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Topic: In need of some insight, please
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Adimi
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted June 14, 2014 11:03 AM
  
I'm in a really messy situation, guys... I like P and I'm pretty sure P feels the same way about me. D, who is a very close female friend of mine, likes P aswell and she finally told me that yesterday. I had known it for awhile, and for that reason I haven't been able to make much moves on P because I love my friend D and I will absolutely never have the intention of hurting her. This situation has been torturing me for months. She doesn't know of my feelings and I didn't have the courage to tell her so yet. I gave her genuine advice about this yesterday and I've been genuinely there for her, but I just can't help how I feel and I don't really know what's the best thing to do here. She told me that she found out that P liked a girl in the past and she took advantage of him... Ever since then, he promised himself to never ever make the first move again. She told me this through a text and I immediatly started crying the minute I read it because suddenly everything made sense in my mind, why he has been showing me interest for months but hasn't acted on it etc... To make things even more complicated, there's another really close friend of me, P and D (let's call him C) who just told me yesterday that he has an interest in me. D already knew about this and D and C have been supporting each other in regards to me and P. The thing is... I really do sense in all my heart that me and P are into each other. This situation is breaking my heart because I know all of us will come out of this situation hurt, in one way, or another. D will talk to P about her feelings this next week, if everything goes acording to plan. To be honest, I really want them to have that talk, because for the better or worse, much of what's going on will be sorted then. I'd like to know please how will that conversation go and how will P react to it, please? I can totally exchange with someone, if you're in need of some answers aswell. I'm sorry if what I wrote is confusing, I can clarify some parts, if needed. Thank you so much in advance! IP: Logged |
Love&Light
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: India
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 14, 2014 11:34 AM
Its not confusing. Atleast I didn't find it so. I asked what will P say to D. Will he say Yes. Does he want a relationship with Adi? You got -What will P say to D.
3 of swords. Oops!! So it is either his story which broke his heart. Or one where he is likely to break hers. Will he say yes to her.
4 of wands. So he may say yes but for a family oriented stuff. You know, the long term. Firm and founded. Does he want a relationship with Adi?
Page of Swords. So yes but a breezy appearance where he may make the mark but could move on. I hope this helps. Do tell me after they talk. I hope whatever happens it happens for the best of all of you. And yes....does Adi want C? 8 of wands. O O!!! A new love coming your way? Are you inclined little bit that way? And how will their relationship be?
Queen of Wands - Warm and friendly, loving and somewhat strong? So highs and lows perhaps. IP: Logged |
Adimi
Knowflake Posts: 478
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted June 14, 2014 11:46 AM
I honestly don't see P having feelings of the romantic sort for D... My gut is usually accurate, but I could be totally wrong, of course! After all, this situation also concerns me and it may be difficult to have an objective point of view. The possibility of him trying a relationship with her has definitely crossed my mind though, precisely due to the reasons you've mentioned. He may feel the need to be with someone reliable, trustworthy and who will give him true love. She is definitely all that.As in regards to C, I really don't see me and him working like that... I mean, we're REALLY emotionally compatible (and our synastry is amazing in that perspective), but I only see him as a friend. He is a spectacular person and deserves the best of the best, but I just can't help who I fall for. Now that he told me his feelings, I did consider what would it be like to be with him... But I really don't want to do this. He's not the one I feel strongly for and I don't want to hurt him, he doesn't deserve that. Thank you Love&Light, I will certainly give you feedback once they have the talk! x IP: Logged |
Love&Light
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: India
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 14, 2014 12:03 PM
Yes Queen of Wands could be more friendly and loving in friendly way than lover type...you know romance et al.IP: Logged | |
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