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posted July 12, 2014 08:19 PM            

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Hi LL, been taking a break from reading as things have picked up A LOT lately! Anyway, I've been seeing this guy for 3 weeks and would like to know what's been going on with him lately? He came on very strong and fast in the beginning, but seems to have slowed down a bit. Does he still like me?
I honestly feel a little silly asking this question because I feel and believe the answer is yes.. and I've asked him if something is up and he says things are fine, but I'm still kind of confused. If anyone can help tonight that would be great. I had some trouble reading earlier, but feel better able to draw some cards now..

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posted July 12, 2014 08:25 PM            

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I do believe everything is fine.... or at least we'll be fine but of course don't instigate anything and don't ask him anymore questions about it.

I don't see where is anything that you have done differently or wrong I truly believe it's just the normal cooling down stage almost freaked out stage . He's take a step back and say OK is this is what I want , the direction I want it to go.... has he purposely slow down yes he has he's just taking stock of everything right now. it's almost as if that excitement had burst like wait a minute and need to come back down and get realistic he's always trying to find fault... but he'll get out of that say to very soon

can you C if it's better for me to stay in Chicago also in terms of job in love or if it's better for me to move to St Louis and I'll have better opportunities there

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posted July 12, 2014 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I do believe everything is fine.... or at least we'll be fine but of course don't instigate anything and don't ask him anymore questions about it.

I don't see where is anything that you have done differently or wrong I truly believe it's just the normal cooling down stage almost freaked out stage . He's take a step back and say OK is this is what I want , the direction I want it to go.... has he purposely slow down yes he has he's just taking stock of everything right now. it's almost as if that excitement had burst like wait a minute and need to come back down and get realistic he's always trying to find fault... but he'll get out of that say to very soon

can you C if it's better for me to stay in Chicago also in terms of job in love or if it's better for me to move to St Louis and I'll have better opportunities there

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posted July 12, 2014 08:38 PM            

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Whoops! Didn't mean to hit submit lol.. thank you Cherful, that makes total sense and makes me feel better about it. I'm going to draw your cards now.

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posted July 12, 2014 09:13 PM            

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Okay, so I typed up an entire reading and my computer erased it...so here's a condensed version:

For job/career, it looks like Chicago will be better for you (10 of Pentacles) than it would be in St Louis (7 of Swords). For love, I drew knight of pentacles and 7 of wands.. it looks like it would be about the same to me in either place as far as love goes, and I think that for any changes in your love life to take place would require some extra work and effort on your part. Also, dating in St Louis might be more competitive than expected in comparison to Chicago. For overall happiness and success, I pulled Ace of Wands for Chicago and 9 of Swords for STL. Needless to say, I believe that it would be a better option for you to stay in Chicago, at least for now.. Who knows what could change later, but at the present moment I think that the move wouldn't bring the expected fulfillment you're looking for. I'd say give it a few more months and then try asking again if things in Chicago don't get better for you soon.. I think some positive changes are coming your way in Chi if you do decide to stay though. I hope this helps!

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posted July 12, 2014 09:22 PM            

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Ya know, on second thought.. If you're looking to challenge yourself a bit more, or feel the need to step out of your comfort zone a bit, St Louis may not be a bad move. The 9 of Swords vs Ace of Wands still makes me think Chicago is a better choice, but since swords tend to deal with thoughts, it could just signify some mental anguish associated with adjusting to a new environment. I still think. Chicago would be "easier".. so I guess it depends on what you're looking to get from moving to a new city.

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posted July 12, 2014 09:28 PM            

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I'm looking for a better job and I'm looking for a stable long-term relationship and I'm looking for easiness that hasn't happened in Chicago for me

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posted July 12, 2014 09:41 PM            

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Oh..interesting. It didn't happen for me there either, Cherful.. if you're into astrology at all, maybe you can do a relocation chart on astro.com and have someone take a look at it for you? It sounds like you've got your heart set on St Louis at this point either way though. Sorry I couldn't help more.. :-/

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posted July 12, 2014 09:48 PM            

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I'm just frustrated that's all thank you

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posted July 12, 2014 10:00 PM            

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You're welcome

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