posted June 12, 2014 04:54 PM            

With doing so, I feel the air will be cleared, he'll be engaged in the convo....I feel he thinks u did something unclear or to hurt him....basically u did something that hurt him. So if u can clear it up, he'd like that.

I dont read cards,but that's what I got.

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Hi LL,

I'm looking for an experienced reader (preferably tarot or playing cards since I connect with those kinds of readings best) to help me make a decision about contacting someone. We got into an argument a little over a week ago and were supposed to talk in person the following day (his idea), but I never heard back from him. I've decided to move on, and haven't contacted him because I feel he would've called me by now if he really cared.. but I'm now thinking about texting him to try to at least not end things on a sour note, get some closure, and let him know my intentions as well. Is it a good idea to contact him first, or should I continue to do what I'm doing (not contacting him) instead? Will I hear from him soon if I don't reach out?

If you need our initials, I'm S and he is D. Please leave your question as well if you're exchanging! Due to time constraints, I can only do one exchange within the next couple of hours.. If it gets too late here, I'll have to respond tomorrow during the day instead. Anyway, I hope someone can help!

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posted June 12, 2014 05:19 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I can do it give me a few mins

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posted June 12, 2014 05:30 PM            

TY!

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Thanks to you both! Cherful, I think you're right.. he was pretty upset the last time we spoke. Do you have any questions for me? I can give a short reading if so..

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posted June 12, 2014 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
YOUR EMOTIONS - QCu/9Co/7Co
You have loving emotions for him because of your fondness of your time spent with him. You two have known each other for a long time or have grown a lot with each other and went from a long way to get here so you don't want to give up now. You stay with him because of the similarities of your practical pursuits and you see that he is becoming mature enough for you to endure his actions. You have faith and discipline in his actions so you try not to judge too harshly and wait for him to come around.
HIS EMOTIONS - 5W/7W/7Cu
He still is very hurt and angry at you and he feels to succumb to his feelings would be a sign of weakness and show that you have 'won'. He is very much seeing you as the enemy right now and distrust any of your motives seeing you as trying to get over him. Unfortunately he doesn't realize he is fighting for a illusive idea and something in his own imagination. He does not have enough brazenness to face his own problems and prefer to project it on you instead.
REASON OF YOUR ACTIONS Pge Co/9 Cu/6 Cu
You are very determined with your newly acquired patience to wait for him. You have a feeling that everything is going to go the way you want it to be or you are in a very positive state in your life where everything is going good for you. You stay because you also love him and have a deep connection to him. Again, fondness of past memories and you two shared emotional intimacies.
REASON OF HIS - Emperor/Sun/2 of Swords
He wants gain control through his own personal vices and will-power. He is trying to gain command of his own ego by appearing to be unshakable and supposedly masculine. The truth is that he has love for you too but feels uneasy about it and is unsure to use his emotions or thoughts.
OUTCOME SHOULD YOU CONTACT HIM World/Ace of Swords/Moon
This will give you ultimate clarity and relieve anxieties in you about this. This will ensure your position to him and to see if this investment is really worth it. You have been reviewing that and doing this will make you see. He will respond to you but his intentions will be cold and deceitful. He will try to lie about his situation and this will confuse you and blur your intuition. Try to see through the haze with outer help.
OUTCOME SHOULD YOU NOT 6 of Coins/Q Coins/3 Cups
He will mimic your actions aka not contact you because like I said he doesn't want to give up. You will keep your security intavt and not become confused while still being able to enjoy and indulge in frivolity.
ADVICE FOR THIS SITUATION AS A WHOLE Justice/2 Coins/9 Swords
Remain clear and ethical, do not get emotionally involved or you'll hurt yourself very deeply. Have your morals strong and always know your cause. Only approach when the self and reason is secure or else you'd be miserable! Pain might be inevitable, anyhow it seems!

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posted June 12, 2014 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
My question is:
Is R manipulating me? If so, why and how?
How do I beat him and what is P's positioning on this?

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For your first set of questions, I pulled 7 of Pentacles, 10 of Cups, and 10 of Wands. According to the cards (and my initial feeling when I pulled them), it seems a little unclear as to whether or not R is manipulating you. I'd say that he is definitely up to something, but that it might take some time before his true intentions are revealed to you. He is trying to figure out which direction to go in.. seems to me that he's been working towards a goal, has reached it, and is now trying to decide if he wants to take it further. With 10 of Cups, I'd say he is genuine, but the cards are giving mixed messages -which is likely what you are picking up from him as well. The energy I'm picking up from this is actually a little unstable.. there is definitely some feelings of oppression and negativity present. I'm thinking this may actually be how you feel in this situation, although that isn't what was asked.. Something tells me it goes for him and his feelings too.

posted June 12, 2014 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Can I just ask if there are any changes coming to me (what are they) by my b-day (sept)

TY!

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posted June 12, 2014 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Yes it does, and it relieves me a little more.
read Jerseyshore's thread @karka, its related to this
Do you feel darkness coming from R btw? Like evil energy or is it coming from another source in ur opinion?

Did this feel otherworldy to you?

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posted June 12, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
TY! I could use the financial gain!

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posted June 12, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
To be completely honest, when I went to clear my cards after your reading, I did feel some dark energy.. I wouldn't call it evil, but it was definitely heavy. I felt like to had to shake it off, but was successful in doing so because I feel fine now. I'm used to feeling energy from those close to me, and that is much easier for me to pinpoint..but I knew it was coming from the energy I tapped into for your reading. It was hard for me to decipher if it was coming from R though.. I feel more like there is just confusion surrounding the situation, possibly from a source different than the people involved. Do you get what I mean?

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posted June 12, 2014 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Yes! Like a uninvited guest so to speak, right?

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Yes, that's a very good way to decribe it actually!

posted June 13, 2014 04:57 PM            

I still see that u did something in this to where he feels like he has to defend himself against what might come from you.

...is this correct? Do you feel that you need to clear the air with what happend? If you were in the wrong then you have to pay the Consequence and let him react..but then you take control and show him that you're not meaning any harm or ******** from this talk...u really just want to explain things and come to peace with this.

Now if I am reading this wrong and was the one who did wrong, then what I had said above, doesnt hold any value and disregard it

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Okay, so I contacted him last night with a pretty nice message.. and his response was mixed with a good, but rude, comment. So I responded in sort of the same way.. no response from him after that. I'm gonna go ahead and leave it alone now, but thought I'd update either way. Not sure of what your opinions are on this, but it seems to be in line with what you both said.. hopefully no more negativity will come of this.

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posted June 13, 2014 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Wow..

So has he always been like this?
I think u should leave him alone... i know how it stresses you out though

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