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Topic: quick exchange needed please
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cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 12:43 PM
  
HiI need to exchange with someone and this is a pretty important question It's a question about an ex boyfriend named Jason we always stayed friends.... we broke up about 3 years ago, and he got married in april. we've been talking to each other because he's helping me dismiss a lawsuit that actually wasn't even for me the law office had sent it to me by mistake, its so weird.but anyways I'm wondering if he's OK if he's happy because when we talk he doesn't sound the same. there is no pep in his voice what so ever. and that's unusual. what's going on with him? and does any of that have to do with me.... he told me he was going to take this and dismiss the case and do the work so I didn't ask him ....... is it too much for him? maybe feelings came back to the surface, idk? jason is an emotional person and before I was always there for him but he's married so I'm not anymore.... could it be he's making himself sound that way so I would be concerned about him? I do want to ask if everything is alright with him, because I am genuinely a bit concerned ....how would he be receptive to that?
leave your question!
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Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 3673
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 08, 2014 12:58 PM
Is this the same guy you asked me about? Or is this a different man?IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2063
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 12:59 PM
Yes, same. QUOTE]Originally posted by Twirl:
Is this the same guy you asked me about? Or is this a different man?[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 01:51 PM
Sure Cherful...will do it right now.IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2063
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 01:54 PM
TY!and I got to no, for not taking your friends apartmen
I'm not saying your friend is shady in any way but there's something with this apartment or something with this contract that is
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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Sure Cherful...will do it right now.
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Spritualjourney
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posted May 08, 2014 01:59 PM
Ok Cherful, I asked what you needed to know about what's going on with Jason and got:Theme: Time to move on
Influence: Worthiness
Guidance: Make a wish
Outcome of this situation: Desiree-conditions aren't favourable So, from this I would say that the guides are basically saying whatever is going on with him, it's none of your business and that after his help with the law suit, it's time to literally move on. They are reminding you to acknowledge your worthiness and that you deserve a friend/boyfriend that you desire....make a wish, it's coming. The outcome card suggests that conditions in this relationship are not good. My intuition is telling me that Jason is fine. He's distancing himself from you emotionally because he feels uncomfortable working with an ex when he's married and wants to ensure that he's not 'leading you on' in any way. He's also keeping your relationship professional, since he is your lawyer right now, not your friend. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2063
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 02:02 PM
TY!IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
Knowflake Posts: 839
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 02:04 PM
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
TY!and I got to no, for not taking your friends apartmen
I'm not saying your friend is shady in any way but there's something with this apartment or something with this contract that is
Hmm this is probably why I'm being hesitant. Thanks 
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Spritualjourney
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posted May 08, 2014 02:48 PM
Hi Cherful, can I ask about another potential apartment? What do I need to know about subletting O's apartment? When's the best month to start actively looking? ThxIP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2063
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 08, 2014 02:57 PM
O is a diff person?
Would be better!The place u get is not going to take a search from you.
But more of a very quick finding and signing! U won't find it online, that I know!
Can I ask why Jason took care of it? I didn't even ask him. He told me to send it to him and he'll make it go away. Then he emailed and call a few times each week....seriously with the same info
QUOTE]Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Hi Cherful, can I ask about another potential apartment? What do I need to know about subletting O's apartment? When's the best month to start actively looking? Thx[/QUOTE]
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Spritualjourney
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posted May 08, 2014 03:15 PM
Yup...O is not a friend but a colleague. I stayed @ their place before & it was nice. It finding me was the feeling I was getting too, which is why I haven't started actively looking...also why when my friend's place becane available I thought that was it, but I was hesitant, which your reading confirmed. Thanks!I'm getting that he was doing it as a friend & genuinely wanted to help out.
The prior reading was not a warning that the frienship isn't good because he's a bad person etc...but more that it's not good for you. I feel like there are feelings beyond platonic on your part (which you may not be aware of) & this is hindering you from finding the person you desire...you need to let go of the old to let in the new. IP: Logged |
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