posted July 08, 2014 12:43 AM            

What happened between you and P: 7 of cups rx-Queen of pents- Hierophant rx

You're the Queen of pents here so he's physically attracted and he sees you as sensual, alluring, etc. but you also might be in a more stable position since he seems to have his head in the clouds about something and might not want to face reality or follow what's "expected" in this situation. Normally I'd read the 7 of cups rx as "disillusionment" but for some reason in this case it seems more like extreme fantasy or wishful thinking to me..

His motivations: Ace of swords rx-2 of swords-5 of cups

Seems like he's been mulling this over and finally cracked even though he sees it as a no win situation... He doesn't want to end communication with you and maybe is stuck on this old pattern as the only way things can "work" between you. On some level he knows the damage or regret it would bring but seems to be in a bit of denial based on the other cards?

Hope this resonates, let me know if you have any other questions!

posted July 08, 2014 12:54 AM            

Does the 7 of Cups feel spiritual or highly psychic in a way to you?

posted July 08, 2014 01:39 AM            

How to improve things: Judgment rx-Queen of swords- ace of cups

Hmm ok I'm getting that there's definitely big potential here but first you'll have to release yourselves and each other from "judgment" in a literal sense.. Take biases out of the equation and don't be afraid to discuss things honestly. Basically if you want the connection to grow try to move towards the more expressive and communicative traits of the queen of swords rather than being primarily focused on the mundane practicalities of the situation.. Tap into each other's minds by approaching things first from an intellectual perspective, then the emotional connection can flourish just as deeply.. Just be sure to keep a clear head about everything still and don't let yourself be swayed..

posted July 08, 2014 02:09 AM            

How he feels
KING OF SWORDS
9 OF COINS
THE CHARIOT
He has a high rank over you and his emotions are divorced from his reality with you. He thinks about you objectively and his thoughts are more easily swayed by prejudice of your character rather than any personal feeling he has. He treats you like any other human being, I believe and there doesn't seem to be any special treatment. He is self-restrained but not in a way that is detrimental to him, he is actually financial independent and well and surrounded by luxury which he uses modestly. He is refined and elegant and this is the reason why he appeals to you, combined with him being intelligent, witty, and an excellent conservationist. He values justice over mercy and this is what makes him a fair character who treats everyone equally.
At the end it shows he is proceeding on the next level of his feelings of you, his impressions are becoming more developed and he was quite content with his past experiences. Let's see what the stage brings in a few weeks or months.. that'll be interesting to see.

What he wants to proceed
8 OF SWORDS
5 OF COINS
9 OF SWORDS
It looks like he is uninterested to do so because of (most likely in this case) social restrictions not allowing you two to really get together. He doesn't feel comfortable with you completely and barely considers you to be one of his own to take under his wing. He finds you too below him or not financially equipped enough, or he is holding on to a relationship and recently going through a divorce or separation with a woman who so dearly loves. He is in mental pain right now but due to his King of Swords nature he doesn't show it and its hard to tell what he feels, he doesn't allow people to access in him easily and even with people he knows very well it's still the case for that.9 of Swords people can never see things right and its like their sexual attraction to others is shut off because of the malaise of their mental state. I don't think this is a good time to be interested in him. He's very depressed and there's a lot of things going on..

Some advice for you
KING OF WANDS
THE DEVIL
10 OF COINS
It looks like you're extremely attached to him sexually and see him as this sexy, hot, charming dude you can't get but you feel so bounded by. For a Cancer he sure has a lot of Fire/Air energy.. sheesh!! I don't think this was completely one sided because the King of Wands is a sexual man, have you been involved with him intimately at one point or flirted with each other? It's telling you that you should stop being too concerned with pleasures of the flesh and look at things from a spiritual viewpoint. A lot of earthly energies that are chaining you to this relationship so to speak, very obsessive energy -- this is very very bad and retards your growth.

posted July 08, 2014 02:58 AM            

For your question about J: Queen of swords rx-Knight of Wands- Ace of Wands

Lol I'm assuming whatever you revealed was something pretty sexual? I actually don't think she's disgusted but maybe doesn't know exactly how to respond or was a little shocked by how blunt and explicit this confession was.. She might think you did this because your mind had been overcome by passion/lust (knight of wands makes me think this involves one person in particular- maybe she thinks he had an unfair amount of power or influence in the situation) or she just doesn't understand the logic behind it.. Again I don't get disgust though if anything it seems like she's concerned or intrigued but on a level she's not comfortable talking about..

posted July 08, 2014 03:06 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Thank you, again that makes a lot of sense! We're just friends now and he's holding onto a relationship (which I think was important for him but get the sense it's going very well) so yeah not the right time. But I get that he's hurting and maybe realizing he was never so invincible after all. Also true the physical chemistry/obsession has gone both ways, he initiated things but I'm the one still chained by it apparently.

For your question about J: Queen of swords rx-Knight of Wands- Ace of Wands

Lol I'm assuming whatever you revealed was something pretty sexual? I actually don't think she's disgusted but maybe doesn't know exactly how to respond or was a little shocked by how blunt and explicit this confession was.. She might think you did this because your mind had been overcome by passion/lust (knight of wands makes me think this involves one person in particular- maybe she thinks he had an unfair amount of power or influence in the situation) or she just doesn't understand the logic behind it.. Again I don't get disgust though if anything it seems like she's concerned or intrigued but on a level she's not comfortable talking about..

Anyway thanks again Karka I appreciate it

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posted July 08, 2014 03:30 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
No problem And sorry I might have to do your question in the morning but I will get to it promise

On a personal note though, just know you have other options before considering that..my chart shows it too but in most circumstances it's rarely ever worth it imo...

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That is true but I never asked the Tarot it before, I'm just curious of what would be the outcome of it.

posted July 09, 2014 01:15 AM            

What your career will be like: 8 of pents-Ace of wands-9 of pents

Ok you will have to start from the bottom (as most people do) and work as an apprentice or intern in your chosen field- lots of effort and commitment required which you might not feel adequately compensated for right away, but these efforts will pay off and after observing others and learning the right moves to make it will spark some major inspiration to strike out on your own and become successful independently (I'd see this as starting or owning your own business possibly)

How it would be if you went into sex work: King of pents rx-the devil rx-strength

I don't like the King of pents rx here- men controlling your financial situation... then with the devil this could lead you down a road of dependency or addiction you might not be aware of going into things originally You'll gain strength by overcoming the experience or situation but at what cost..? Strength came up for me once in a question that later involved violence so even that irks me too, as if you'll be at the mercy of other peoples "strength"