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tphoenix5
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 04:35 PM
  
I would like to know about my sister, brother and mother. I will read cards or charts in exchange. We have no correspondence so I am interested in how they are getting on.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 06, 2014 04:53 PM
I'll trade t. I would like to know if Brian and I should go to this therapist, will it help our situation? Is intuitive all right with you on my part?IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
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posted July 06, 2014 05:30 PM
I will use tarot cards. And yes intuitive is great with me! Right back with your reading...IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted July 06, 2014 05:34 PM
What I can see intuitively is that your mother, brother, and sister are doing fine.  Have you been away awhile? Or just recently moved to a location far away from them? I think they miss you. I also believe you may have had a falling out with them and that is why you are asking. You miss them and they miss you. I think you got in a fight with them before you left, but not to worry, they have forgiven you and love you very much. IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
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posted July 06, 2014 05:38 PM
first I will tell you the cards
7 of swords Rx
8 of Pentacles Rx
StrengthI would have to say probably not and here is why. Brian will see this as taking his time for something he does not want to participate in. He feels he will not learn and when you are in a mindset you cant learn... sometimes you cant...The strength card says to me that if you stay the course and really hold on.. things will work out. I asked for clarification to stay the course and I got.. 7 of wands... which says it will end up in your favor if you stay the course. I am usually a big one for therapy but I do know of cases where it made matters worse and in your case it could. Brian (or maybe you) is like a mule that you want to lead in a new direction. You pull and pull and pull and it only makes the mule dig his hoofs in harder. But I see Strength and 7 of wands as being successful in resolving the issues of the relationship. Sound anything Like what is going on? IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 05:41 PM
well actually my brother threw me out.... and my sister put him up to it. My mom is 96 and near death. I did move far away. I had to or I would say things I could not retract. Money does strange things to people and my brother and sister believe I do not deserve any. My sister likes to tell people she hates me. I do not know why... but I accept we cannot change our feelings only our minds.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
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posted July 06, 2014 05:41 PM
Our problems are more sexual....I was just wondering if we should pursue therapy for it...IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
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posted July 06, 2014 05:42 PM
I did sense an anger, but I also sensed a forgiveness, particularly on the male part(your brother). Your sister I feel is still very angry.
Is there anything I could do to make the situation better, and when will it be resolved?
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tphoenix5
Knowflake Posts: 178
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 05:48 PM
I pulled cards again...
Here are the cards I pulled this time.
High Priestess Rx
Queen of Pentacles Rx
2 of swords.
Again, I think no it would not result in the outcome you are looking for. In fact, to me it says that Brian may seek someone else for comfort to the whole issue. (And comfort can come in many forms). It would leave both of you feeling as though there were more questions than answers. I asked if you should try role play and here is the cards
The Hermit
Knight of cups
4 of wands Rx This says to me that taking up a study together in role playing or some other fanciful play might indeed be the way to go. A night on the town or have him court you the old fashioned way. It would not turn out like everyone else but you two might be pleased with the result. IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
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posted July 06, 2014 05:50 PM
ok thank you
Do you know when our issues will be resolved? Is there any estimated time period of when it might be resolved?
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whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
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posted July 06, 2014 05:50 PM
ok thank you
Do you know when our issues will be resolved? Is there any estimated time period of when it might be resolved?
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tphoenix5
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From: USA
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posted July 06, 2014 05:51 PM
You need to remember that when we are involved with people in intimate ways... sometimes we are too close to see what the real issue is. You need to give him some space ... but in a way he does not know you are deliberately trying to give him space. Hey, Brian, I am going for a walk with the dog (or alone)I will be back in an hour... or shopping or ..because issues like this tend to fester... and picking at them does not help them heal. So find ways to give him some room so that it can come back around for both of you.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted July 06, 2014 05:51 PM
what do you mean it would not turn out like everyone else?IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 05:53 PM
This looks like August or there abouts. It looks like you may fight a bit before then and I am not trying to put that out there. I just see it but then whatever is causing the current rift falls away. Do not gloat or give any indication that you won... and you two will see the sun again.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 06, 2014 05:54 PM
I mean I don't mean to get too intimate, but in the bedroom he has a difficult time maintaining erections. But I walked in on him the other day with pictures, and he can totally stay hard for those...so I am starting to wonder if the problem is me. And what I can do about it. Can you do a reading asking what is going on with him?IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
Knowflake Posts: 178
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 05:55 PM
I mean that your version of happiness and togetherness as a couple is different from everyone elses.... dont try to make it the same.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 06, 2014 05:56 PM
Is there anything else I can answer T?IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 05:56 PM
I know that is the problem and I was trying to be delicate. Again... he needs some space right now. He feels totally confined. Give him some space and he will be back to where he can stay up for ya. Right now he feels confined and stressed and that is doing nothing for his condition.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
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posted July 06, 2014 05:57 PM
ok thank you. Again is there anything else I can answer?IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
Knowflake Posts: 178
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 05:58 PM
well i did wonder if anyone will ever discover my sister? She is not a nice person but she bills herself as such. Another reason i left town. I would say something one day if i had stayed.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 06, 2014 06:00 PM
I think people will come to discover her. She needs to fix herself. Is she manipulative? Like portrays a nice person but in actuality very mean and cold hearted? I think she may end up very sad in the future unless things change. People will simply not want to be around her.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 06, 2014 06:02 PM
could I ask another question? Would he be better if it were any other woman? Or would it be the same?IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 06, 2014 06:04 PM
I mean...its not that he finds me unattractive is it...?IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
Knowflake Posts: 178
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 06, 2014 06:04 PM
Your insecurity is not helping you. I think because he is having issues of feeling stressed and hemmed in, he would feel this way with any woman. He needs time. Again, give him a few days and suggest some type of role play. If he ever fantasied himself a fireman... play woman with burning building and fireman. I dont know... but some type of role play where you are not WW111 and he is not Brian. Therefore the outcome will be on them... not on you two.IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
Moderator Posts: 1891
From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 06, 2014 06:06 PM
ok He does like the whole being examined by the nurse thing...lol. Thanks! IP: Logged |
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