentment on your part to be honest. I see you persevering through without his support for the time being and being overburdened. Close to breaking point right now. Will he come back? Not as a friend he used to be, but rather as a fleeting one who comes in and out of your life as he pleases. No real support is the message I am constantly hearing. Hope this resonates with you.
Hi MinceyMouse,
She is not his wife. A girlfriend that met me one day for 3 minutes and then 3 days later he sent me an email stating he could not be my friend anymore. To say I was upset is an understatement we shared a lot of personal things with each other and it was a warm and kind friendship. I completely understand why he had to do it but feel it is a severe move. I am the one who is married not he and I have stayed faithful to my husband and allowed an appropriate friendship to exist. It just hurts.
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1965
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 04:50 PM
honestly, yes, I do see them being together for a while...long time. If they make it to marriage, time will tell.I have to tell you though, he's ready to let go of you. You "served" your purpose to him/in his life and he's applying it. So just know that you did make a difference but I have to tell you that I don't see romantic interest on his side towards you. It certinaly was a spirtual relationship, but he's like a bird that can now fly on his own. And he doesn't want anything complicated in his life. It suck that you are getting the short end of the stick, because you are!!!! Helping him and really what do you get? NOt even his lasting friendship. Can I ask a question...can you see when I'll get a new job, please? IP: Logged |
LuckyStar
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Elysian Fields
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 04:55 PM
Another question for Minceymouse and cheerfulIs there more to it? I don't understand how a quick meeting at a school function would create such a severe response. She also started to search me online, I received all these email alerts the day he sent me the email. I just feel that something else is going on. IP: Logged |
LuckyStar
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Elysian Fields
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 04:59 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
honestly, yes, I do see them being together for a while...long time. If they make it to marriage, time will tell.I have to tell you though, he's ready to let go of you. You "served" your purpose to him/in his life and he's applying it. So just know that you did make a difference but I have to tell you that I don't see romantic interest on his side towards you. It certinaly was a spirtual relationship, but he's like a bird that can now fly on his own. And he doesn't want anything complicated in his life. It suck that you are getting the short end of the stick, because you are!!!! Helping him and really what do you get? NOt even his lasting friendship. Can I ask a question...can you see when I'll get a new job, please?
I do have a packed 12th house and have been told that I am psychic but I don't feel it. I will do the cards for you and see what comes out. I am not a good psychic though. Give me a few minutes.
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1965
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 05:00 PM
I dont feel something else going one. I honestly feel a huge amount of sexual chemistry, likeability and a navie sense that "this is the one"and they are trying to perserve it/that feeling, hoping it's going to acutally come a reality.
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Originally posted by LuckyStar:
Another question for Minceymouse and cheerfulIs there more to it? I don't understand how a quick meeting at a school function would create such a severe response. She also started to search me online, I received all these email alerts the day he sent me the email. I just feel that something else is going on.
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LuckyStar
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Elysian Fields
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 05:22 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
I dont feel something else going one. I honestly feel a huge amount of sexual chemistry, likeability and a navie sense that "this is the one"and they are trying to perserve it/that feeling, hoping it's going to acutally come a reality.
I think you are right on. I have seen their composite and they have a nice grand trine in water however there are afflictions. He also has a stellium in Gemini I mean sun, moon, mars venus and mercury - so I understand and don't judge his infidelities. Also the reason why I have kept a distance. He is also very handsome and she not at all. So when you see them together it's like what's going on.
They do have very strong sexual aspects too but a terrible venus Saturn venus t square and venus Saturn sun t square so we will see. He and I have a composite sun severely afflicted with a Uranus opposition so I knew it was a matter of time. Regardless, I still had hoped to enjoy the friendship regardless who he is with because our composite sucks but our synastry is awesome.
The statement "served your purpose" is very unsettling to me. I feel it though, I feel that I got him ready for her. I know he is very sexually attracted to me. We have double whammy exact venus opposite mars and in composite too. If he does feel that way then I should quickly tie this loose end up and move on. I just cannot see a person as "serving a purpose" he and I are so different.
What is your line of work? Where are you looking for a job? I need to focus on you as I do the cards. My gut says you will get something.
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1965
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 05:34 PM
damn!!! you did get him ready for her. but all that shines is not gold! It will be a co-dependency rel. down the line. So it will work for them, but you seem to have your **** together and could probably never be with someone like that...I know your married. But ya, i get it. my ex is hot and his new wife who he choose over me, is obese and average looking in the face...but does have money!Ok so, I work at a unviersity hospital. I am applying for simialr jobs here, and at other places, but mostly medical assocations...doing admin type of work. ALso, if you can see about a guy coming in...any details that would be great!! IP: Logged |
LuckyStar
Knowflake Posts: 123
From: Elysian Fields
Registered: Oct 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 09:03 PM
Sorry this took so long. I had to cook dinner and I had an appointment this evening.
This was my Celtic cross reading. I feel it means that you will find a job and perhaps apprentice at the job, but there will be some anxiety but you must keep at it. I also got the lovers card and 2 of cups I believe this is a positive sign that you will meet someone at the new job that can blossom into a romance. Some barriers and obstacles will be there but you must work at it.
4 of swords ¡Vr
8 of pentacles
Devil ¡V r
6 of swords
4 of pentacles ¡V r
Lovers
7 cups- r
2 of cups
8 of rods-r
9 of rods
(breakdown of what each card means)
Guarded advancement, quick to recover what is lost; apprenticeship; release from bondage, first steps towards enlightenment; success after anxiety; obstacles, some set backs; lovers„³ possible romance, harmony confidence; strong will, determination; love, friendship, partnership, marriage; delay, quarrels; barriers to overcome.
Lastly, use positive affirmations and believe in yourself and you will reach your hearts desires. Don¡¦t worry about your age, women stress too much when they get to 35. We all want the family and husband but I want you to think clearly and chose wisely and not just jump into it.
I work in 2 hospitals and have been in the medical community for over 25 years, if you need some more personal advice about jobs and maneuvering the hospital landscape email me at ...IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 1965
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 09:05 PM
TY!does it say anything about when I'll get a job or what the job is in? ..... or any details about the guy!? IP: Logged |
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