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blessed39
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posted August 09, 2014 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe I am intuitive because I had a feeling there would be drama. My best friend and s/o met, had a disagreement, she doesn't like him, and now he's mad at me!

This is a mess!!! Can someone pull done cards to see how this will play out. PLEASE. Will they ever get along? Well he and I make up? PLEASE!

I will pay.

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posted August 09, 2014 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump please

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posted August 09, 2014 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Grrrr!! I am not sure why this is bothering me so much, but it is. I woke up this morning with a sinking feeling in my stomach.... I hate this!

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posted August 09, 2014 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tphoenix5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I asked if your s/o and best friend would ever get along...

The cards:

5 of Pentacles
8 of Cups
King of Swords Rx

To me this suggests that it will work itself out. Right now everyone has thrown up their hands and walked away... Everyone feels betrayed. The reason is that both your s/o and your best friend feel you devote too much attention to the other. (Are you a fire sign?) Anyway, both parties need to let go of what is or was said and BEHAVE. As a clarifier I drew 3 of cups Rx... this says... to me that this will heal in time but no drinking or drugging or anything when you all get together. This may be the cause or contributing factor. Get together for coffee or tea... and when the partying comes... take one or the other... NOT BOTH...

Will you and s/o make up?

The cards

While I was shuffling the 7 of cups flew out... telling me... that you are overthinking this... you are making something out of it that is really not there.

The Empress Rx
The Sun
King of Wands Rx

To me this says everything just needs some time. The sun as the middle card says it will work out fine. I think you are represented by the Empress reversed and your s/o by the king of wands reversed. Let things cool down and it will be ok. Right now ... things are still an emotional hotbed.

Hope this helps.

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posted August 09, 2014 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tphoenix5:
I asked if your s/o and best friend would ever get along...

The cards:

5 of Pentacles
8 of Cups
King of Swords Rx

To me this suggests that it will work itself out. Right now everyone has thrown up their hands and walked away... Everyone feels betrayed. The reason is that both your s/o and your best friend feel you devote too much attention to the other. (Are you a fire sign?) Anyway, both parties need to let go of what is or was said and BEHAVE. As a clarifier I drew 3 of cups Rx... this says... to me that this will heal in time but no drinking or drugging or anything when you all get together. This may be the cause or contributing factor. Get together for coffee or tea... and when the partying comes... take one or the other... NOT BOTH...

Will you and s/o make up?

The cards

While I was shuffling the 7 of cups flew out... telling me... that you are overthinking this... you are making something out of it that is really not there.

The Empress Rx
The Sun
King of Wands Rx

To me this says everything just needs some time. The sun as the middle card says it will work out fine. I think you are represented by the Empress reversed and your s/o by the king of wands reversed. Let things cool down and it will be ok. Right now ... things are still an emotional hotbed.

Hope this helps.


This is awesome!!! Yes, they were both tipsy, which absolutely contributed to what occurred. It was so dramatic. I hate drama like that!! I'm a scorpio. Lol.

I was/am a little fearful he would feel like this is too much drama and be done altogether.

I'm relieved to hear it'll work itself out.

So I take it that means to leave it alone. He and I are still in chicago (5 hrs from our home). I'm staying with her and he's visiting family. Do you think I should have them go to lunch during this trip or just allow a situation to happen later.

He texted me briefly last night and said we are fine and he just had to think and said "you love me, huh?" That was a weird comment. I think he said that because he could tell how upset I was about the situation. And then that was it. I answered and I didn't hear back from him... That was at about 12am or so..

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posted August 09, 2014 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend feels bad because she sees how sad I am. She keeps saying she overreacted but R (my s/o) was a bit much... Smh.

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posted August 09, 2014 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tphoenix5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leave it be for now... I am a scorpio too. I just thought you might be a fire sign because they have the unique gift of making people feel as though they are the only people in the room. Give it some space and allow things to breathe... Scorpios want to control things... and sometimes that is good... sometimes it is not. This is one of those times it is NOT>

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posted August 09, 2014 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tphoenix5:
Leave it be for now... I am a scorpio too. I just thought you might be a fire sign because they have the unique gift of making people feel as though they are the only people in the room. Give it some space and allow things to breathe... Scorpios want to control things... and sometimes that is good... sometimes it is not. This is one of those times it is NOT>

Right. Yea.... I want to control the situation and for then to just make up. But the reality is that is not going to happen until they are both ready.

I do think they both are used to getting slot if attention from me...

I'll drop it and allow it to work itself out. Hopefully this hasn't don't too much damage to my relationship with R.

Thank you so much!!! I appreciate it more than you know!

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posted August 09, 2014 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lord... He just sent me a text saying he wants to leave tomorrow opposed to Monday...

Idk what this is about.... Ugh

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posted August 09, 2014 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tphoenix5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Give him the reins... Go when he says go... and you and your bf will be fine. You will both look back and laugh... one day... but give him the reins... For NOW

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posted August 09, 2014 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tphoenix5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
PS May I ask if you have any feelings about my next three months, if I may ask?

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posted August 09, 2014 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whelp! Too late to give him the reigns. We just broke up... I am devastated.

I'm sorry. I don't read cards. I'm so sorry!!! But I can definitely pay you for your help!

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posted August 09, 2014 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tphoenix5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, give it some time. Spend time with your best friend just don't talk about s/o. Sometimes we act in haste when we are reeling from the night before. Give it TIME>

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posted August 09, 2014 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tphoenix5:
Hey, give it some time. Spend time with your best friend just don't talk about s/o. Sometimes we act in haste when we are reeling from the night before. Give it TIME>

Got it.... I'm giving it time.... I'm leaving it alone.

Thank you!!

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posted August 11, 2014 02:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Update! He and I kinda made up. He definitely still loves me but my best friend and I got into a huge argument before I left. She expressed her "hatred" towards him....

I'm not sure how this is going to pan out and if she will ever like him.

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posted August 11, 2014 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you and your friend have Pluto aspects in synastry? I had the same situation in high school, my (former) best friend did not like the guy I was seeing. She didn't like me even talking to any guys, and was insanely possessive of me. When they met she was hostile towards him, and when I got upset with her she ended up physically attacking me. Needless to say that was the end of our friendship. The guy was a total tool anyway, and I was better off without either of them.

Her Saturn and Pluto were conjunct my Moon and Pluto, with her Moon close by too, all falling in my 8th house. Her Taurus Sun was also on my Chiron, and exact opposite my Scorpio Sun. I never had a boyfriend in the years we were friends because she chased them all off, and even lied to guys saying I had a boyfriend. Making me look like a two timing liar.

It sounds like Pluto is involved somewhere here, and maybe your friend is trying to sabotage your relationship. Or it could be the other way around, and maybe it was your boyfriend stirring up the drama. Either way it sounds like jealousy and being possessive are playing a role here.

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posted August 11, 2014 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this the friend and the guy you weren't sure about meeting? My advice and it's not intuitive, if they both care about you they will put aside their differences for your sake. They can agree to disagree and both have a happy relationship with you separate from one another. Although there may be times they will have to interact they can agree to be pleasant to each other. Your friend can't tell you how you should feel about someone and whether or not you should date them. And your romantic partner can't tell you who to be friends with. This is only my advice/opinion so feel free to disregard or tell me to mind my business. I feel for ya chickie.

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posted August 11, 2014 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
Do you and your friend have Pluto aspects in synastry? I had the same situation in high school, my (former) best friend did not like the guy I was seeing. She didn't like me even talking to any guys, and was insanely possessive of me. When they met she was hostile towards him, and when I got upset with her she ended up physically attacking me. Needless to say that was the end of our friendship. The guy was a total tool anyway, and I was better off without either of them.

Her Saturn and Pluto were conjunct my Moon and Pluto, with her Moon close by too, all falling in my 8th house. Her Taurus Sun was also on my Chiron, and exact opposite my Scorpio Sun. I never had a boyfriend in the years we were friends because she chased them all off, and even lied to guys saying I had a boyfriend. Making me look like a two timing liar.

It sounds like Pluto is involved somewhere here, and maybe your friend is trying to sabotage your relationship. Or it could be the other way around, and maybe it was your boyfriend stirring up the drama. Either way it sounds like jealousy and being possessive are playing a role here.


I am not sure of her placements beyond her natal chart. I am not very good with that.

But I do agree jealousy and/or possessiveness played a role. She shared with me today that she felt he was trying to get in between she and I. But that is not what I saw at all. I am not sure if she was paranoid or if I was being blind. But something isn't clean in the buttermilk.

I know at the end of the day she does want me to be happy and she loves me dearly. I just think… Something is going on. Unusual… Maybe its the full moon. I don't know what the heck the issue is.

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posted August 11, 2014 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Is this the friend and the guy you weren't sure about meeting? My advice and it's not intuitive, if they both care about you they will put aside their differences for your sake. They can agree to disagree and both have a happy relationship with you separate from one another. Although there may be times they will have to interact they can agree to be pleasant to each other. Your friend can't tell you how you should feel about someone and whether or not you should date them. And your romantic partner can't tell you who to be friends with. This is only my advice/opinion so feel free to disregard or tell me to mind my business. I feel for ya chickie.

Yes, this is the same friend. For some reason I just had a concern things would be weird. I am not sure why. I was right along with others who actually pulled cards about the situation.

You're absolutely right. Somehow this is going to have to work and they will have to respect one another and respect me. It was ridiculous.

And of course I would NEVER tell you to mind your bizz!!!

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posted August 11, 2014 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You should look into your synastry with her. As a Scorpio Sun, you are likely to attract and be attracted to intense types of people. If she said she was concerned about him coming between you, that definitely sounds like Pluto talking. It will cause people to manipulate or undermine the relationship, often in subtle ways out of fear of losing the closeness that you have between you.
It causes a very deep bond, but anything that threatens that bond can bring out the worst in people.

Also look at their synastry to see what aspects they have, because they might just rub each other the wrong way, even if you weren't in the middle.

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posted August 11, 2014 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
You should look into your synastry with her. As a Scorpio Sun, you are likely to attract and be attracted to intense types of people. If she said she was concerned about him coming between you, that definitely sounds like Pluto talking. It will cause people to manipulate or undermine the relationship, often in subtle ways out of fear of losing the closeness that you have between you.
It causes a very deep bond, but anything that threatens that bond can bring out the worst in people.

Also look at their synastry to see what aspects they have, because they might just rub each other the wrong way, even if you weren't in the middle.


Will do! Where can I get this info? Thank you so much.

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posted August 11, 2014 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I found out how to download the synastry chart but I have no idea how to read this stuff. Lol.

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posted August 11, 2014 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are instructions in the FAQ section on how to get your charts. You can post your synastry charts in the interpersonal astrology forum with some background on the situation.

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posted August 11, 2014 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
There are instructions in the FAQ section on how to get your charts. You can post your synastry charts in the interpersonal astrology forum with some background on the situation.

ThaNKS!!

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posted August 12, 2014 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Update! He and I kinda made up. He definitely still loves me but my best friend and I got into a huge argument before I left. She expressed her "hatred" towards him....

I'm not sure how this is going to pan out and if she will ever like him.


You had me late running to the post office with this nonsense. Almost missed my packages and I am NOT in 10-min mile shape.

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