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Topic: Synnestry with potential new partner.
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Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: May 2014
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posted June 28, 2014 01:18 AM
Hey everyone,I have taken a keen interest into Astrology and reading charts, but synnestry is new to me. I have been talking to a new girl recently. Both of us have gone through painful breakups. Both of us are nervous about taking the plunge and getting together. I have read her chart a little and shown her a few things that I know, but she and I both want to have an idea about our synnestry. I'm not really qualified to answer her. So here is the chart. Tell me what you see and help me understand it. http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c175/syntax351/Astrology/astro_61gw_01_18_david_kidd_jennifer1414031779_zps2f4b8003.gif IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4654 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 28, 2014 02:05 AM
Does your emotional nature feel weakened by your over bearing ego and you act real macho and flamboyant?You don't seem used to attuning into your sensitive emotions What's with you and weird Nessus and Moon-Pluto women? Her Nessus is on your Sun-Moon making you feel vulnerable to her which is a position you're not comfortable with for you are usually the alpha male in social situations. They are both in the 6th so I think she might feel like she's abusing your health or making you service her for her own benefit and gain despite how bad you're feeling. She has a Nessus square Moon, mother was sexually abused and projected this on her -- was she sexually abused too? she learns to victimize others through her pain. Moon-Pluto so this energy is very potent and powerful.. Her Prey is on your Persephone! Does she prey on your vulnerabilities because she completely understands them? Probably sucks up your financial resources too. She has Sun square Neptune natally and your Neptune is hitting her, even though this is generational given all the weird afflictions going on your chart I sense she has ego issues and easily indulgences in alcohol and lost her father at an early age or he himself was an addict from that Nessus sq Moon probably abused mother and the mother projected the abuse on her unaspected Mars, she does this in a very passive-aggressive way and probably acts sweet with you up front Saturn-Mars she restricts your masculinity and makes you feel weakened like she's the "queen" and you're just the knight of this relationship she doesn't like the way you act aggressively and take action so she polices this Saturn-MC and Mars in 10th so she is use to having power over men in general. Venus sq Saturn, she is displeased with your sensual pleasures, your taste in music, and the way you love. She makes you feel restricted and its hard for you to be affectionate and romantic with her because you feel constantly judged Venus conjunct your Ascendant, well that's good at least -- that the way you first appeared or appears to her fits her aesthetic beauty and finds you very handsome and pleasing to the eye, she also treated you good because of this Venus sq Saturn is also a binding effect btw Lust-Chiron she has a lot of pain with her passions and often over does it.. again I get the feeling she was shamed and sexually abused and now she acts really lustful while feeling shameful about it your Dejanira opposite her Venus... from what it appears a 2 orb.. ouch you are really rendered weak in her eyes and you feel even scared by her Venus sq Uranus, meet by unconventional means - - online dating or is she foreigner? this relationship is extremely hot and cold.. next day you're attached the other she is gone IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: May 2014
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posted June 28, 2014 02:48 AM
Thanks KarkaQueen.Let me start by saying I haven't met her yet. I started talking to her online about 2 weeks ago, and we hit it off well. She is a foreigner. She has recently gone through a hard time with her husband and they are divorcing, much like my situation with my ex wife. Seems we have a lot in common lol. So at this stage, she hasn't abused me in love or financially. There is a lot of attraction for both of us. She calls me handsome all the time, and she is pretty sexy herself. I don't know if she has experienced abuse in her life. She has made comments that she was the boss of her marriage!!! She actually said today that if we are incompatible, she will not date me. Fair enough as far as I'm concerned. I don't even know what I want at this stage. I'm hesitant to even date again, but I love to have someone with me. Nah my emotions don't take a back seat due to my ego. I wear my heart on my sleeve. If I'm upset, everyone knows about it. I don't hide it. I'm not ashamed of being upset. I'd rather get over it the fastest way possible, even if other people get to see it. I am macho and flamboyant, but I'm a beast Leo. What am I supposed to do? So all in all you would say this is probably not a good match for a partner? Friends only? How do you think 2 Mars in Scorpio's would go in the sack LOL? Problem for me is ( and I think it's MiS ) that I don't like to sleep around. I only like sleeping with someone I want a relationship with. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4654 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 28, 2014 03:04 AM
Nessus on Sun-Moon is real good sexual attraction had this with a guy, I was the Sun person and omg did I think he was super hot and such a bad, bad boy. I wanted him so bad thing is when I meet him IRL he was boring and no mutual attraction whatsoever so it might translate a little different rl yes I could tell. For some reason I pick up shes like Eastern European or Middle Eastern I think you like bad women if you know what I mean I forgot to say that there is a Moon-Pluto and she has this natally, extremely intense and will act as a femme fatale to you, will be in control of your heart and act like a little Nymphe she's really attached into this relationship because it gives her the intensity she needs.. can't help but to see her as some kind of bully though! For sex I'd have to see the composite IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: May 2014
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posted June 28, 2014 03:24 AM
Yes it seems I like women that are nasty to me. Well the truth is, I need someone with intensity and someone who is a bit weird. Give me the daughter of an Italian gangster any day.I'm not sure about composite charts, but is this what you are looking for? If not, let me know how to generate one and I'll post it. http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c175/syntax351/Astrology/davejencomposite_zps055a2322.gif IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4654 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 28, 2014 03:56 AM
..Your charts look exactly like each other but reversed. :eek2:Your ASC lord in the 11th house, you are friendly to her and love to connect to her on a purely social level and is greatly mentally simulated. You discuss topics like Astrology with her often.. your Aquarian energy is very activated in this relationship. square Moon you can have sudden outbursts and fights with her -- feeling threatened and irritable opposite Sun there is a huge power struggle between the both of you and you both find that very exciting and arousing Her Sun-Chiron, she's in extreme pain and feels she has to show her wounds from you and feels extremely painful. Sun shows she's the dominate one of the relationship and directs it -- you feel this pain and this brings up ego issues and problems with the father esp for her and shes shows by reacting violently. She has Sun in 29 degrees Pisces, I do not like this every time I see this in the natal -- they are often very distrusting of their fathers or have a poor connection and lash out them, resort to drug abuse and suicide attempts.. unfortunately sq to Neptune while in 2nd shows extreme body insecurity issues and self-abuse Moon sq Mercury in this too.. a lot of unclear communication and misunderstandings.. for a Moon-Pluto she may not getting the emotional output she needs so she resorts to violence to excite her Venus-Sun in 4th.. really loving feelings and this is good for sociability -- in Taurus so there will be a lot of sensuality and touching when you first meet The relationship NEEDS physical involvement -- expect that soon from her and her moving to you prematurely IP: Logged |
Leo-Dave Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: May 2014
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posted June 28, 2014 04:41 AM
So I guess this relationship wouldn't work well from what I read.Am I always going to be in pain when in love? I was told I would be from another astrologer friend as I have chiron conjunt my NN. What am I supposed to do if I will always be in pain? Stay single? Or is it a case of fore armed is fore warned? Knowing where the abuse and bad aspects are, try and avoid them. Is that possible or is it always going to come out? IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4654 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 28, 2014 04:51 AM
Chiron is also an healing aspect xIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 55675 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 28, 2014 08:11 AM
Wow, this looks very sexual and very obsessive, even, with that wild kind of fatal attraction passion that obsessive relationships can have. i don't see it being good, long term. That is my opinion anyway.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 42032 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2014 09:50 AM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |