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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012

posted May 27, 2014 07:50 AM            

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I've been thinking about what you said in terms of going forward with the sexual harassment from my former boss. now the higher ups at that hospital as well as where I'm currently( where I'm currently , we oversee the educational component for the program so thats how they are tied) do know about it... the solution was basically for me to go back to my original hospital the one that overseas their educational component oand work there....so nothing was done about it . Into pay was cut from 20000, no benefits, no health insurance . I'm temp employee only and not a full time employee.... so I lost a lot.

but if I take it to a lawyer what do you see happening. should I confront my ex Jason he's helping me dismiss this other cases with the credit thing that wasn't even mine to begin with..... should I have ask him to help me with this? and if so what will happen.... will he be because he wants to help , or maybe this will be too much for him as Im his ex girlfriend he's going to be doing what happened, etc? maybe want to you know

if it doesn't look like it would be good thing for me then I'll have to try it to do a pro bono lawyer how do you see that working out?

also what I think any major repercussions for doing this?

TY

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From: Brandon, Fl, USA
Registered: Apr 2011

posted May 27, 2014 07:59 AM            

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cherful24,
If I may weigh in, as you have helped me in the past.... I feel your energy is strained beyond compare. You need to find a place to center your energy. If you can, find a moment to put your feet in the grass if that is possible. The Native Americans teach that if you need to ground.. put your feet on the ground. I think you know the answer to this one... and you want someone else to give you permission. I would say... give yourself permission. The other hospital is about to be involved in some other issues which when they come out you can bring your issue to the forefront without having much trouble because there will be lawyers to address anything about this place... jumping in on the bandwagon so to speak... I think you are going to be fine. I hope this helps... truly I do.

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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012

posted May 27, 2014 08:04 AM            

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TY!

Ya I am for sure strand trained to the absolute breaking point which is how I got to the place of... possibly thinking of and that's all that I have lost. It's just scary! Plus I would hope I can with my on pizza but you know you got married he's moving forward with someone and I don't know if he really wants to have his energy wrapped up with my energy like this.,....so will see!

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From: Brandon, Fl, USA
Registered: Apr 2011

posted May 27, 2014 08:09 AM            

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Cherful,
The marriage just did not work. He is moving on... but not deserting you. He is gonna help in ways but you have to help him by letting him off the hook? I am not sure what that means but it keeps ringing in my ear. Once you do this... I get that you will get immediate relief... Immediate...

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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012

posted May 27, 2014 08:37 AM            

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I don't know what that means either! Thats not my situation with him.. no marriage, nothing for him to be let off the hook with. hes a good guy. we have a good friendship now for several years.....but thanks!

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posted May 27, 2014 04:30 PM            

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Hi,
I hope i am not intruding. I think you should ask for help form your ex. I don't know why..just a vibe..

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