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Topic: why am I crazy about this guy? (synastry)
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saadsarah8 Newflake Posts: 17 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 18, 2014 07:13 PM
I was born on july 24th, 1994 in abu dhabi, UAE And he was born on december 17th, 1995 in amman, jordanEverytime i see him my heart skips a thousand beats.. I'm so into him its ridiculous.. will he feel the same way? (I doubt..) What do you guys think? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 40319 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 19, 2014 11:29 PM
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geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 20, 2014 01:13 AM
Hi, Time of birth for both of you would help the astrologers to read the synastry chart better. U need to go to astro.com and choose extended chart selection- synastry chart. Enter the bith details and create a synastry chart. Maybe someone will give you the link how to generate n paste a chart here.IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 20, 2014 01:54 AM
I used 12 noon as tob to generate the chart. When astrologers read a synastry chart they give importance to house overlays and asc/desc,ic/mc axis. Without correct tob the reading wont be accurate. I wish i could help u but im a newbie. All the best. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 1557 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 20, 2014 08:45 AM
That damn Venus Uranus!!! Never fails and you both have Neptune there, too. SMH ...and a beautiful Mars Venus trine ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 20, 2014 08:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: That damn Venus Uranus!!! Never fails and you both have Neptune there, too. SMH ...and a beautiful Mars Venus trine
Is Venus Uranus a very lovey dovey aspect?? : (( I want some then...
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geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 20, 2014 09:01 AM
Ntthat Sun opp Uranus? I have this aspect with a friend of mine.. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 1557 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 20, 2014 09:08 AM
Both are too unpredictable and lead to spontaneous interruption in the relationship. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 405 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 20, 2014 02:34 PM
This could be the "cusp" sign attraction too.This has often been ignored but I often see it happen again and again. He is on the cusp of Sagittarius/Capricorn and you are on the cusp of Cancer/ Leo. But looking at you both nataly, this is what I found: Is he a chilled guy? He has Moon in Libra that squares Neptune. This can have the effect of giving someone a very "chilled" persona. He also has his Venus in Cap conjunct Neptune- which can suggest flexibility and a "live and let live" attitude. You, on the other hand, have Pluto squaring your Moon in Aquarius. To me, this signifies very intense feelings and its no wonder that they are directed at him; Neptune can mesmerize Pluto types a lot. Neptune makes these people come across as genuinely nice, open and unpretentious: Making the tense Pluto person more "at ease", in their presence. Also,your Saturn opposes your Venus; adding to what I said about being "rigid" and "inflexible". It could be that he just makes you want to take down your guard- because he comes across as non-threatening? Does he like you? Well, that depends on how you respond to his Libra Moon. He likes people who are even-tempered and who look at things from both sides. He likes people who reason and are articulate. With Jupiter and Mercury in Sagittarius and Capricorn respectively(same placements that I have),he is quite moralistic and thinks about things very deeply. With Sagittarius, you must show an open mind and reason with them. His moon in Libra insists on this, whilst both Mercury and Jupiter in the signs mentioned will scrutinize what is being said to ascertain whether they align to his moral framework. Venus/Moon square can make him quite impersonal to personal relationships. Add the Uranus square Moon supported by the already mentioned Neptune square, it may seem like there is very little that he is passionate about. This "chilled" factor could, at times, come across as apathy. IP: Logged |
saadsarah8 Newflake Posts: 17 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 20, 2014 05:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: This could be the "cusp" sign attraction too.This has often been ignored but I often see it happen again and again. He is on the cusp of Sagittarius/Capricorn and you are on the cusp of Cancer/ Leo. But looking at you both nataly, this is what I found: Is he a chilled guy? He has Moon in Libra that squares Neptune. This can have the effect of giving someone a very "chilled" persona. He also has his Venus in Cap conjunct Neptune- which can suggest flexibility and a "live and let live" attitude. You, on the other hand, have Pluto squaring your Moon in Aquarius. To me, this signifies very intense feelings and its no wonder that they are directed at him; Neptune can mesmerize Pluto types a lot. Neptune makes these people come across as genuinely nice, open and unpretentious: Making the tense Pluto person more "at ease", in their presence. Also,your Saturn opposes your Venus; adding to what I said about being "rigid" and "inflexible". It could be that he just makes you want to take down your guard- because he comes across as non-threatening? Does he like you? Well, that depends on how you respond to his Libra Moon. He likes people who are even-tempered and who look at things from both sides. He likes people who reason and are articulate. With Jupiter and Mercury in Sagittarius and Capricorn respectively(same placements that I have),he is quite moralistic and thinks about things very deeply. With Sagittarius, you must show an open mind and reason with them. His moon in Libra insists on this, whilst both Mercury and Jupiter in the signs mentioned will scrutinize what is being said to ascertain whether they align to his moral framework. Venus/Moon square can make him quite impersonal to personal relationships. Add the Uranus square Moon supported by the already mentioned Neptune square, it may seem like there is very little that he is passionate about. This "chilled" factor could, at times, come across as apathy.
Thank you all for you replies Aries23 everything you said is spot on! He comes off as a really non-chalant and aloof person, he also has scorpio rising so let's just say that he's an enigma
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Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1823 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 01:07 AM
Aries23, i agree on the cusp attraction. I attract cusps too and i am a gemini/cancer. IP: Logged |
saadsarah8 Newflake Posts: 17 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 01:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: Aries23, i agree on the cusp attraction. I attract cusps too and i am a gemini/cancer.
Do you think there are other aspects that make HIM attracted to me? *very hopeful*
Also don't you think the squares in my chart (venus square mars, moon square pluto) are attracted to the squares in his chart (moon square neptune and venus).. if that makes sense
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 405 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 21, 2014 11:34 AM
It could be. I've never really considered the squares in ones chart to be a basis of attraction to the squares of another.But it is noteworthy to mention as we often attract what we are internally i.e I wouldn't be attracted to someone who has lots of square aspects in their chart if mine is all about sextiles: I'll feel like I'm living with a volcano. Not good. There are, however, some good interactions between you two. But this will also depend on which planets you consider important with attractions i.e are you enamored with Venus or find Mars sexier? I look to Moon-Mars, Uranus-Moon, Uranus-Mars, Pluto-Moon, Pluto-Mars, Venus-Moon,Venus-Mars,Pluto-Venus,Sun-Mars, Sun-Venus. His Mars trines your Venus- "You make me wanna have fun" aspect. His Venus opposes your Sun-"Let's focus on common interests" aspect But it seems like there is more action from your side(more assertion, that is). Your Mars widely trines his Moon. If he doesn't mind you taking the initiatives , this is a great aspect. Your Uranus squares his Moon and sits on his Venus(conjunct). You bring a great deal of excitement and change to him. Your Pluto sits on his Venus(by sextile). You may like examining him and taking him apart bit by bit, but this is often contagious to Venus- who'll be flattered by all this attention and start to reciprocate and obsess over you. I also have to add that he has his Neptune and Uranus opposing your Sun. I wouldn't call these "attraction" aspects exactly, but they add a great deal of intrigue to the people involved in them. With Neptune, there could be an inability to see someone clearly and thus idolize them and disappointments(sometimes) can happen. IP: Logged |