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cherful24
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posted May 02, 2014 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel that I have to say this, excuse me for being so blunt…but I find this to be an issue.

I have been giving readings for 12 years now. I do not pull cards. I use my clairvoyance abilities in which I was born with. Thus, using that energy when doing readings, takes A LOT of energy on the reader (or at least me anyways). To tap into another person’s energy….plus a third party’s energy, is a lot work. It becomes mentally exhausting. It is not the same as shuffling and pulling cards…as it’s more than just intuition that’s being used.

First: If you just want a reading…then ask for one. But if you put “exchange’ then honor your word. I think you’ll find many people on here that simply give readings and don’t care if they don’t get one in return….but please don’t use bait (“using the word exchange”) in order to get a reading, and then simply don’t honor word. Sometimes we forget, but when it’s a habit, it’s more of a character issue.

Second: I read the threads, even the ones that don’t have me on it. I can see when “stories change” On one thread you’re dating, on someone else’s thread, you broke up…all within 5 minutes of positing! Or other similar changing of stories….and even changing of wording or how you’re asking the question. Or not putting the person you’re asking about, their name or initials…only to go back and edit it….I see that, I catch it. It’s important that your questions at the time you write is focused and clear…not having another person in mind…or just throwing out the question and seeing what happens.

You’re only hurting the chance of a successful answer.

Third: Who cares if someone asks the same question to different readers…as you all know not everyone can tap into your energy, some answers are plain wrong, some readers can give more details than others or even a different persepective.

This is a learning forum. SO when I read for people, I want to know what was right, what was wrong. But when act like I was wrong and then I see on another thread….your story to me was INNCORRECT…that ****** me off.

Nobody is right 100% of the time. But when I am made to believe my reading was wrong, when it fact it wasn’t….that’s BS and should not be tolerated. First, I don’t appreciate it…I have to then doubt my energy only to discover a week later, your info to me was misleading. what’s the point of this being a learning forum??

Don’t think you can construct your question to get a better outcome. Furthermore…don’t assume and fight and defend that your reading is write. Again, nobody is 100% right. I just had a reading like that where even though I said I don’t have a family, the reader kept saying a mother or mother figure…that should tell you that your energy is NOT tapped it accurately…don’t come back with more BS to prove your right.

Stop saying you’re dating when you’re not. Or you don’t say you don’t have a job, but really do.

Notice how on a lot of my readings I’m like…..really???? Because I know it’s the truth.


I'm simply done with site. I can't cont. to hone in my skills when there is not too dishonesty on this site. Its not helping anyone and again, there is no point to have such a forum.

Thanks to you all have let me read for them and who have read for me!

All my best and good luck to you all

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kaianna
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posted May 02, 2014 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kaianna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I haven't been on here long, but I've noticed the same thing so only do exchanges with people who look reliable. We like your readings don't go, some people just canhandle the truth! Stay for those who are trustworthy

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Twirl
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posted May 02, 2014 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not sure what set this off? But best of luck of course
& did I just see you coming into more money? (Think I
Tried a Lenny for that in the past?)

By the way, not to nitpick, but I can assure you that shuffling cards does also cost a lot of energy (I would say the same amount). It needs high focus & being tuned into the others energy field...

Anyhow, rest well & good luck with the next stages in your life

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moonstruck87
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posted May 02, 2014 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bye! Best of luck wherever you end up.

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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted May 02, 2014 04:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry you feel that way It has been great exchanging and giving readings with you. I wish you the best luck, cherful.

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DaniPepper87
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posted May 02, 2014 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah Cherful!! It's sad to say goodbye. I wrote down every reading we exchange...

I wish you all the best things in life you seek dear!!

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littlecloud
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posted May 02, 2014 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am sorry to see you go :-(

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St@r2013
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posted May 02, 2014 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Cherful,

We've only did an exchange once but it was interesting to see how you work and the information you receive.

I believe you got a new job? Best of luck with that.

Bye

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poochycat
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posted May 02, 2014 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi cheerful,

So sorry to see you go! I too wrote a long letter on this forum and came VERY close to saying good bye as well. I stuck it out a little longer to see if things would change. Not a chance. So now I just do a few readings for those I feel comfortable with and they have my e-mail. There are many different personalities on the site, unfortunately very needy seems to be the trend so ppl will use a different name, jump around and re phrase their questions etc. Or they are looking for something else entirely which borders on neediness. But it all boils down to me first and maybe I'll give you a reading if I have to or will simply make something up just to get that precious reading. Asking the same question over and over again is what gets me. So I am in the same boat.

Good luck with your journey in astrology. I wish you the very best. Poochy

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Chryseis
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posted May 02, 2014 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chryseis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:


"This is a learning forum. SO when I read for people, I want to know what was right, what was wrong."

Only normal...

"...Furthermore…don’t assume and fight and defend that your reading is write. Again, nobody is 100% right."

So true...


"I just had a reading like that where even though I said I don’t have a family, the reader kept saying a mother or mother figure…that should tell you that your energy is NOT tapped it accurately…don’t come back with more BS to prove your right."

Oh did you mean me...oh sorry, I must have been "not being 100% right" in that reading, but didn't you say that no one is 100% right...and please refer to first statement above when the reader is of course curious to know what parts seem right or wrong etc....sigh....


and what BS did I come back with anyway - was it when I re-asked "so there definitely is no other mother type person?" or whatever I asked.

Oh for shame!!...the BS!!!!

Please, when you come back to the site under a different username, please remember - in your words, "I'm totally not connected...not right at all...and that I make more BS up to prove that I'm right".

If the readings I give are wrong for you, then forget it - move on.... why make such a big deal...after all "its a learning site" you say, and "no one is 100% right", tends to make me think I was spot on. Though I did get your age mucked up - I didn't think you could possibly be in your mid 30s now.

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cherful24
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posted May 02, 2014 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To answer your reading directly....First, your over-reacting. Re-read what I wrote. Coming back to defend a reading when the "answer" you got...knowing it was wrong as when I said in my question to you, I don't have any family", THAT'S WHEN YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID...I'M NOT TAPPING IN CORRECTLY...instead you gave me the reading.
..........do you understand better, of what I'm saying how defending a reading instead of simply stating, Hey, I got incorrect so I can't correct, would have been the best thing to do?

again, I don't have family so the other answer of me marrying someone family related, CAN'T BE CORRECT EITHER. And of course I the other one about it possibly marrying within my own family...should have told you your energy was not connected.

Second: I would not lie about not having a family. That's sick.

third: Do not put words in my mouth...you are quoting me saying
"and that I make more BS up to prove that I'm right"....if you look at my reply to you, I never said that. I simply said I didn't feel you were connected. SO PLEASE DON'T LIE. I don't appreciate you lying about things I never said.

Fourth: I gave you feedback...and that's what this form is about...I didn't make it a big deal, as you say. Your name was not even mentioned on my post just now. I simply gave an example on how when a reader is clearly is not connected, they shouldn't defend their reading.

Coming at someone like this, is imature. Do not respond to me any further.

quote:
Originally posted by Chryseis:
and what BS did I come back with anyway - was it when I re-asked "so there definitely is no other mother type person?" or whatever I asked.

Oh for shame!!...the BS!!!!

Please, when you come back to the site under a different username, please remember - in your words, "I'm totally not connected...not right at all...and that I make more BS up to prove that I'm right".

If the readings I give are wrong for you, then forget it - move on.... why make such a big deal...after all "its a learning site" you say, and "no one is 100% right", tends to make me think I was spot on. Though I did get your age mucked up - I didn't think you could possibly be in your mid 30s now.


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Chryseis
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posted May 02, 2014 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chryseis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
To answer your reading directly....First, your over-reacting. Re-read what I wrote. Coming back to defend a reading when the "answer" you got...knowing it was wrong as when I said in my question to you, I don't have any family", THAT'S WHEN YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID...I'M NOT TAPPING IN CORRECTLY...instead you gave me the reading.
..........do you understand better, of what I'm saying how defending a reading instead of simply stating, Hey, I got incorrect so I can't correct, would have been the best thing to do?

again, I don't have family so the other answer of me marrying someone family related, CAN'T BE CORRECT EITHER. And of course I the other one about it possibly marrying within my own family...should have told you your energy was not connected.

Second: I would not lie about not having a family. That's sick.

third: Do not put words in my mouth...you are quoting me saying
"and that I make more BS up to prove that I'm right"....if you look at my reply to you, I never said that. I simply said I didn't feel you were connected. SO PLEASE DON'T LIE. I don't appreciate you lying about things I never said.

Fourth: I gave you feedback...and that's what this form is about...I didn't make it a big deal, as you say. Your name was not even mentioned on my post just now. I simply gave an example on how when a reader is clearly is not connected, they shouldn't defend their reading.

Coming at someone like this, is imature. Do not respond to me any further.


oh lord... what a totally ballsed up response - and, "please don't lie"!?!, you have to be joking surely - go back and read what I said in the reading and responses - I'm not the one lying - or is it just too much too ask for you to get some clarity here.


chuckle

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EmpressMendez
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posted May 02, 2014 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Closing this to prevent further "fights".

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