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Topic: @cherful
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filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1841 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 31, 2014 09:17 PM
Would you like to exchange?I kinda wanted to know what this guy's feelings are for me... If he's interest in me or not, and if we're going to date or something. His initial is G. Let me know your question if you want to exchange. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2780 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 31, 2014 10:44 PM
Is his real initial G?can you tell me anything about my next love interest if its just dating if its long term if marriage and is there anything I need to do to attract this person IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2780 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 01:15 AM
.... why does it feel that there's already been some sort of date or did you guys just hang out and therefore wasn't the date..... even if this is work related like having lunch together or something could that be the hang out and seeing?anyways I do see dating happening but it's like with each date, I see more and more uneasy.. is there a reason that this would happen... The uneasiness feeling? it seems like it will be a handful of dates only. for some reason I keep getting the sense of truly connecting is just proving to be too difficult IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1841 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 01, 2014 07:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: can you tell me anything about my next love interest if its just dating if its long term if marriage and is there anything I need to do to attract this person
Base: 3 spades Spread: Queen diamonds - 3 clubs - 6 spades Looks like a love triangle, to be honest with you. For some reason, I'm getting that you'll be the one that is not in the official relationship, as the Queen of Diamonds represents the other woman in traditional cartomancy. The 3 of Clubs can also stand for a three-way partnership. The 6 of Spades is saying that you'll want to breakup your next love interest's relationship, but that you need to let go. Intuitively, I feel this is a connection to an ex that you haven't severed yet. It's holding you back from being emotionally available to love. You're waiting for someone to make you forget about the ex, but you're clinging to him. You won't let anyone in as long as you're holding onto him. I think he continues to be your love interest for the time being and the near future. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1841 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 01, 2014 07:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: .... why does it feel that there's already been some sort of date or did you guys just hang out and therefore wasn't the date..... even if this is work related like having lunch together or something could that be the hang out and seeing?anyways I do see dating happening but it's like with each date, I see more and more uneasy.. is there a reason that this would happen... The uneasiness feeling? it seems like it will be a handful of dates only. for some reason I keep getting the sense of truly connecting is just proving to be too difficult
His initial is really G. We had a study session recently, yes. Not a romantic date in any way. No idea what the uneasiness could be about... Perhaps one of us or both realizing that it was a mistake? Or maybe the dates you're seeing are just us doing our study session and we not having anything more to study. And yes, truly connecting is proving to be too difficult. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2780 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 08:06 PM
I see that makes sense so its not dating .... actual date is getting together for another purpose. so why you guys might have more study groups or some sort of hang out together I don't see the romantic dating happening.... for whatever reason it's too hard to connect with you too for some reason maybe it's just not the right time Exedra QUOTE]Originally posted by filleaspirant: His initial is really G. We had a study session recently, yes. Not a romantic date in any way. No idea what the uneasiness could be about... Perhaps one of us or both realizing that it was a mistake? Or maybe the dates you're seeing are just us doing our study session and we not having anything more to study. And yes, truly connecting is proving to be too difficult.[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2780 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 08:15 PM
... its not that I'm clinging ( I am unfortunately clinging onto the anger) to him, but because honestly that nobody else wants to come inif someone asked me out trust me I would go out on that date so with no one knew I just a guess replay events in my head with him QUOTE]Originally posted by filleaspirant: Base: 3 spades Spread: Queen diamonds - 3 clubs - 6 spades Looks like a love triangle, to be honest with you. For some reason, I'm getting that you'll be the one that is not in the official relationship, as the Queen of Diamonds represents the other woman in traditional cartomancy. The 3 of Clubs can also stand for a three-way partnership. The 6 of Spades is saying that you'll want to breakup your next love interest's relationship, but that you need to let go. Intuitively, I feel this is a connection to an ex that you haven't severed yet. It's holding you back from being emotionally available to love. You're waiting for someone to make you forget about the ex, but you're clinging to him. You won't let anyone in as long as you're holding onto him. I think he continues to be your love interest for the time being and the near future.[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1841 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 01, 2014 08:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: I see that makes sense so its not dating .... actual date is getting together for another purpose. so why you guys might have more study groups or some sort of hang out together I don't see the romantic dating happening.... for whatever reason it's too hard to connect with you too for some reason maybe it's just not the right time Exedra
I think you connected. Can't see us going out romantically, not with how we are. I was trying to connect with him, but I don't know. It's just hard. Can't express what I want to him. But it's okay that this was what you saw. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1841 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 01, 2014 08:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by cherful24: ... its not that I'm clinging ( I am unfortunately clinging onto the anger) to him, but because honestly that nobody else wants to come inif someone asked me out trust me I would go out on that date so with no one knew I just a guess replay events in my head with him
Don't wait for another guy to come in and make you forget about the ex and/or your anger towards him. Let go of all your feelings for the ex. You'll see changes and improvements then. IP: Logged |
cherful24 Knowflake Posts: 2780 From: chicago, il Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 08:36 PM
I meant for you 2 to connect to each other to bring it to the dating level is just too difficult, I don't see that happening. and I don't feel it because he doesn't think you're interesting..... I just don't think the timing is right for this merge to come about. so are the positive side don't feel rejected, it really isn't you. IP: Logged |