posted May 09, 2014 03:06 AM            

I met a pisces girl a few months ago and we started talking. Both of us are sarcastic in our own way. I have very dry sarcasm, she's more sharp. Her sarcasm hits you on the spot. That's the way I spoke at first. Then one day, I came back home from work and I was too tired to be sarcastic, so I spoke to her online, told her some stuff about myself and she said I was being being too open. So I just stopped, but I remained friendly. Anyways, cut a few months later, she comes to me and tells me about something that happened to her and she was crying and I didn't know how to help so I just somewhat distanced myself. I started behaving more formally, and spoke to her less.

During that time, she asked me to go somewhere and I said no. At the time, I was talking to an aries girl (she and the aries used to speak to each other) and when pisces found out that I like the girl, she stopped talking to the aries altogether. So I stopped being friendly with the pisces because I think she likes me. I'm really confused by her behavior. Now she acts very formal around me. She barely makes eye contact with me when I look at her. Is it my fault? Does she have feelings? What do I do?

That's my chart:

Sun Virgo 23.13
Moon Virgo 8.55
Mercury Libra 17.03
Venus Virgo 10.33
Mars Scorpio 27.32
Jupiter Scorpio 8.47
Saturn Libra 21.20
Uranus Sagittarius 1.12
Neptune Sagittarius 24.19
Pluto Libra 25.34
Lilith Capricorn 9.43
Asc node Cancer 10.14

Pisces chart:

posted May 09, 2014 03:12 AM            

moving this to Personal Readings

posted May 09, 2014 11:45 AM            

It sounds like yes, she liked you. Yes, her feelings were hurt. And yes, she's trying to feel her way through this - perhaps with some hope of recovery, perhaps just in an effort to 'take the high road'. Pisces can be a somewhat deep sign, though their happy-go-lucky exteriors tend to hide that well. Does this help?

posted May 09, 2014 11:59 AM            

You need to, as we say, get your life.

You want the Pisces or not?! She basically did what YOU did.

posted May 09, 2014 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Ralph, you're buggin'.

You need to, as we say, get your life.

You want the Pisces or not?! She basically did what YOU did.

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posted May 09, 2014 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Hi Ralph, and welcome. Oh you sweet Virgos.... I love you guys so much! I'm missing something here though: did you or did you not like her? Or did you decide you didn't when she 'put you off' by telling you that you were getting a little deep for her? I ask because I'm familiar with that notorious Virgo penchant for moving right along after some perceived rejection or slight, often thinking more than feeling for the situation (that's not an accusation by the way, just an observation - I'm madly in love with a Virgo, myself)

It sounds like yes, she liked you. Yes, her feelings were hurt. And yes, she's trying to feel her way through this - perhaps with some hope of recovery, perhaps just in an effort to 'take the high road'. Pisces can be a somewhat deep sign, though their happy-go-lucky exteriors tend to hide that well. Does this help?

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posted May 09, 2014 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Ralph2:
Ouch.. thanks for the honesty guys. I was just being friendly with her. I'm a very Stoic guy and she's very sweet and sensative. She's very mysterious. I know she had a history of violence. It was too soon for her to be this open especially since she doesnt know me so well. It's also too soon to have feelings for her. Im not sure i like her this way.

I spoke to her yesterday about something and tried to negotiate with me but I was very rigid and i told her the topic we were discussing is non negotiable. Then i told her that I have to go. She asked me if I was angry and I said no. I had work to do. She didnt respond.
I feel like an A.hole. I dont mean to be. I feel guilty. I really didnt mean to be rude. It seems that everytime i open my mouth, she gets hurt by how rigid I am.

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posted May 09, 2014 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
you said she shut you down when you were being open with her first, so how is it too soon for her to be open with you?

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posted May 09, 2014 05:38 PM            

@supremeCT, please make room so Ralph can have a seat next to you.

Ralph, you're playing games. You want the tables turned back in your favor because you lost control of this situation. Be vulnerable for a moment and take a risk opening up, or leave her alone.

posted May 09, 2014 09:56 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:

@supremeCT, please make room so Ralph can have a seat next to you.

Ralph, you're playing games. You want the tables turned back in your favor because you lost control of this situation. Be vulnerable for a moment and take a risk opening up, or leave her alone.

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posted May 09, 2014 10:40 PM            

If this is really bothering you, then maybe reach out to her casually and ask how she is. But if you're not too bothered about having a friendship etc. then I'd just leave it as is and focus on people who you enjoy interacting with.

posted May 10, 2014 12:42 AM            

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
I think if this is bothering you, you should reach out to her. When your interactions are predominately one way (you mentioned that typically you were pretty sarcastic with one another), it can cause a lot of confusion and miscommunication when one of you communicates in a different manner.
Perhaps it caught her off guard when you opened up to her, or maybe she was trying to joke / be sarcastic. Whether this was through text, phone or in person all plays a part as well.
Pisces feel things very deeply - and she could have taken it personally that you didn't react the way she was hoping to when she told you about her past (with support and caring). It could be as simple as that - wanting to distance herself from you because she feels wounded by that slight... or if she had feelings, then she could be acting that way to appear as though she is not hurt / doesn't have feelings for you.

If this is really bothering you, then maybe reach out to her casually and ask how she is. But if you're not too bothered about having a friendship etc. then I'd just leave it as is and focus on people who you enjoy interacting with.

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