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Topic: New guy - Exchange offered
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Adimi
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posted June 25, 2014 05:53 AM
  
I met this new guy, let's call him "A". We haven't met face to face yet, but our connection and chemistry feel amazing already. I'm trying not to get too attached because once you meet someone in person, things could be totally different. Still, I have really been enjoying getting to know him and he has verbalized that the feelings are mutual.We feel highly attracted to each other but the connection feels more than physical. However, we both have trust issues, and although I do feel his genuine concern for me, I can't help but wonder if he may be a bit of a player... You know, trying to manipulate the emotional side of me just to "get in my pants". If someone could please look into his feelings and intentions for me, I'd highly appreciatte it. Exchange offered! Thank you.  IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted June 25, 2014 06:46 AM
Keen to try - will be right back IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted June 25, 2014 07:01 AM
So I did a Lenormand couples spread - and I for you I got -
Your thoughts and plans - tree - you are seeing this relationship as having a long term aspect potential.
Your hopes and desires - bouquet - you are hoping for a new beginning with him
Qualities you're displaying in the relationship - dog - you are being a really good friend, very loyal towards him
Your feelings - mountain - there's a blockage with your feelings towards him which is not surprising, like you said you've got trust issues... As for him...
His thoughts and plans - the ring - he wants a relationship with you, something serious.
His hopes and desires - the book - for you to open up with him, share more of yourself (be an open book).
Qualities he displays in a relationship - scythe - I'm a bit puzzled about this one, does he display as someone who cuts through? or removes stuff in order to move forward with you? Or maybe he is a bit aggressive?
His feelings - the fox - the fox usually indicates that something is not what it's seemed but because here we are talking about feelings I'm thinking that he is perhaps not sure of his feelings or is afraid to trust his feelings. Nevertheless because there's the fox be a bit careful with him. How will your relationship develop (adding all the cards) - for you we got #8 for him we got #12 together #20 so death + birds + garden Your situation will develop, your current status will change, after some talk there will be a meeting. I didn't understand if you guys met or not but I think you've only chatted online, well I think that's about to change... there's going to be a meeting. And I think with the ring as his his thoughts and plans I think he is serious towards you... Best of luck! My q - started a new job this Monday, what should I know about it? At the moment finding it a bit hard to adjust to the people and the software and everything... will it be better? Thanks! IP: Logged |
Adimi
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posted June 25, 2014 09:11 AM
Thanks Star  I will look into your question now and give you some feedback about your reading afterwards! I'll be back in a bitIP: Logged |
Adimi
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posted June 25, 2014 09:23 AM
I feel you would feel happier in something a little more creative than this. Nevertheless, I do see you keeping this job for a while and I sense progression with it. The difficulties will be there in these early stages, specially when it comes to technical stuff... However, you will learn slowly but surely. I feel you're someone highly competent in what you do and although the learning part won't go as fast as you'd wish, I don't see you making many mistakes because once you learn something, you won't forget and will make sure you're doing the right thing. People will appreciatte the effort that you give to this job. This job will always be hard work, I sense a lot of work, maybe extra hours even... But I do sense you growing to like it aswell. I think people around you will be the key here... Once you start to get along better with them, you will feel more at ease with this job. And you will create good relationships here.Let me know if there's anything else you'd want to know x IP: Logged |
Adimi
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posted June 25, 2014 09:46 AM
Okis, so in regards to your reading... My thoughts and plans: Yes, for some odd reason, I always felt a potential here. Which is so unlike me because I don't give this much trust to people who I don't even know personally. But with him... I actually do feel we'd be great together!
My hopes and desires: Yes... A new beginning couldn't be more correct.
Qualities I'm displaying in this relationship: Indeed! I think that's what he likes about me the most... I've been really genuine and authentic towards him and that's what kept him interested the most, I believe. Besides the physical attraction of course, which he isn't shy about mentioning either lol...
My feelings: Yes. I do like him but I'm not allowing myself to get too into deep here. I don't completely trust him yet... His thoughts and plans: You know, the way he treats me sometimes does lead me to think that... Maybe he's looking for a girlfriend and wants to see if we could actually work.
His hopes and desires: Oh yes! He knows about my trust issues though (and he has some of his own aswell) and he understands it.
Qualities he displays in a relationship: I don't know... Sometimes he can be a little pushy, but I'm not sure if I'm misunderstading his intentions because afterwards he shows himself to be realy understanding. He's quite impatient though and likes to get down to business right away, that's for sure.
His feelings: Oh, I see... We had a couple small arguments in the past couple of days, so that may be affecting his feelings right now too. Do you think the fox could mean he only sees me as a sexual object and is trying to manipulate me? But with the ring combination is hard to tell... No, we have never met. He got my contact through a cousin of mine and we've only talked online, so far. We started talking last week. We live in different cities but a couple of days ago he suggested I'd go there, which I found it to be a bit strange, as it's too soon for that, as far as I know. He has told me a few times now that he really likes me for who I am and he even said that if I thought he was talking to me just to see me naked, then we probably should stop talking. But then he has other attitudes which make confused, you know... Argh, he knows I'm complicated, he even said so yesterday, lol! We'll see. Thank you so much! IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted June 25, 2014 11:58 AM
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Originally posted by Adimi:
I feel you would feel happier in something a little more creative than this. Nevertheless, I do see you keeping this job for a while and I sense progression with it. The difficulties will be there in these early stages, specially when it comes to technical stuff... However, you will learn slowly but surely. I feel you're someone highly competent in what you do and although the learning part won't go as fast as you'd wish, I don't see you making many mistakes because once you learn something, you won't forget and will make sure you're doing the right thing. People will appreciatte the effort that you give to this job. This job will always be hard work, I sense a lot of work, maybe extra hours even... But I do sense you growing to like it aswell. I think people around you will be the key here... Once you start to get along better with them, you will feel more at ease with this job. And you will create good relationships here.Let me know if there's anything else you'd want to know x
Thank you so much, I really like your readings, you're always spot on! This is a contract position for a year so I'm glad to hear I'll stay for a while, that means I'll pass the probation period etc And I'm glad I'll do well once I'll learn everything, I just hate this situation of being clueless... You are really spot on about me needing to get along with the people more in order to enjoy the job more. In my previous job it was so much easier for me to interact with the stuff and made the days pass so much better... I hope I'll be able to connect with this new stuff... Thank you for the reading, made me relax a bit about it... Yeah, first days have been a bit tough, glad to know it'll improve IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted June 25, 2014 12:08 PM
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Originally posted by Adimi:
Okis, so in regards to your reading... His feelings: Oh, I see... We had a couple small arguments in the past couple of days, so that may be affecting his feelings right now too. Do you think the fox could mean he only sees me as a sexual object and is trying to manipulate me? But with the ring combination is hard to tell... No, we have never met. He got my contact through a cousin of mine and we've only talked online, so far. We started talking last week. We live in different cities but a couple of days ago he suggested I'd go there, which I found it to be a bit strange, as it's too soon for that, as far as I know. He has told me a few times now that he really likes me for who I am and he even said that if I thought he was talking to me just to see me naked, then we probably should stop talking. But then he has other attitudes which make confused, you know... Argh, he knows I'm complicated, he even said so yesterday, lol! We'll see. Thank you so much!
I'm glad my reading resonated! Regarding the Fox, my initial thought was more of him as a wounded animal, I don't know, I saw the card and felt sad for the Fox... Had it been in the position of 'what are his plans for you' I'd be worried that his intentions are not serious, be weary. But like you said, with the ringtthere I'm inclined to think his plans are legit, it's not just a sexual desire but having the fox in the mix he might be hiding his feelings or there's something about him you don't know yet. I think it's interesting that the cards showed that the next step is you guys arranging a meeting. I think things will become clearer with a meeting (mind you we don't know how the meeting will go but that seems like the next step. ) IP: Logged |
Adimi
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posted June 25, 2014 06:33 PM
I'm so glad it all made sense to you! Yes, just try to relax a little, these first days are always a bit more stressful and we're never sure if we're going to adapt well, but things will fall into place in time. As per my reading, maybe he feels sad about me or I hurt him in some way... We had a bit of a disagreement yesterday and maybe he was just trying to get closer to me and he felt I was pushing him away. There are certainly a lot of things I don't know about him yet, either... It's possible that he could be hiding something from me. There are things about him that he still doesn't want to tell me about. A meeting with him is possible, it's not out of question at all... Thanks again!! IP: Logged | |
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