posted May 30, 2014 06:00 PM
Well,it is clear that your deeper self is not intent on going through with it. The deeper part of you is asking for a better life.I have a suggestion. And this is because it is possible to have peace ; even in such difficult circumstances. Even with people who seem to "peck" at your soul every single day.
You must first create your own haven; a place where you shut off the world.
This could be your room,the bathroom, some place in the garden(it doesn't matter).
Now , I'll go through some of what you just wrote and the idea is to inspire in you, good feelings.
So I'll change the direction of your thoughts. And this is important to do. To steer them closer to a place of "relief"; where you feel the ease of a headache lifting. You know that feeling? It's not excitement, it's a feeling of release.
I don't have a job but I know that in time, things will change for me. It may not be overnight but all I know is that if I keep on going towards feeling relief from pressure. Things will get better.
I am living with difficult parents right now who are hurt and disappointed that life hasn't turned out the way that they would like.So they blame me for what they did not get for their efforts worth.
It is really not I that they are angry at. It is really because I am the person who is "taking it". But I won't be doing it anymore.
I'm starting to believe that I am worth more than they know. I am starting to feel better about my possibilities untapped. They do not see the wonder that I am and that is fine, I'm seeing it all every day
I have health issues, yes, but this is due to what has gone on before and where I am now.And because I have believed, in the past,that I'll stay in this place.
But I don't believe that anymore. Not when I have such a powerful will to live, to dance, to breathe in the fresh air and feel the vibrancy of every cell in my body scream and say "indeed you are alive". Its not over.
And everyday, I am feeling better about the condition I'm in. Things are definitely changing.I feel hopeful that a new body of complete wellness is within reach. I am hopeful.
I don't have friends to talk to or to rely on.But that is because I have felt too burdened by my own issues to let someone else in. But this is changing.
My issues are becoming less, I have more to talk about beyond my troubles. I am willing to go out and have fun. I am willing to smile. I am ready to compare and contrast with another; to laugh and enjoy the exquisiteness of life. There is so much that I would like to say to one who will listen. We will laugh and it'll be a beautiful friendship
You must keep going, keep going for the good feeling place. Feel good about yourself. Feel relief. Feel the pain easing from the inside. Start to feel splendor and the joy of smiling for no reason at all.
When you do this, you CANNOT stay in the current circumstances longer.Something will shift; either you will find that your parents spend less time talking to you or that you find yourself moving out from under their thumb.