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posted July 25, 2014 03:23 PM            

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I accidentally had a breakdown at work. There are issues going on at home and I went into the employees room and the people in there were the ones that didn't like me. The tension was thick and it just made things worse, so I started crying out of nowhere.

I am embarassed and asked to go home. I wanted to know how did my coworkers react to my meltdown? Will relations ever get better between me and my coworkers? I know that I'm the talk of the town now, I'm afraid they'll mock me when I go back on Sunday

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posted July 25, 2014 04:11 PM            

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Sorry you've been going through this.

1. Star/3 of Cups/Knight of Pentacles/Empress: Your spirit guides are telling you do not give up! Have faith in your ability to make friends with your co-workers. The Empress and 3 of Cups together shows that you must use some of your inner charm and empathy in order to win over your co-workers. The Star reiterates that you must be positive and have faith that you can turn this situation around to your advantage, since the power lies within YOU! Your spirit guides are also telling you to avoid gossip and drama and continue doing a good job with your position. Your hard work will pay off in more ways than one.

2. The Hermit/King of Wands 9 of Wands: You are drawing into your shell, not showing your real, vibrant self due to past hurts with these co-workers that have led you to become defensive [walls up = 9 of Wands]. Instead of letting yourself go into defensive mode, you need to be more assertive, channeling your inner King of Wands. The King of Wands shows that, like the Empress, charisma can go a long way in leaving a good impression - and be a little bold if you must. Put on a smiling, vibrant face, because killing them with kindness is the best way to get respect.

3. Queen of Pentacles/Knight of Swords Rx/8 of Pentacles Rx: Shows possible drama, gossip, and hurtful words being exchanged behind other's backs, not just about you, but everyone - because some people are like this at your job. Judgmental and stinging attitudes are shown with the Knight of Swords Rx. 8 of Pentacles Rx shows that this is to the detriment of their professionalism. At heart, you are a solid, stable professional - rise above the drama and do NOT care about the opinions of those weaker than you and those who are mean. You have the potential to make good, fun friendships with kinder co-workers are evidenced by the first part of the spread!

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posted July 25, 2014 04:20 PM            

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Thank you sweet scorpion! I do get along with certain coworkers but some other coworkers, I don't get along with. It's just that today, I got scheduled with those that I don't get along with and the one coworker who hates my guts made a 'joke' about how the balloon was my head and how we was going to slit it. And he took a knife and slit the balloon. Usually when he tells stuff like that, I just ignore it and never take them seriously, it's all talks but with the problems I have at home that was the last drop that made me explode.

Honestly, I can't take it anymore. I am going to start looking elsewhere. I do get along with certain coworkers, but I feel like life's too short to deal with hateful people.

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posted July 25, 2014 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by MillyX:
Thank you sweet scorpion! I do get along with certain coworkers but some other coworkers, I don't get along with. It's just that today, I got scheduled with those that I don't get along with and the one coworker who hates my guts made a 'joke' about how the balloon was my head and how we was going to slit it. And he took a knife and slit the balloon. Usually when he tells stuff like that, I just ignore it and never take them seriously, it's all talks but with the problems I have at home that was the last drop that made me explode.

Honestly, I can't take it anymore. I am going to start looking elsewhere. I do get along with certain coworkers, but I feel like life's too short to deal with hateful people.

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Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear that your co-workers are embodying what I had mentioned before... that is truly terrible and you don't deserve that abuse. When I pulled the reversed Knight of Swords, I sensed some serious issues with certain co-workers. However, before you give up, you need to try to file complaints to HR and your superiors about threatening and abusive behavior in the work place, if you have not already. What you are telling me is beyond horrible and I feel that action should be taken against them!

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posted July 25, 2014 04:55 PM            

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Fortunately the one coworker who makes threats to me is leaving. He is in the army. He is a ******* , he once told me that he hoped someone would rape me someday and who knows 'maybe you'll even like it'. I don't plan on filing a complaint. I just plan on leaving and starting new, ain't got time to be tangled in situations like this. He is the favorite anyways. They love him, he's been there long before me. It makes me sick how, he might be respected because he is in the army but really he is only in the army because he had no future, did not finish his education and was basically playing video games, partying and being a druggy whilst working at a grocery store. F*ck him really.

I understand that in life, you can't get along with everyone. That I understand, that's why when I sense tension I don't interact, I just stay in my corner and keep quiet. But I don't understand how some people have the nerve and pass on little comments here and there to start something. You never know what another person is going through internally, so it's best to just leave someone alone, instead of making matters worse.

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