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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 07, 2014 09:05 PM
Are either of u on??I wanted to see about doing a trade.... basically I did not get the OBGYN position and wanted to know where I fell short ? Is there anything I did that stood out to them that was negative? or anything that I should be more mindful of for the next time I interview somewhere else TY! IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 02:01 PM
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 02:20 PM
Hi Cherful, how are you? I'm sorry you did not get the position. I really saw something there for you. I would love to exchange but I want to address something first to make sure the air is cleared: I noticed in your goodbye thread you talked about people saying they're dating when they're not. There was a thread I said me and the Aries were dating and we weren't, so you can see why I wondered if that was directed towards me. If it was, I said that because it was easier than explaining how we were talking, and him and I's relationship status wasn't the point of my post in that specific thread anyway so I thought nothing of it. If it wasn't directed towards me then it wasn't directed towards me and that's that. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 02:33 PM
It actually wasn't. It wasn't directed to any single person, in fact. It's an observance I noticed with lots. But I was trying to make the point that when that happens, it messed with the energy because I left doubting what's being told to me by guides and it's almost like a fight to get the real info out....so my guides will just give up, and then I'll get the wrong info...because I was giving them wrong info...so in the end my readings won't be right.I get that one thinks it easier/faster to explain it in such a manner ..I totally get that! But for my readings, essential I have exact info. I rather have somebody explain the situation because that's the information I would take my guides but what got me mad is that people would not explain it ... instead dismiss it as I was wrong when I would catch them telling a different story to another reader. but yet having your appendix miss my reading is incorrect, when they gave me incorrect information to begin with IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 02:39 PM
Okay! I get that's frustrating too, I just wanted to make sure everything was okay beforehand. I'll read on your interview. For me… I feel I have to cut a lot of friends off and I'm wondering if I will have to initiate that. NJW in particular, as well as JLR. Both girls. What's going on with them and me? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 02:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: Are either of u on??I wanted to see about doing a trade.... basically I did not get the OBGYN position and wanted to know where I fell short ? Is there anything I did that stood out to them that was negative? or anything that I should be more mindful of for the next time I interview somewhere else TY!
The High Priestess - 7 of Pentacles - The Hanged Man If you fell short in anything, I think they felt you were too relaxed or quiet. Otherwise I would take these cards to mean they already had chosen someone at the time of your interview but were reviewing all their options and waiting to hear back from her. I know it's not very long so if you have more questions that's fine. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 03:00 PM
I felt too! IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 03:04 PM
I don't think u should to be honest. I keep getting they will lead u to growth! Keep them but don't let confuse us u will learn a good deal on what u want and u r looking for and finally going to get tired of attracting the same types of peopleSo I sense both are in ur life, creating a mess for a reason! QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa: Okay! I get that's frustrating too, I just wanted to make sure everything was okay beforehand.
I'll read on your interview. For me… I feel I have to cut a lot of friends off and I'm wondering if I will have to initiate that. NJW in particular, as well as JLR. Both girls. What's going on with them and me?[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 03:08 PM
They're messy themselves. They lie all the time and pretend to be people they're not. I don't feel like I do that so I don't know what growth they'll bring me. I've known both of them for years. JLR did help me mature a lot and I do see NJW gives a lot, but the lying and manipulation they both do drives me insane. Plus being inconsiderate…did Cappy put that status up for me? IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 03:13 PM
What status?Good...ur maturing so u know the value they are bringing to ur life........ Though they're is a mess! That doesn't mean ur life has to be a mess....but because they are...it's gonna help u grow, even though it's a pain! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 03:26 PM
His Facebook status. It's from a song. But it says "You said "Hey, I love you, but no f.cking way" IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 03:35 PM
no I really don't get that's for youIP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 03:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: no I really don't get that's for you
I told him I missed him the other night, lightly, and he said "Right." I can't tell if he cared i said that or not. Do you have more questions? IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 03:47 PM
yes I went your take on Jason as well.I don't think he see that I'm coming from hand out of emotions or that I want to be with mess up his new life or whatever. I sent almost the opposite because I'm the one that had walked away from him. and when I do talk to him I'm not want to keep it short and gets off the phone in a rush .... so let me know what your take on it is and we're he thinks I'm coming from its not that he cares and doesn't care he's not sensing if you were truthful and I feel that's the problem with a lot of the guys they don't know where you're coming from and what your intent is and if you're actually meaning it may also get a sense that they feel that you are going to get out of their lives are just confused with him though I feel more of a defense mechanism so I think not intentionally you might have hurts him hurt his ego IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 04:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: yes I went your take on Jason as well.I don't think he see that I'm coming from hand out of emotions or that I want to be with mess up his new life or whatever. I sent almost the opposite because I'm the one that had walked away from him. and when I do talk to him I'm not want to keep it short and gets off the phone in a rush …. so let me know what your take on it is and we're he thinks I'm coming from
You mean you're the one who keeps it short and you're trying to show you don't want to mess up his life, etc? quote: its not that he cares and doesn't care he's not sensing if you were truthful and I feel that's the problem with a lot of the guys they don't know where you're coming from and what your intent is and if you're actually meaning it may also get a sense that they feel that you are going to get out of their lives are just confusedwith him though I feel more of a defense mechanism so I think not intentionally you might have hurts him hurt his ego
Yeah that's true about intent, I do the flirty-friend thing. And then I do the direct thing with people who try to do the flirty-friend thing to me. Yeah I probably did hurt his ego, but I'm thinking I was always sincere with him, how long is he going to hold that over my head. Will him and I ever reconnect / have a better connection? Let me know what you mean by Jason, I'll be around for a few hours. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 04:59 PM
yeah I think in time you guys will because I don't see him going away so there's this want of actually being connected to you. I don't see him letting it go. I think you guys have to get to a better place before he fully trust you.... again he's hanging on and bring it over your head out of the fence and protection. it's one of those things that you'll just have to ignore when he does itso Jason.... is he okay in life or is he going through something? I am not sure why he said what he did so I don't know if he wants me to be concerned about him and ask him.... or if he's just so used to expressing his emotions with me that it just kinda came out and maybe he was like oh wait I shouldn't have done that to her I should take my concern to my wife? but by me not saying anything and basically getting him off the phone I feel like I might have hurt his feelings me and Jason have always had a good connection and I value his friendship and I know he does he's mine.g. Even thou he just got married he has never stopped contacting me on friendly terms and I don't want to lose his friendship. so first I want to see if he is ok or if he is not OK. second I want to know did I hurt his feelings what did it look like I didn't care about his feelings and should I perhaps ask him if he's OK. and if I do so how will he respond? did him helping me with this lawsuit bring up past feelings or emotions for him...... again I didn't ask him to help me with it he totally took over IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 05:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24:
so Jason.... is he okay in life or is he going through something? so first I want to see if he is ok or if he is not OK. second I want to know did I hurt his feelings what did it look like I didn't care about his feelings and should I perhaps ask him if he's OK. and if I do so how will he respond? did him helping me with this lawsuit bring up past feelings or emotions for him...... again I didn't ask him to help me with it he totally took over
he didn't respond to my last message and it was simply asking him why he didn't like the Big Lebowski lol. But i have a feeling he is so much Capricorn than Sag, and can tell when it's just filler talk and doesn't want that anymore. Oh well. I don't know why I keep going back to him when I do all the work now. ____ Is he okay? The Sun and 6 of Cups. Yes, he's okay I would think from these cards. I also felt he's serious but he's balanced. Even if he wasn't okay, he wouldn't do anything sudden. He's okay but he remembers the past. Did you hurt his feelings? Yes, I think so. He was trying to open up to you and felt you were a tad sharp, or your tone was very blunt you were "very" like… "WALL" that's what I keep getting. And he wasn't expecting it. He needed to feel connected or understood in some way. 5 of Cups 8 of Wands 3 of Pentacles In regards to how he'll respond to you the first thing I got in my head was it won't be like you expect. I think he will definitely emote something in his response to you, it may be jealousy or bitterness or it will hurt your feelings in some way. I feel from the cards it's something that will hit you right in the chest. He knows this. The cards may also be a reflection of him having his guard up with you even though he loves you unconditionally. OR it could be saying he will appreciate you asking and you'll hear from him right away. Wheel of Fortune Queen of Cups Knight of Swords.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 05:20 PM
I know you're sick of this question but can you tell me why i didn't like N? And how he felt seeing me Friday?IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 05:32 PM
I knew how I felt like I did hurt him but he's married.... like me cutting it short and not letting him go into whatever it was he's going to go into felt like the right thing to do....I felt bad to be honest I did. do you see why he was trying to open up to me? is he feeling okay with his marriage are they okay? I don't think he would ever try to have an affair with me but I know.... Feelings might not have died completey. and trust me if he ever want to say I'm ending this marriage and then Brenda do you think you want to give it another shot I would say yes..... and it's because I know that would never happen is why I'm so short with him and get him off the phone so it looks like I'm not at all having emotions towards him but when I do that I know it seems like I hurt him. there's explaining that I want to give him on convos that we've had and how and why I answered those questions..... again I feel as if I've hurt him and left him thinking I never cared..... but he's married and I know I can't answer how I would want to and I know I can't explain it because he's married I do want to reach out and say hey is everything okay, you don't sound okay......... my direct question on that is he going to come back at me saying you know what Brenda this is what you did this is what you said..... so why do you even care. I have a strong feeling that if I ask him if he's okay for whatever reason I'm going to somehow be blamed for him not being OK.... or am I feeling incorrect Ben with urs! quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: he didn't respond to my last message and it was simply asking him why he didn't like the Big Lebowski lol. But i have a feeling he is so much Capricorn than Sag, and can tell when it's just filler talk and doesn't want that anymore. Oh well. I don't know why I keep going back to him when I do all the work now.____ Is he okay? The Sun and 6 of Cups. Yes, he's okay I would think from these cards. I also felt he's serious but he's balanced. Even if he wasn't okay, he wouldn't do anything sudden. He's okay but he remembers the past. Did you hurt his feelings? Yes, I think so. He was trying to open up to you and felt you were a tad sharp, or your tone was very blunt you were "very" like… "WALL" that's what I keep getting. And he wasn't expecting it. He needed to feel connected or understood in some way. 5 of Cups 8 of Wands 3 of Pentacles In regards to how he'll respond to you the first thing I got in my head was it won't be like you expect. I think he will definitely emote something in his response to you, it may be jealousy or bitterness or it will hurt your feelings in some way. I feel from the cards it's something that will hit you right in the chest. He knows this. The cards may also be a reflection of him having his guard up with you even though he loves you unconditionally. OR it could be saying he will appreciate you asking and you'll hear from him right away. Wheel of Fortune Queen of Cups Knight of Swords.
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cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 05:36 PM
it doesn't seem like he was going anywhere in his life. I don't think you are realizing the caliber of the men that you want!On paper he seems good but when you're with him and take stock of what's really going on in this life and his direction , that doesn't seem to interest u, you can't be bothered. don't beat yourself up about why you weren't going to make it happen with this guy because your gut was telling you that you needed someone who thought better about their own self and showed it! you need more than just a nice guy. have you tried dating guys that had a lot of Mars in theIr chart?
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I know you're sick of this question but can you tell me why i didn't like N? And how he felt seeing me Friday?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 05:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: it doesn't seem like he was going anywhere in his life. I don't think you are realizing the caliber of the men that you want!On paper he seems good but when you're with him and take stock of what's really going on in this life and his direction , that doesn't seem to interest u, you can't be bothered. don't beat yourself up about why you weren't going to make it happen with this guy because your gut was telling you that you needed someone who thought better about their own self and showed it! you need more than just a nice guy. have you tried dating guys that had a lot of Mars in theIr chart?
This is true. The caliber of men I want … well, I get intimidated when I'm actually around them. I don't think they'd be interested because they're 10's in a way and I'm like well obviously they'd want girls who looked like 10's. YEAH his life was like two completely opposite ends of the spectrum. Party animal yet a corrections officer, and almost 30. What?! Friday was awkward for me. It was the first time I felt he may have liked me more than I liked him. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 05:40 PM
I'll be back with yours. ATM I'm recording a singing video, shouldn't take longer than 10 min.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 08, 2014 05:59 PM
I forgot I have to meet a friend at 5:15 and it's 5:00 so I will have to do these later tonight or possibly tomorrow Cherful, sorry for being last minute.IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2122 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 09, 2014 12:25 AM
you're recording is singing video? Fun!!!and don't worry about mine I ended up sending him a gift card for Starbucks via Facebook and letting him know I appreciate him being a big help to me QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa: I forgot I have to meet a friend at 5:15 and it's 5:00 so I will have to do these later tonight or possibly tomorrow Cherful, sorry for being last minute.[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7212 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 09, 2014 12:54 AM
Are you sure? I just got home and was going to do it. If you have a different one that's okay too. And yeah Just on my laptop lol, nothing fancy. IP: Logged |