posted August 10, 2014 02:58 AM            

I wanted to know if his company is going to be successful? its just getting started so of course there's probably going to be some hiccups but overall well it actually be company and what's going to likely be the projection of..... really I mean is going to make him a lot of money?

I want to have success in my life as well what do the card say I need to do or change or whatever, etc

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Ok thanks: )

I want to know how H.O. feels about me? Do you see us meeting up or starting a real official relationship?

Your question???

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posted August 10, 2014 03:02 AM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Ok thanks: )

I want to know how H.O. feels about me? Do you see us meeting up or starting a real official relationship?

Your question???[/QUOTE]

posted August 10, 2014 03:10 AM            

Here you are

4 of prints- in the beginning, I think he will be hesitant to put his all into it, to put much money energy heart into it probably afraid of failure.

Six of wands- things will come together. Bravery in business aspects and decisions he will overcome that fear of failure. Start seeing some success over things

posted August 10, 2014 03:24 AM            

yeah I'm not fully on board with online dating never meeting and someone saying hey will you be my girlfriend.... I know this happens but I just feel like there's something wrong with that.

sure let's exchange more

so you did a reading for me before when you asked if I didn't have a job because money was going to be an issue which thats when I went to St Louis and tried to apply for unemployment benefits and got denied. so I literally came back up to Chicago and ask for my job back... I really wanted to move though for a whole new life.

so my question is will I continue to stay in Chicago or sometime within 6 months well I move somewhere else?

I'm applying for my compliance certificate examination and I wanted to know if I would ever really use this certification in a job not just one I have now but will this be a major asset for me to have or no.

what sort of highlights ... good bad or changes whatever maybe, can I look forward to within 6 months

Brb

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Ok,

Here you are

4 of prints- in the beginning, I think he will be hesitant to put his all into it, to put much money energy heart into it probably afraid of failure.

Six of wands- things will come together. Bravery in business aspects and decisions he will overcome that fear of failure. Start seeing some success over things

Ten of cups- I think he will see some success here in business, in beginning he will be scared I think but will eventually flourish

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posted August 10, 2014 03:50 AM            

first off I remember somebody telling you that you were coming up or you're in a transit and it was something that I too was in. So I understand why you're thinking you're thinking and what your going thru.... after logically if you believe in that it's very difficult to find the right guy at this transit.

okay this is what I'm getting don't be upset with me I'm not trying to be a ***** but here it is

do you go for guys that are out of your league yes you do a little bit. I do not see that you're ugly, I don't see any guys thinking this way towards you. could you improve overall on your own appearance to take better care of yourself that I see as a yes.

posted August 10, 2014 03:55 AM            

they have certain beliefs that are different from Western women and I think that part would educate you on perhaps how many are seeing you versus how you really want men to see you.

there's a difference between being sexually confident in owning it and being secure.... like Bridget Bardot who is French never came across as a s*** but Marilyn Monroe did.... Marilyn reeks of desperation and sadness she was always alone and she really just had so many short term affair because she wanted to be with a man who wanted to be appreciated and she just took anybody

posted August 10, 2014 03:56 AM            

When you say hold myself better or present myself better how do you mean? Do people think I'm sloppy gross looking or unkept?? I never flirt with men or make the first move or approach men or anything friendly yes, but I'm friendly to anyone who is to me...

posted August 10, 2014 04:13 AM            

you don't have to be the one that's taking the first step.... these guys are taking the first step toward you for a reason. and I'm just going to throw this out there again don't be mad but you know someone Jessica Simpson a Reese Witherspoon they're not going to entertain the idea that some guy what offer to be boyfriend and girlfriend when they actually never met. they're going to think there's something suspicious something's wrong with the guy that would do that.

you have a lot of guys that you asked about it since the year that I have been on here, but nothing ever comes through the solid relationship please ask yourself why is that. and trust me you know my story with my ex so I'm not trying to lecture you or say I'm any better because I obviously had such low self esteem or whatever you want to call it to allow some guy to do that to me and bought that losers story!,

nobody's looking at you like you're gross. I don't think they think that you're put together either you just seem to be the average girl... are you a little chubby? I'm chubby so I'm not trying to put you down or anything. but the word sloppy did cross my mind. it could be the clothes that you're wearing for your figure. I don't think the clothes you wear aare any type of fashion statement and unfortunately when you're overweight its like you have to up the ante hair nicely professionally done great clothes great fit Etc.

I'm not telling you to lose weight I'm just saying people are looking at you in a way that's not as flattering as you would like but by no means is anyone looking at you like you're ugly or gross. my presence I mean you're not commanding anyone's attention. Ur blending in when you walk into a room, there's nothing that's making you stand out. I hope that makes sense and doesn't hurt your feelings.

have you ever thought to yourself when you saw a girl who was getting attention or being talked to the people were looking at her as she walked past, and you that gee what makes her so special....... something is making her special and it's how what shs exudes , hold yourself to a high standard that's what you want when people see you and that's why I recommended reading books about French women

I don't remember how old you are I think like 22 or something??

QUOTE]Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Thanks almost forgot about yours on it now. I don't feel like I go f i r anyone out if my league. I honestly feel A is in lower league then me, he's short, not handsome, just arrogant ******* , really, his personality is as good as others, some other things I'd rather not post public.

When you say hold myself better or present myself better how do you mean? Do people think I'm sloppy gross looking or unkept?? I never flirt with men or make the first move or approach men or anything friendly yes, but I'm friendly to anyone who is to me...

Doing yours now.[/QUOTE]

posted August 10, 2014 04:13 AM            

The tower- hmmm....I think this is picking up on fact that you had to suddenly pick up again, go back to Chicago....it was sudden, not planned really made a mess if your plans. So, those plans you had are failed and you now are to start new ones.

8 of swords- I don't think in the next 6 month's you will move, I think you will feel bound, obligated to staying in Chicago. May be your job your bound to? Are you wrking? Planning on going back to your old work right? I think you'll feel you need to stay in Chicago due to fact that your st. Louis move didn't go as planned.

posted August 10, 2014 04:15 AM            

were you able to do a reading for me on me being successful what did the card say about what I should do Or know or change Exedra

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Here is yours:

The tower- hmmm....I think this is picking up on fact that you had to suddenly pick up again, go back to Chicago....it was sudden, not planned really made a mess if your plans. So, those plans you had are failed and you now are to start new ones.

8 of swords- I don't think in the next 6 month's you will move, I think you will feel bound, obligated to staying in Chicago. May be your job your bound to? Are you wrking? Planning on going back to your old work right? I think you'll feel you need to stay in Chicago due to fact that your st. Louis move didn't go as planned.

8 of cups- I thick you will eventually abandon the notion of moving away and star t ing over. So I do see you staying in Chicago the next six months

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posted August 10, 2014 04:21 AM            

Yes, it does hurt my feelings because I think I am ugly and gross I hate myself I hate my skin, I hate my hair my clothes even though people say I dress nice presentable. So, it does hurt to confirm I'm ugly in others eyes but it's my fault for asking. I mean obviously I'm ugly gross that's why I don't have a boyfriend In past year I only been with me guy actually not a bunch.....it was A but he was right said bad stuff about me I shoulda known then I'm hideous undesirable. I it understAnd why people tell me I'm pretty, guys flirt occasionally or anything else or why ppl tell me I'm dressed nice and presentable

It's not your fault you confirmed the obvious. I'm ugly fat apparently hideous

posted August 10, 2014 04:26 AM            

again nobody saying you're ugly and nobody saying your gross

and honestly ask yourself do you really think you're putting yourself together the best possible you ccan. R u coming across as strong , well put together and, as secure as someone like Charlize Theron? it's good that you're not being s***** you don't want that kind of attention!

you also have to ask yourself why is it that these guys aren't wanting to make a commitment to you?

are you going after the wrong type of guys and why
are these guys using you
are you coming across as something you don't mean to ? Do u think you're s coming across as serious or relationship material?

posted August 10, 2014 04:30 AM            

A seems NOT to be the best of people so I wouldn't care what that type of a person thinks. he doesn't have all of his ducks in a row either.

but if this is truly how you feel about yourself then change and when you do you will exclude exactly who you want to be a strong confident person.... change your weight, get better skin go to a consultant like at Macy's works free or and Taylor and get better fitting clothes clothes that actually make the woman not you wearing the clothes

... you can be anybody that you want to be it takes commitment and dedication but you can certainly choose who you want to be.

posted August 10, 2014 04:56 AM            

if you truly believe all the things you said about yourself then I'm asking you to reflect and ask yourself why you feel that way and why your not getting what you desire and that includes with a. if you believe your skin is gross or whatever it is ,you can change it.

if you're not happy with who you are or how you look or what your attracting in your life you have to ask yourself why it is you're not getting what you desire and you need to ask yourself what you need to do to get what you desire ...and thus make some change.

don't get stagnant because it's not going to improve your life. I didn't say you were baggy clothes... I said they were not fashion statements.