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posted August 04, 2014 01:12 PM            

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Hi Cherful! Do you want to exchange?

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posted August 04, 2014 01:24 PM            

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Wow... I don't think that was the best move. but I'm sure you know that. I don't know if it was like a flip in character for you but he seems really uncomfortable. I don't think he's going to hold it to you or against you forever. but he's going to continue with the withdrawing for a bit. so the relation between you two might slow down is it more than it currently is.

definitely don't bring it up I think he just needs his space. Yes hes casting judgement on you for that and he just needs to watch your behavior for a little bit longer for him to go back to the way he was and forget about this completely

so I wasn't able to make it to my job interview up here in Chicago so now I really do have to just stay in st. Louis. I have nothing at all lined up and in 2 months rent will start kicking in. so I'm a bit nervous so can you come to tell me how that's going to go... well I find a job?!

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posted August 04, 2014 01:44 PM            

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For you I pulled Desiree-conditions aren't favorable right now...so my take would be no, you won't find a job. "Self employment" also came out though. Is it possible that you could start a small business in the meantime with your skills? Maybe do offer readings or counseling?

So out of character for me. Is he embarrassed by what I told him or just irritated with me because it was really none of my business?

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posted August 04, 2014 01:51 PM            

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I asked for a general 2 month outlook for you & got
A new dawn-new beginnings
Time to move on
You're being helped
Wait
These cards are confirming that you made the right decision moving & it will bring new beginnings for you. Things will improve, you just need a bit more patience.

Self employment also popped out again

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posted August 04, 2014 02:18 PM            

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I wouldn't use the word in there is more that he is shocked and stunned... I don't know what happened but he's wondering if there's something more to your character that he's not aware of.

if you haven't made an apology I would do so and also explain yourself... so don't act like nothing happened because that's what questionable. but I wouldn't harping on it and I certainly would give him his space

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posted August 04, 2014 02:30 PM            

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Thanks Cherful.

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posted August 04, 2014 03:14 PM            

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well first will you get the chance to see him you know that for sure? if yes I definitely in person.

but if you're waiting for him to ask you out or something like that then no don't wait... text him

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posted August 04, 2014 03:16 PM            

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Could self employment mean unemployment checks? there is nothing that I can possibly do...... however I am hoping to collect unemployment

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posted August 04, 2014 03:26 PM            

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Yes we usually see each other at least a few times a week, I'll wait to apologise. Unless, he doesn't want to see me anymore.

Yes, it could be unemployment cheques. I really feel like you could definitely make some money giving readings. Even if it's just some extra spending cash and temporary. You are very talented.

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posted August 04, 2014 03:46 PM            

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not that he doesn't want to see you anymore.... he's really perplexed and it would really benefit you to explain and apologize so definitely do so when you see him

so on the bright side at least we know he doesn't think this is how you normally are which is why he was so startled.... but I think you sent judgment so you really do need to defend yourself, help yourself out in this situation.

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Yes we usually see each other at least a few times a week, I'll wait to apologise. Unless, he doesn't want to see me anymore.

Yes, it could be unemployment cheques. I really feel like you could definitely make some money giving readings. Even if it's just some extra spending cash and temporary. You are very talented.

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posted August 04, 2014 03:49 PM            

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Yes, that's good advice, thanks Cherful.
This is definitely not my 'triumph' lol.

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posted August 04, 2014 06:37 PM            

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No, what you did certainly is not your triumph but if hehe forgive and forget I would say that would be!

and that last reading when you had asked if I knew when.... the bar scenario and triumph would come about and I didn't know...... because it looked like he was contemplating his decision, this might be what he was contemplating.

so I had to do that for ready for the reading that you have given me. I do not get unemployment benefit because I found out I actually Owe them payment from years ago when I collected.... like several thousand

that put me in such a panic that I after my job back immediately and called my landlord and I'm said I'm keeping the apartment.

well there goes my hopes of having a new life in st. Louis

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posted August 05, 2014 09:18 AM            

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Hi Cherful, I'm sorry to hear you won't get unempkoyment. I really feel like you have opportunities in St. Louis though. Could you stick around a bit longer?

I apologized. How did he receive it? Where do you see our relationship headed now?

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posted August 05, 2014 03:15 PM            

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posted August 06, 2014 12:13 AM            

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sorry I just saw this

... I feel that there's already been communications about it is that correct?

... the only things I got was that he is fine about it

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posted August 06, 2014 07:27 AM            

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Thanks Cherful. Yes there has been communication.

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posted August 06, 2014 07:43 AM            

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.... and how does he feel about it.... is everything okay?

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posted August 06, 2014 08:00 AM            

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I'm not sure. He said he isn't mad but we're not talking right now. I'm giving him space & hoping it will be OK.

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posted August 06, 2014 08:21 AM            

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Ok...I think it will be!

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