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Topic: I just really need some insight pls
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Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 287 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 26, 2014 02:47 PM
I'm an emotional mess today, to be honest. I genuinely love a particular guy I've been on/off again with for some years. "W" and I have a great friendship base, genuine love, but we struggle romantically. Great guy. Scared to adhere to he and I possibly seeking marriage in the near future and it hurts. I can't get my **** together, and in turn can't nail down if he's the one or if it's just ALL me that's the problem. It stings Another person looks "ideal" but that doesn't necessarily mean the grass is greener on that side. This person is "j", and if he's just dealing with me as a placeholder, with no real thought of something more, I need to press the end button between our involvement. Anyone care to help with this one? I'm lost on this one. I'm actually scared I'm being a fool, majorly. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 3571 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 26, 2014 03:04 PM
5 Coins 2 Coins Moon Page Cups 2 Swords 4 WandsYou are psychologically distraught and feeling very insecure in your skin and in between these two men, whom you share the same interest in and they seem to be both good choices. However, all of this is unbeknownst to your current partner and your feelings are very unclear and hazy, and you often question if how you feel is the truth or because bad advice from psychics or not trusting your intuition. You have a immature crush on J, not anything intimate or beautiful, but just an obsessive fancy which you longly look from him affair. You are having extreme troubles deciding who to be with but its very clear. Choose the man whom you have already established a good connection with and a promise of marriage. Your immaturity and anxiousness will ruin a good promise! IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 287 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 26, 2014 03:52 PM
Karkaqueen, thank you so much. Especially for being very blunt and very accurate of course. Couldn't disagree with what's stated at all. You totally nailed the "psychological" standpoint. The emotional chaos has EVERYTHING to do with this headspace and how it intertwines with a past ordeal. The long-standing thing I have with the guy I've been connected to all these years is very safe, although I'm lacking something key (to me) but I do feel in a way that's unrealistic considering he's good on all others aspects. Confused as hell, but grounded in the reality of what you mean and it resonates. I do fancy "J" indeed for that one particular reason, at least at this moment in our lives. Again, you're appreciated for being real with me, and spot-on. Thanks hunnie IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 3571 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 26, 2014 03:56 PM
ur welcome :3IP: Logged | |