posted July 31, 2014 04:35 PM            

Dog-Child-Trees

Is he a long standing childhood friend? (Dog-Child-Trees). He has a deep, strong rooted connection to you as a friend (Dog-Trees), and his feelings of love towards you seems to have been developed only recently, so they’re very immature right now (Child). He’s trusting (Child) the strength of your friendship and loyalty that you have for each other (Dog-Trees).

Flowers-Mouse-Sun

If you choose to date him, your friendship and all the fun, happiness and joy you share everyday (Flowers) will be subjected to stress and worry (Mouse). There’s the Sun card at the end of the line, possibly indicating that you might be able to overcome the difficulties together and be a happy couple.

Child-Ship-Anchor

If you decide not to involve in a love relationship with him, both of you will move away from this new relationship possibility (Child-Ship), and everything between you guys will again be secure and reliable (Anchor).

posted July 31, 2014 10:28 PM            

Just watched Amazing Spiderman 2. That’s why it took so long to get back to you, sorry. Okay, let’s do the reading!

Cloverleaf-Heart-Ring

No, I don’t think his disappointment of rejection continues. He believes that he has a second chance (Cloverleaf) to have a love relationship with you (Heart-Ring).

Garden-Coffin-Mouse

And there’s no other girl involved, like he said. He doesn’t really seem to be socially active these days (Garden-Coffin). Maybe, occasionally, he does go out with other friends, but not as often as he used to be. I think the thought of being with someone else is making him sick and stressed out (Coffin-Mouse).

posted August 02, 2014 03:07 AM            

I'm not giving a read but more of some advice. I dated my best friend and now we barely talk to each other because his new-ish gf hates me a lot. I miss him as a friend, I truely do. (note the anguish?)

Anyway, a best-friend hardly ever comes along, and sometimes it is really tough to be rejected, however I think you need to explain, logically, why you rejected him and tell him that the friendship between the two of you is precious. Yes, you will have to approach him, but it's not bad in the grand scheme of things to preserve the friendship.

posted August 02, 2014 12:08 PM            

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Originally posted by ash20:
I have even done some suggestive things to kinda motivate him to try harder. I am always the one giving in and reaching out when weeks go by without talking. He isn't even being a friend now but gets jealous when there's another guy in my life.

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Put the shoe on the other foot. If you liked him and he told you he wanted to be 'just friends' and there was another girl around him, you would be ok with it? You wouldn't be jealous at all?