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MetalAphrodite
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posted May 24, 2014 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
J invited me to go stargazing in a group setting.

1) What will happen during this trip?
2) What will his friend(the driver) think of me?
3) Why did J invite me to go with a group?

Please leave your questions. I will read for the amount of questions you read for me.

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athenegoddess
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posted May 24, 2014 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. Two of swords reversed
you may be unsure of the experience and if you like it or not..

2. Ace of pentacles Reversed

Seems like he will see you as someone who is a lost opportunity or maybe there will be some jealousy...

3. Knight of Cups

He wants you. Lol.

I just have one question..

Can you tell why this person im thinking of is hiding their true feelings from me?

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posted May 24, 2014 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
do you have further questions Metal?

if so, I would like to exchange

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MetalAphrodite
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posted May 24, 2014 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moonstruck87:
do you have further questions Metal?

if so, I would like to exchange


Sure, the more the merrier .

1) What are A's intentions with me? He keeps messaging me randomly and Idk what the purpose is.

Let me know what your q is. If you have more q's, leave them here as well and I will read for you .

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posted May 24, 2014 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me too?!

why I am I'm a food addict and how can I stop it

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posted May 24, 2014 01:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Q: Why is this person hiding their feelings from athenegoddess?

A: Chariot clarified by Prince of Cups.

I feel like this person thinks he should have a stockpile of things before he goes to war for you, aka declare his feelings for you. He knows he wants you and he knows he wants to be with you, but he feels that at this current stage in his life, he is unable to successfully provide the nourishment it takes to make this relationship happen.

He's trying to work harder on material wealth to reflect his emotional and mental states. How can he approach you in this manner, like a pauper? His lady deserves more and so he stuffs his feelings within himself until he can approach you respectfully.

6 of Arrows

He sees this journey to your heart as a necessary one. I feel like he may have experienced firsthand the tremendous stress that having little to no money and assets can do to a relationship despite the fact that two people love each other. He fears this and he wants to do right by you. He cannot admit and commit until he knows his foundation is stable for you.

Hope that helps.

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posted May 24, 2014 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Sure, the more the merrier .

1) What are A's intentions with me? He keeps messaging me randomly and Idk what the purpose is.

Let me know what your q is. If you have more q's, leave them here as well and I will read for you .


ok brb with yours - why did CB say what he did last week (during the Scorp full moon) but then kinda disappear this week unless I initiate contact? Is he just enjoying his vacation or is there an underlying reason?


Thanks

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posted May 24, 2014 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
isn't this the guy that has a significant other?

quote:
Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Q: Why is this person hiding their feelings from athenegoddess?

A: Chariot clarified by Prince of Cups.

I feel like this person thinks he should have a stockpile of things before he goes to war for you, aka declare his feelings for you. He knows he wants you and he knows he wants to be with you, but he feels that at this current stage in his life, he is unable to successfully provide the nourishment it takes to make this relationship happen.

He's trying to work harder on material wealth to reflect his emotional and mental states. How can he approach you in this manner, like a pauper? His lady deserves more and so he stuffs his feelings within himself until he can approach you respectfully.

6 of Arrows

He sees this journey to your heart as a necessary one. I feel like he may have experienced firsthand the tremendous stress that having little to no money and assets can do to a relationship despite the fact that two people love each other. He fears this and he wants to do right by you. He cannot admit and commit until he knows his foundation is stable for you.

Hope that helps.


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posted May 24, 2014 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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MetalAphrodite
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posted May 24, 2014 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
Me too?!

why I am I'm a food addict and how can I stop it


Yes, yes, ma cherie .

Before I read for this question, I am a food addict and the reason I'm addicted to food is because it's a quick way to overload myself when I get stressed, like taking a shot to the arm and calming myself down. It's because I haven't learned healthy ways to release emotional and mental anxiety/stress that I over eat.

I'm not sure if you share this common trait with me, but I will still read for your question.

My q is what is J's intentions with me? He confuses me and gives me mixed signals. I kind of want to turn my brain off if there's no room for growth, whether in friendship or love.

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posted May 24, 2014 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Metal - regarding A's intentions:

10/wands for past, temperance for present, 7/swords future

it looks like one of you was over extending in the past, couldn't say no or taking all the blame, this card shows me there was some tension existing between you

temperance tells me A wants to find some middle ground and to reconcile. It seems like A needs to heal from whatever past and is trying compromise with you.

7/swords for future tells me that this is transitional, however & the current good intentions may be fleeting. Be careful here and be on guard as there seems to be a 2-faced side to A

Please let me know if this resonates xo

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posted May 24, 2014 01:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Q: Why is this person hiding their feelings from athenegoddess?

A: Chariot clarified by Prince of Cups.

I feel like this person thinks he should have a stockpile of things before he goes to war for you, aka declare his feelings for you. He knows he wants you and he knows he wants to be with you, but he feels that at this current stage in his life, he is unable to successfully provide the nourishment it takes to make this relationship happen.

He's trying to work harder on material wealth to reflect his emotional and mental states. How can he approach you in this manner, like a pauper? His lady deserves more and so he stuffs his feelings within himself until he can approach you respectfully.

6 of Arrows

He sees this journey to your heart as a necessary one. I feel like he may have experienced firsthand the tremendous stress that having little to no money and assets can do to a relationship despite the fact that two people love each other. He fears this and he wants to do right by you. He cannot admit and commit until he knows his foundation is stable for you.

Hope that helps.


Sounds ok.. except the money part. the guy is pretty well off.. and i mean he is a millionaire..

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posted May 24, 2014 01:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do feel there is room for growth however... he's answer which way that's going to be I feel like he wants to skip the friendship and go into a more intimate situations

I feel he is going have strong intentions towards friends with benefits and benefits and while having that will be trying to decide what he really wants out of you/ from you..... so to me this week inmaturiTY. having his cake and eating it too kind of selfish

so if you're not willing to give him that then I don't honestly see a romance happening. He'll just stop short of the friendship


QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Yes, yes, ma cherie .

Before I read for this question, I am a food addict and the reason I'm addicted to food is because it's a quick way to overload myself when I get stressed, like taking a shot to the arm and calming myself down. It's because I haven't learned healthy ways to release emotional and mental anxiety/stress that I over eat.

I'm not sure if you share this common trait with me, but I will still read for your question.

My q is what is J's intentions with me? He confuses me and gives me mixed signals. I kind of want to turn my brain off if there's no room for growth, whether in friendship or love.[/QUOTE]

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MetalAphrodite
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posted May 24, 2014 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Q: Why did CB say what he did last week to moonstruck?

A: 9 of Coins clarified by 8 of Coins.

I feel he may have thought he put foot in mouth and spoke too soon. He got caught up in the moment and wanted to express his joy with you.

Q: Is CB enjoying his vacation or is there an underlying reason?

A: Tower clarified by 7 of Staves.

I keep getting this feeling of being embarrassed and becoming introverted because of it. It seems like what he said to you last week topples over his set ideas of what he needs to get done in his life. It's kind of like being tasked to color only in the lines then accidentally coloring out of it because of a welcome distraction. He even enjoyed saying it but is willing to pretend it didn't happen because he's not ready to leave what he knows in order to find out more about what he doesn't.

Hope that made sense @__@.

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posted May 24, 2014 02:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Q: What is the root cause of cher's food addiction?

A: Prince of Coins clarified by Magician.

The Lover's Path tarot shows Perseus, son of Danae and Zeus, and Vivienne and Merlin in the Magician card.

I feel like it's pointing to an aching for this seemingly mythical man and the desire to want to possess him, but the inability to do so for one reason or another. It hasn't lessened your desire for this person, but what can you do? You keep a stoic front and move forward anyway.

6 of Staves

Stick to your guns you have(oh, my first Yoda moment lol). I know it hurts but you are going to come out on top.


Q: How can cher overcome this food addiction?

A: 2 of Coins clarified by Hierophant.

It seems the best way is to be firm with yourself. You also have to acknowledge why you have it to begin with. Where did it start? What were you feeling the first time you started to indulge in this food addiction? Why are you keeping this pain to yourself?

In the background of the Hierophant, there are two cherubs holding plaques that say love and duty. It is your duty to yourself to show self love. This food addiction only serves to placate your stress and confine your feelings. Honor yourself and talk about it. Talk about what hurts you, whether this be to other people or to yourself in a diary or meditation.

Hope this helps.

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posted May 24, 2014 02:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Sounds ok.. except the money part. the guy is pretty well off.. and i mean he is a millionaire..

Oivay lol. Wish one of those came my way haha(jk jk).

He's lacking in some sort of experience that makes him feel poor. If it's not material-wise, there are still the emotional, mental, and spiritual realms.

I always see Chariot foremost as a war between internal feelings VS how he relates self to rest of the world. There is an imbalance he wants to right here, for the sake of the relationship.

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posted May 24, 2014 02:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Metal - regarding A's intentions:

10/wands for past, temperance for present, 7/swords future

it looks like one of you was over extending in the past, couldn't say no or taking all the blame, this card shows me there was some tension existing between you

temperance tells me A wants to find some middle ground and to reconcile. It seems like A needs to heal from whatever past and is trying compromise with you.

7/swords for future tells me that this is transitional, however & the current good intentions may be fleeting. Be careful here and be on guard as there seems to be a 2-faced side to A

Please let me know if this resonates xo


Oh gawd, that does sound like A, especially the two faced part. I'm the Gemini but he's two faced? I told him this. He thinks just because he's a Sag that means every bs that falls from his brain is 100% truth. What a joke. That makes me so mad.

This confirms to me that I should not speak to him at all and cut him off completely.

Thank you for this reading!

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posted May 24, 2014 02:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Metal...

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posted May 24, 2014 02:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenegoddess:
1. Two of swords reversed
you may be unsure of the experience and if you like it or not..

2. Ace of pentacles Reversed

Seems like he will see you as someone who is a lost opportunity or maybe there will be some jealousy...

3. Knight of Cups

He wants you. Lol.

I just have one question..

Can you tell why this person im thinking of is hiding their true feelings from me?



He canceled it. Maybe in the future he will arrange another trip, Idk. I was nervous about it as I wasn't sure what he was expecting to happen or if he's even attracted to me.

I want to hit J on the head with a rolled newspaper now lol.

Thanks for the reading .

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posted May 24, 2014 02:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Thanks Metal...

Q: What does this guy think he lacks that prevents him from being open about his feelings to athenegoddess?

A: The Fool.

Was cherful right that this guy is married?

Anyway, in this sense, it feels like he will lose a whole bunch of things if he reveals his feelings for you and is moving to protect his assets. If he is married or involved with someone else, that makes sense. If he is not, he is worried that his being able to show feelings for you will not work out well. It indicates a lack of trust and faith to be able to see beyond the physical and trust in the universe.

I'm not sure if any of this resonates. I can try and pull a card later to see if it comes up any different.

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posted May 24, 2014 03:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no he's not married. i have high intuition and im simply not threatened by whoever he is with... i feel like she was just a stepping stone to me. i mean he doesnt even live with her.. i don't know if they are in the same area or not though.


when i was about 19 i had this foggy dream from my higher self, it was Him and he was holding up a baby. at first i thought it was my ex bf because they sort of look alike, however the shirt he was wearing isn't the type of clothes my ex bf wears. the dream was him.. at the time i was very depressed. my life was very difficult. and i met him last year age 25..


btw cheerful, I take your readings with a grain of salt. you speak as if things are set in stone. if you couldn't see that lady before.. what was so difficult about being able to since they have been together a long time. I don't think its possible that an opportunity has closed as you said previously. all that you have done for me is interpret based on your own souls evolution and as a reader of tarot, I know there are some things you can see and some things you cannot.


metal, I think whats happening is he isn't sure how we are suppose to make it work. I think if he tells me he likes me he knows hes going to have help me out of my situation and he isn't sure yet how that's going to happen. and also I have to do some inner work before I go in that direction.

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posted May 24, 2014 03:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That sounds a lot like me.

If he feels the same exact way, whoa.

I am very strict about casual sex or just any sex outside a relationship, mainly because I'm so worried about becoming too attached and then being heartbroken afterwards.

My ex boyfriend A really broke my heart and made it tough as leather currently. I would like the touch and comfort of another guy without him trying to make more out of it, unless he's serious.

I'm not sure if I'm out of my mind or what. I feel hurt and lonely. I want male company. I don't want to push J to make any moves he's not comfortable with. If J holds me at night, I am okay with this. I want a guy to feel close to.

Not sure if I'm having a weird moment or what. My heart is listening to my head and my head is confused at this.

Help please ;__;.


quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
I do feel there is room for growth however... he's answer which way that's going to be I feel like he wants to skip the friendship and go into a more intimate situations

I feel he is going have strong intentions towards friends with benefits and benefits and while having that will be trying to decide what he really wants out of you/ from you..... so to me this week inmaturiTY. having his cake and eating it too kind of selfish

so if you're not willing to give him that then I don't honestly see a romance happening. He'll just stop short of the friendship


[QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
[b] Yes, yes, ma cherie .

Before I read for this question, I am a food addict and the reason I'm addicted to food is because it's a quick way to overload myself when I get stressed, like taking a shot to the arm and calming myself down. It's because I haven't learned healthy ways to release emotional and mental anxiety/stress that I over eat.

I'm not sure if you share this common trait with me, but I will still read for your question.

My q is what is J's intentions with me? He confuses me and gives me mixed signals. I kind of want to turn my brain off if there's no room for growth, whether in friendship or love.


[/B][/QUOTE]

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posted May 24, 2014 03:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you just have to go along for the experience in always listen to your gut. do what's right and basically what you said star of getting to know each other and it involves great let's hold off on sex until he actually says hey I want to be in a solid committed relationship....and there you go! and if you Or him think it's not going to end up that way well at least you didn't sell yourself you know what I mean.

but don't stop the evolution of dating because of your fear


QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
That sounds a lot like me.

If he feels the same exact way, whoa.

I am very strict about casual sex or just any sex outside a relationship, mainly because I'm so worried about becoming too attached and then being heartbroken afterwards.

My ex boyfriend A really broke my heart and made it tough as leather currently. I would like the touch and comfort of another guy without him trying to make more out of it, unless he's serious.

I'm not sure if I'm out of my mind or what. I feel hurt and lonely. I want male company. I don't want to push J to make any moves he's not comfortable with. If J holds me at night, I am okay with this. I want a guy to feel close to.

Not sure if I'm having a weird moment or what. My heart is listening to my head and my head is confused at this.

Help please ;__;.


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