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Topic: Am I being friendzoned by him??
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SereneDaze Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 13, 2014 12:54 AM
I've been getting to know someone, I'll call him M. Ok, let me explain a little further, though this is making me blush >.<M and I are in a friends with benefits kind of relationship, and I never thought I would fall for him but I did. We've been having these intimate conversations and being playful with each other and thats how these feelings for him developed. I know he is physically attracted to me but what I really want to know if this will turn to something romantic in the long run? Or will he just see me as it is? IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 13, 2014 11:49 AM
Ah really no one can pull some cards? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 13, 2014 12:52 PM
To be honest, it feels like he is physically attracted to you, it feels like he respects you as a person...but it doesn't feel like he sees you as a truly romantic potential partner in any way. He legitimately sees you as a friend, just...not much else.IP: Logged |
Julz87 Knowflake Posts: 536 From: Houston Texas Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 13, 2014 02:50 PM
You too huh? me too I think I have been friendzoned, there was another post around here about some one els ebeing friendzoned as well. Idk what is going on XD maybe its that Mercury retro in Cancer-a Mercury retrograde in Cancer turns the mind toward things like family, home and the invisible emotional bonds that connect us. Anyway I pulled 3 cards fro you, I asked "is serenedaze being friendzoned by M?"I got in this order: Three of Pents The Magician Wheel of fortune. I think this looks promising so don't lose hope : ) IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 14, 2014 06:41 AM
Thanks losttaurus and Julz!I just came back from a session with a tarot reader. Sigh, i know the truth now but it just made me as confused as ever. I was told that he is really happy to have me but he won't make a decision about us going romantic anytime soon. It hurts like hell, and I don't feel like letting go. Here's hoping it works out for us Julz IP: Logged |
Julz87 Knowflake Posts: 536 From: Houston Texas Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 14, 2014 01:17 PM
Heres hopin' I recommend this lady, she was really good for me a deciphering peoples feelings. And she's very honest too no sugarcoating. http://psychic.bitwine.com/users/266491-sandiecamara IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 2871 From: Mälmo, Sweden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 14, 2014 01:29 PM
Here is what I pulled -7 of Wands - Queen of Pentacles - Knight of Wands He feels like he gets that homely comfort from you that he seeks. He's a player though and likes to flirt. He may flee from you so keep an eye out for that. If he had serious intentions, do you think he would engage in a friends with benefits relationship with you in the first place? Anyways, best of luck. The outcome card is STRENGTH - have strength to decide whats right and wrong. This could be just lusty sex or a long term sexual flings. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 15, 2014 04:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Here is what I pulled -7 of Wands - Queen of Pentacles - Knight of Wands He feels like he gets that homely comfort from you that he seeks. He's a player though and likes to flirt. He may flee from you so keep an eye out for that. If he had serious intentions, do you think he would engage in a friends with benefits relationship with you in the first place? Anyways, best of luck. The outcome card is STRENGTH - have strength to decide whats right and wrong. This could be just lusty sex or a long term sexual flings.
Yes, it started that way. And you're right, he is flirty. It's only been two months, we've been seeing each other regularly and he's always been the one to initiate contact. I am clear about how things are now. There is progression from where we first met. I just wanted to know if he sees me that way or he just wants to play around?
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Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1372 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 15, 2014 04:49 AM
Of course he intiates contact... he needs to keep the constant stream of no strings sex coming :S.IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 15, 2014 05:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Haplesschild*: Of course he intiates contact... he needs to keep the constant stream of no strings sex coming :S.
I was the one who started that fwb thing with him actually and we don't always end up that way, I'll try to hang out with him, see if he likes it that way too or steers it to sex again. IP: Logged |