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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1645 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 28, 2014 06:21 PM
Hello!I owe you a reading. Sorry. I was camping all weekend. So, I had no service at all. The thread you mentioned is pretty full I couldn't find your question. So if you would like to post it here: ) IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1645 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 30, 2014 04:39 PM
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sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 1891 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 30, 2014 09:13 PM
Hey Venus, no worries at all. Thanks for reaching out to me! I actually had a new, more appropriate question vs. the old one. So my new question is: Do I have an unhealthy relationship with H? If so, how can I ameliorate the situation and put some healthy distance between us? Thank you /hug/IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1645 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 30, 2014 10:25 PM
Ok definitely! Eight of swords- who is super possessive of who? That's what it looks like someone being tied down and tries to control aspects of the life. Three of swords- I feel like you two or one tries to maybe tear the other down or there's constantly feelings being hurt, sorrow. Six of wands- success after a battle seems to the theme a situation happens then quickly it's all lovely again which is pattern of independent relationships it's bad then all of sudden I'm sorry I'm sorry I need you type of thing.
I feel you are in a very clingy unhealthy relationship.
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sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 1891 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 30, 2014 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Ok definitely! Eight of swords- who is super possessive of who? That's what it looks like someone being tied down and tries to control aspects of the life. Three of swords- I feel like you two or one tries to maybe tear the other down or there's constantly feelings being hurt, sorrow. Six of wands- success after a battle seems to the theme a situation happens then quickly it's all lovely again which is pattern of independent relationships it's bad then all of sudden I'm sorry I'm sorry I need you type of thing.
I feel you are in a very clingy unhealthy relationship.
Thanks for this! Oh, for the possessiveness...well, I have the sense that she is even more possessive than me in certain ways? I've drawn 4 of Pentacles for her many times. I'm learning how to stop being possessive of other people vs. how badly I used to be. 3 of Swords is quite troubling... I could never see myself verbally attacking her, and I never thought she could do that to me, we have Venus-Moon in an exact conjunction in our comp. and she seems afraid to even disagree with me in a friendly way about anything! So I have no idea...perhaps this might mean that one or both feelings are hurt if we separate? Does the 6 of Wands basically indicate that I'll have a hard time separating myself from her when the time comes..? It's weird, I feel like she must be the more 'clingy' one than me...can you pick anything about that? I just don't know how to separate from her when the time comes...like I feel if this is clingy or addictive, I need to stop it right NOW. And I'm becoming more and more OK with that. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1645 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 30, 2014 10:47 PM
No problem! I think 3 of swords is someone being super sensitive a person an have hurt feelings without being vocal. I will pull some cards go e you as soon as I'm home in about 30 mins. Do you mind pulling some or a exchange? If so, my question is I may have asked but did he move her into his house? What's the deal between them? How does he view me physically mentally? Why did he choose her over me? IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1645 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 31, 2014 12:46 AM
SweetscorpionThe world- P will understand. I don't think it will be as bad as you think. She will realize you have reached your pinnacle and change moving on is necessary. I don't think right away she will but she won't like stalk you Or anything either. Six of cups- she will reminisce a lot and be in the past and hold onto those memories. 10 of wands- She will feel a heavy, like picking up starting again finding someone new a relationship will be such a burden to her. Let me know that resonates: ) IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 1891 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 03:56 PM
Thanks for this. I will get to your question soon...I'm not sure if it totally resonates. I'm having a lot of mixed-up feelings about this person right now so it's hard for me to say. I'll do your reading anyway very shortly. Hope you are well.IP: Logged |