posted May 22, 2014 12:08 AM            

I started a topic here - http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/227365.html

This was my last response:

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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
Hi, my name is ____ but you can call me tonight.

No I'm joking lmao. I do like your placements, though, and explaining that Scorpio stare was right up my alley. A man after my own heart.

With Pisces ascendant, I would feel like your emotions may come through a lot. Maybe you scared that guy because you were angry or just generally annoyed by him being a sore loser, and it showed through your stare. Where's your Pluto?

I would recommend someone with fire as well. You've got a lot of it in you. Maybe a Venus in fire, Mars in water, Sun in fire? The last woman you speak of seems to be a decent fit. Have you looked at your synastry with her? Maybe we can get a better look at what was going on and why it failed.

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The last woman I was with is my wife. We are getting a divorce, although are still married. In August 2013, she had elective weight loss surgery and has lost 88kg in about 8 months. She walked out almost 3 months ago saying she didn't know who she was and that she didn't know if she was in love with me anymore. I guess you can tell from my chart, that I'm not the type to handle something like this well. She always said I wore my heart on my sleeve. Everyone knows when I'm upset, it's plain as day. I am very emotional, I seem to go up and down a lot which sux for a partner I guess. A lot of things hurt me.

My wife's particulars are Sun Aries, Moon Virgo, Mercury Pisces, Venus Taurus, Mars Capricorn, Jupiter Taurus, Pluto Scorpio, Ascendent Taurus, Female born 30/March/1988. She was always very calm, not very emotional, but arrogant as **** which I thought was hilarious. It's funny, we played poker alot together with big groups of people and she would always be arrogant, opinionated and outspoken, and I know it used to **** people off big time but because I was there, no-one ever told her to shut up or close her mouth. She could get away with alot while I was around!!!

The other guy was actually a girl and she ****** me right off. I don't like when someone doubts my intelligence and won't listen to what I have to say. My Pluto is in Libra and the 8th house.

posted May 22, 2014 12:23 AM            

Anyway, I can tell you're sensitive. With your ascendant and all your leo placements, that was already given. My bad for misconstruing the woman being a man. She probably did feel uncomfortable because of your emotion coming through your face.

Pluto in the 8th is an intense, dominant placement. If you want to read more about that placement, you can go here: http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2011/01/pluto-in-8th-house.html#.U316-xYtAZY

posted May 22, 2014 12:49 AM            

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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
Wow, I'm really sorry to hear about your wife. But I guess things fall apart so better things can fall together. Not to be too blunt, but if she would have left you that easily after losing weight, she may not have fully been in it at all.

Anyway, I can tell you're sensitive. With your ascendant and all your leo placements, that was already given. My bad for misconstruing the woman being a man. She probably did feel uncomfortable because of your emotion coming through your face.

Pluto in the 8th is an intense, dominant placement. If you want to read more about that placement, you can go here: http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2011/01/pluto-in-8th-house.html#.U316-xYtAZY

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It's ok there have been alot of realizations about the situation. For 25 years she looked in the mirror at who she was, and then in the space of 12 months, she looks nothing like she ever did. The only thing both her and I recognize on her now is her eyes. Her psychological state is not good But it has happened, and that's it. I know she really loves me and she will never stop loving me, but the change put too much strain on our relationship, we just couldn't cope. I feel like us separating would have happened at some point anyway, if not now.

I will read the links you posted.

Random question: Do you think I would be suited to a Leo sun female? I know 2 Leo females, and they drove me mental. But I LOVE fire signs. I have a few Sagittarius friends and they are so funny they are awesome.

posted May 22, 2014 01:01 AM            

I, personally, don't like dating people of my own sign and I know a lot of people who agree - they say it feels like they're "dating themselves" (although I don't agree with that argument because natal charts are different), but I just feel like it's a different dynamic when you have similar placements. Some may like it though, and you may be one of them.

I feel like, for your sensitivity, you may want to go with a water sign (other than Scorpio lol). Maybe Cancer or Pisces? Pisces sun could possibly conjunct your ascendant. Because you have some water and fire, you would need someone else who has that same balance as well. Someone too fiery may be too abrasive for you, someone too watery may be too sensitive for you, etc. How have you been with earth signs?

posted May 22, 2014 01:15 AM            

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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
I'm happy to see that you're finding some solace in the situation and have enough peace of mind to keep your logic about you. Hopefully you heal completely from it soon. You may benefit from dating another Leo sun. You would probably have a lot of conjunctions to her sun, which could be good. You would probably understand each other really well.

I, personally, don't like dating people of my own sign and I know a lot of people who agree - they say it feels like they're "dating themselves" (although I don't agree with that argument because natal charts are different), but I just feel like it's a different dynamic when you have similar placements. Some may like it though, and you may be one of them.

I feel like, for your sensitivity, you may want to go with a water sign (other than Scorpio lol). Maybe Cancer or Pisces? Pisces sun could possibly conjunct your ascendant. Because you have some water and fire, you would need someone else who has that same balance as well. Someone too fiery may be too abrasive for you, someone too watery may be too sensitive for you, etc. How have you been with earth signs?

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No I haven't. I know a few Taurus and I'm not really a fan, though I only know them at a friendship/inlaw level. I had a good friend who was a Virgo and she was lovely. Very calm and kind but we were only friends.

I prefer a female that is very soft, and the Leo females I know are anything but. They are very strong, it's a little off putting. The Scorpio I knew was also very strong.

My brother in law is a Pisces so he's the only one I know. He is nice enough, but a bit of a woos lol.

posted May 22, 2014 05:33 AM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
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One of these days I'm going to find a man that actually likes a strong woman.

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posted May 22, 2014 09:22 AM            

I have a friend who is Leo sun on the cusp and loves to tell me how many partners he has had, and laughs at me as my number is small. His mars is in Virgo. I like to be in love with someone that I'm Intimate with. Is that because my Mars in Scorpio? I have tried to have casual flings when not in a relationship but I become very unsatisfied.

posted May 22, 2014 07:03 PM            

You tend to want to appear secretive and quiet so people trust you with you their secrets, at first....

But since you have so much leo you probably blab about it at the first sign of material gain (jupiter in capricorn)...

posted May 22, 2014 07:03 PM            

You tend to want to appear secretive and quiet so people trust you with you their secrets, at first....

But since you have so much leo you probably blab about it at the first sign of material gain (jupiter in capricorn)...

posted May 22, 2014 07:13 PM            

Would like to take a look at your chart to see if we have some similarities

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posted May 22, 2014 08:49 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Post the chart..sounds interesting. I have a "serious face" (death stare) as well. People think I'm always upset, but it's just my regular face -shrugs-

Would like to take a look at your chart to see if we have some similarities

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posted May 22, 2014 08:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
I'm really new to this astrology stuff. But I've been reading a lot on Linda goodman forum. Any info and opinions are great.

I have a friend who is Leo sun on the cusp and loves to tell me how many partners he has had, and laughs at me as my number is small. His mars is in Virgo. I like to be in love with someone that I'm Intimate with. Is that because my Mars in Scorpio? I have tried to have casual flings when not in a relationship but I become very unsatisfied.

Most of what I read says mars in scorpio is pretty kinky and looks to break taboos. I haven't really ever done anything I would consider kinky. Does this develop with age? Does it have to do with the type of partners I have had?

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We have a lot of similar placements... You definitely should be kinkier. There's two things here; 1) You could be kinky and not realize it. 2)Saturn tones down your kinkiness. It looks like a wide conjunction so it may be making your approach to sex more serious than fun, but also would lend a sort of focus. Saturn, while limiting could also help hone a particular talent, craft, etc, but you would like be especially good at that one thing.

Also your Pluto is close enough to the 9H cusp that I would look at interpretation of it there. Your Sun and moon squared Pluto is what I would name as the reason to your death stare.

posted May 22, 2014 09:18 PM            

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Question, How long did it take you to finish school? Have you traveled at all?[/B]

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I went to Grade 10. On the last day of that year, I got expelled. I loved school but was a pain in the ass for my teachers. Long story short, the principal and I went at it and he said don't come back. So I didn't.

My family has always owned business so finishing school didn't bother me. I never wanted to go to uni. I prefer to run my own business. I was in the top 5% of students as far as grades goes, but just couldn't stand the authority of school.

posted May 22, 2014 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
I went to Grade 10. On the last day of that year, I got expelled. I loved school but was a pain in the ass for my teachers. Long story short, the principal and I went at it and he said don't come back. So I didn't.

My family has always owned business so finishing school didn't bother me. I never wanted to go to uni. I prefer to run my own business. I was in the top 5% of students as far as grades goes, but just couldn't stand the authority of school.

I have travelled to Asia, New Zealand and to the pacific. I would love to hit Vegas, and I would love to visit North Korea.

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Where's Leorpio. You gotta come see this. We hve a triplet.

posted May 22, 2014 09:32 PM            

That's as much as I can find as far as similarity in both mine and your chart goes

But to me it should either be Sun-Saturn or Merc-Saturn/Uranus

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posted May 22, 2014 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Dave:
I went to Grade 10. On the last day of that year, I got expelled. I loved school but was a pain in the ass for my teachers. Long story short, the principal and I went at it and he said don't come back. So I didn't.

My family has always owned business so finishing school didn't bother me. I never wanted to go to uni. I prefer to run my own business. I was in the top 5% of students as far as grades goes, but just couldn't stand the authority of school.

I have travelled to Asia, New Zealand and to the pacific. I would love to hit Vegas, and I would love to visit North Korea.

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posted May 22, 2014 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Saturn in 9th house. ( but Sun sq Saturn = School rebel) Uranus in 10th house (Own business..has to be own boss)

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