posted May 09, 2014 12:08 PM            

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Sorry it took so long :-/. I read your other topic a few days ago. I hope you know I appreciate your insight and care from whenever you have exchanged with me.

posted May 09, 2014 02:15 PM            

I hope it all comes soon

posted May 09, 2014 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
TY so much!!

I hope it all comes soon

let me know if you want to exchange again sometime!

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I believe in this and have concluded it's not in my best interest to be involved with him anymore, as of April 30th.

I have been talking a classmate that I'm interested in. If you had the time, I wanted to know if he has romantic interest in me and where this could be going.

posted May 09, 2014 02:31 PM            

does this person surf?

posted May 09, 2014 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Good! I wish I learned how to let go like 20 years ago!

does this person surf?

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can you tell me anything about how I can get some joy in my life.... I have a friend who is In same situation that I am in, life has been very unkind but she has a great job that she loves , she works with kids and they give her wonderful messages everyday and she has a dog. I have none of that and it's kind of hurting me to see this person have so much joy ...who takes happy pills and I don't take happy pills and I'm fighting to find a way to have more joy in my life...... I'm working on getting a new job I'm working on my body, waiting on mr right, I just don't know what else there is...how I can get joy or what I need to change, etc!

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posted May 09, 2014 03:21 PM            

A: Judgment clarified by 7 of Arrows.

One of the things that stands out the most for Judgment in the Lover's Path tarot is Elizabeth being on the balcony and in the foreground of the card, but my attention is being drawn to Tannhauser.

In this particular scenario, I feel like because of the hurts you've received in the past, it's blocking your ability to connect to the path that you want, shielding you from being able to reach out and make those necessary choices to follow the path you desire.

If we were to create a route to the ultimate destination(joy), how would you go about that? What is it that makes you truly happy? What realistically can you do to be able to put yourself in a position to receive these blessings of joy?

I remember on a reading I received from someone, they cautioned me that I have to also create the circumstances that would best receive what I was looking for at the time.

What steps can you take to prepare yourself for that joy? Your friend is the Elizabeth in this situation and you are Tannhauser. Clearly define your route to joy and prepare your life to steer in that direction. Have faith in your decisions and empower the self to be able to reach out and take your life by the reins to shift it towards somewhere else.

We fall flat on our butts sometimes, but the only true failure is giving up. Identifying what it is that would make you happy, realistically define what you have to work with to reach your goal, and researching and securing what you don't have but need to reach your goal are some ways of reaching your joy.

Don't focus on the things that have hurt you before or on other people to measure your progress. Whenever you receive a thought, you should ask yourself, does this make me happy? Keep the thought. If the answer is no, then get rid of it and come up with a solution that will work.

I think mainly, it is attitude that should be worked on. As you are right now, you are fine. Now, if you reacted to that sentence by saying no, what were the reasons you brought up that were no? How can you change that to feel good about yourself? Some things to think about.

posted May 09, 2014 03:50 PM            

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Find out if he does. Im sensing a person around u who does.....if so then, I feel you'll be friends...like good friends, hang out etc, and this would be for many months to come, 3_4.....then romance can develop.

Right now it seems he's cool with just friendship

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