posted May 08, 2014 07:48 AM            

I'm thinking maybe a general love/romance spread for this year?

I'd be willing to do an exchange with you if you would like- a synastry or composite reading?

posted May 08, 2014 02:12 PM            

Love for them in 2014:

3 of Cups 4 of Wands 10 of Cups

This looks good, eh? I feel as far as love and friendship go, this year should be bursting with it for you. What I worry is that it'll be constantly rotating people in and out, but overall the energy feels very "busy." You should meet people you have more in common with, or at settings with a buffer in them if you're shy or find it hard to make conversation at first. Things that come to mind for you have to do with nature, or art, or the zoo. Not a bar though as the 3 of Cups card (in the Wild Unknown) could indicate. I think you are in for a treat and meeting some lively spirits though indeed. Is there a couple you hang out with regularly?

6 of Pentacles The Tower Strength

Ah, okay here we go…. again, I feel positivity from this. You will go through a change and perhaps have to cut some dead ends off but ultimately it will do wonders for your state of being. You'll be seen as very courageous and brave for doing this. My other thought is that this row represents a new person coming into your life specifically. They're wise, romantic, hairy… lol. But very sweet and noble. You may get a surprise from this person unexpectedly or find out some information that surprises you about them.

The Empress The Chariot 5 of Cups

I feel this is describing you this year. You appear to be open, and feminine, pretty, headstrong and determined…but something is missing for you, or it's hard to make you happy. You surprise other people sometimes by completely going left…I think part of you does this on purpose. If this is accurate at all then I would say you throw people off so they don't take you for granted, but since you get back on course almost always eventually this happens anyway. I think you have been looking for someone who can kind of lift you up too if you suffer from sadness at times. You need someone generous with a deep capacity to give and give.

posted May 09, 2014 08:37 AM            

First, yes I am definitely the kind of person who puts others first and nurtures them over myself (Cancer ASC plus venus and moon in the 12th house.). I am consciously and unconsciously sacrificing my needs for others. You're right, I have suffered emotionally from this! It was this very issue that led to a recent divorce and so I'm starting a new chapter of my life where hopefully I will find more balance.

As far as love cards for 2014: wow. I'm very pleased with the 4 of wands and 10 of cups you mentioned spending more time in nature this year, along with art. Would this possibly include any music involvement at all as I LOVE music...

Very interesting that you mentioned hanging out with a "specific couple" because YES, I have been doing this for about 6 months now. They were my first new friends post divorce and we are becoming very good friends. I enjoy their company ALOT

So the 6 of Pents, Tower, Strength: I agree with you that I believe this describes the person I will meet, as I have been cutting off/weeding out people and situations that have been toxic for me. I LOVE the fact that you see him as noble, kind, sweet, and ROMANTIC! Sounds like my Knight in Shining Armor Neptune is very prominent in my chart- I'm a hopeless romantic for sure...hairy isn't so bad either LOL. Did you feel from these cards it could be someone I already know...that comes back in my life out of the blue?

Finally- me: the Empress, Chariot, 5 of cups
Yep that's me alright. I have had the Empress pulled before as describing myself..and I ALWAYS get the Chariot in my readings!!! It's kinda funny actually. I am a very determined person (Taurus sun.). As far as the 5 of cups go, I think that is describing that something is missing in my life..joy/fulfillment...mainly because I have so much I want to do/experience but no one to experience it with so it makes me sad...

Bottom line...I do get taken for granted because I'm such a giving person, but when I've been burned one too many times I'm done...whether that's lovers or friends. I take my friendships/relationships very seriously sun in the 11th house.

Can you clarify what you mean by me tending to "Go Left?" Not quite sure I understand this..

I do need someone in my life who tends to be selfless as well- because it's hard to put myself 1st. Yes, it is interesting that you pulled 5 majors. I have been told before I have a strong Destiny so it makes sense that you feel these events have some sort of Destiny attached to it. I'll tell you though, it's been a pretty painful ride recently. But, as they say when you think you've hit the bottom the universe starts bringing you back up again.

posted May 09, 2014 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by MorpHnStorM:
Happy Birthday, tgem! So close, mine's in 2 days! Hope you have a great day

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posted May 09, 2014 12:04 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Did you feel from these cards it could be someone I already know...that comes back in my life out of the blue?

Can you clarify what you mean by me tending to "Go Left?" Not quite sure I understand this..

You're awesome..spot on, as usual. Thank you!!!

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Thanks tgem :blush:

The expression 'go left' means you do something unexpected that either ends up upsetting the apple cart or surprises the other party in some way. In the reading I sensed you didn't like to get too predictable. Maybe this is because you equate predictable with "boring," or you think you'll be easily controlled if you get too routine.