posted July 25, 2014 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
I'm so confused as to what to do and would appreciate any insight you guys can give me. I received an email from A - we haven't spoken in well over a year and a half. What are his intentions with this? I'm debating between responding / not responding - and just can't see which action would be best for this.

Thanks in advance! I truly appreciate anyone who takes the time to look at this and respond.

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Codependancy
Religious Factors
Reconciliation

This speaks of someone coming back into your life, but not for good or healthy reaons..he is needy and wants something from you, which may not be good for you. Did it end badly. Are there religious differences or at least did you have opposing spiritual beliefs. I would tread carefully here as *needy* is the word i heard first

Good luck to you

posted July 25, 2014 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
Thank you so so much, redshoes! Your reading totally resonates. Religious / cultural differences did play a major part in our breakup. And it took an emotional toll on me - so it definitely wasn't an easy thing for me to get over.
In terms if advice for my reaction to this - Do you think I should just ignore the email or should I respond?

I would ignore it if it was me...what is to be gained from responding. Do you want to go back to the place you were at before? It is up to you of course, but my gut feeling says if you went back there, you would open up old wounds..i feel you are through now with this guy? xxx

Thanks again for looking into this for me!! Sending warm wishes your way

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posted July 25, 2014 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I hope you don't mind me answering Lilac. This is in no way a psychic answer. I think if you want to answer you should. If you feel you have closed that chapter for good and don't want to open the book again then don't answer. But if you feel you have something left unfinished or unresolved feelings then I think you should respond. Do what's in your heart and what you feel is best for you. Good luck and please update as to how it goes.

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