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Topic: Only SEX?!
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strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 08:27 AM
Hello, I met one guy I liked him very much and liked me also. He wants to date with only for a sex. Is it this relationship only for a sex? Any opinions? Here is our synastry chart (blue is a girl, red is a boy): Here is our composite: [/URL ]Here is mine natal chart: [URL=http://s1309.photobucket.com/user/mergyte666/media/KNnatal_zpse5a7fc0d.jpg.html] Here is his natal chart:
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Damali Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 10:48 AM
Well, if he's saying he's only with you for sex, he's a jerk and I would run away, and not spend anytime trying to figure him out.IP: Logged |
strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 10:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Damali: Well, if he's saying he's only with you for sex, he's a jerk and I would run away, and not spend anytime trying to figure him out.
I won't meet him again I don't want such a relationship. Thanks for the answer.
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Damali Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 11:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by strongwoman: I won't meet him again I don't want such a relationship.Thanks for the answer.
Yay! You WILL find someone worth your while. You're a lovely person IP: Logged |
Damali Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 11:01 AM
I've fallen for the "just sex" relationship a time or two. It can really suck at your self-esteem, especially when the person moves on to be in a real relationship with someone else *gag*IP: Logged |
strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 11:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Damali: Yay! You WILL find someone worth your while. You're a lovely person
I hope that I will find... I can't find any available for me for long time It seems that I will be lonely all my life Thanks for nice words I really appreciate that IP: Logged |
Damali Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 11:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by strongwoman: I hope that I will find... I can't find any available for me for long time It seems that I will be lonely all my life Thanks for nice words I really appreciate that
I totally get that. All my relationships seem to sputter and die, but now I am thinking that maybe they weren't supposed to last because there has only ever been one person I'm supposed to be with. Haha, it's a nice thought anyway. IP: Logged |
strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 11:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Damali: I've fallen for the "just sex" relationship a time or two. It can really suck at your self-esteem, especially when the person moves on to be in a real relationship with someone else *gag*
I've been in your situation also a few times so I don't want anymore. But that guy I really liked him But just only for sex I don't want anyone! I know that low self-esteem feeling it sucks! I don't want to feel that anymore Thanks for the answer! IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 626 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 11, 2014 03:12 PM
Edited...just saw response.IP: Logged |
Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 12:11 AM
The two of you actually have an okay synastry for a potential relationship, except for your unaspected Venus. But, if he told you that sex is all he wants, then it sounds to me like he's being very honest and upfront with you. If you want more, you would just be wasting your time and setting yourself up to get hurt. It looks like you'd get along well as friends though, so I see why you like him.IP: Logged |
strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 12:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bluejay: The two of you actually have an okay synastry for a potential relationship, except for your unaspected Venus. But, if he told you that sex is all he wants, then it sounds to me like he's being very honest and upfront with you. If you want more, you would just be wasting your time and setting yourself up to get hurt. It looks like you'd get along well as friends though, so I see why you like him.
I think he is hurt and he is looking for revenge at the moment. I am very thankful that he is honest to me. I know what to expect from him. So it depends only on me I could choose to give him what he want or just stay away from him. I like him very much but I don't want such a realationship I don't want to be hurt anymore. Thanks for the answer.
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Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 05:51 AM
Yes, it's unfortunate that you want more, and he is only wanting sex. I admire his honesty though, because some men would play games only to get sex, and make the woman think it will lead to a serious relationship. Your Venus doesn't have any aspects, so you would never feel loved, and would probably never love him. There are so many women on here expecting more when the man only wants sex. It's too bad all men aren't this honest about what they want, because then the woman can make the choice to get involved or not. Wait for your love, he is out there! IP: Logged |
strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 06:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bluejay: Yes, it's unfortunate that you want more, and he is only wanting sex. I admire his honesty though, because some men would play games only to get sex, and make the woman think it will lead to a serious relationship. Your Venus doesn't have any aspects, so you would never feel loved, and would probably never love him. There are so many women on here expecting more when the man only wants sex. It's too bad all men aren't this honest about what they want, because then the woman can make the choice to get involved or not. Wait for your love, he is out there!
I hope I will find my love! Becaue I think I will never find love I always meet unavailable men for me :/ IP: Logged |
tphoenix5 Knowflake Posts: 457 From: USA Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 12, 2014 07:35 AM
Strongwoman,Lets not say you always meet unavailable men out there. Lets rephrase that to say.. Up till now, I have allowed myself to be attracted to men who are unavailable. Maybe by rephrasing your request... the universe will send different. I say this because for so long, I told my sad, sad, tale. Now I am in much more impoverish circumstances and happy as a little kittie... purr purr purr.. Sometimes we have to take note of what we have to receive what we believe we lack. Yes, the right guy is out there...And maybe waiting for him is the best method. I feel a bit overwhelmed when advising about relationships... since I do not wish to be in one... but I do know that if you look away... he will be right on your doorstep. Hope I did not offend... by the above. Many Blessings! IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2300 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 09:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by Damali: Well, if he's saying he's only with you for sex, he's a jerk and I would run away, and not spend anytime trying to figure him out.
So if I only want sex from a guy, that makes me a jerk? This forum sometimes... ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2300 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 09:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bluejay: Yes, it's unfortunate that you want more, and he is only wanting sex. I admire his honesty though, because some men would play games only to get sex, and make the woman think it will lead to a serious relationship. Your Venus doesn't have any aspects, so you would never feel loved, and would probably never love him. There are so many women on here expecting more when the man only wants sex. It's too bad all men aren't this honest about what they want, because then the woman can make the choice to get involved or not. Wait for your love, he is out there!
------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 09:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: So if I only want sex from a guy, that makes me a jerk? This forum sometimes...
Believe me in other forums it's the same You won't believe what kind of answer I got at one famous forum when I asked the same question like here Don't take it personally! IP: Logged |
Damali Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 09:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: So if I only want sex from a guy, that makes me a jerk? This forum sometimes...
It depends on the context. Here you are taking my words out of context and trying to apply them to yourself. My statement has nothing to do with you. But I will be more specific and say the guys who pursued me and then told me they just wanted sex were jerks. I also don't believe in the "let's just be together for sex" thing either but that's just my preference. IP: Logged |
Damali Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 09:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by strongwoman: Believe me in other forums it's the same You won't believe what kind of answer I got at one famous forum when I asked the same question like here Don't take it personally!
Why would she take something personally that has nothing to with her?
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strongwoman Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 09:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Damali: Why would she take something personally that has nothing to with her?
Ok, let's don't talk about others... Don't mix two different things in one. I just needed others opinions about situation. Anyway I respect that guy who honest said to me what does he want from me. I know what to expeect. It's up to me what I will choose. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2300 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 10:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Damali: It depends on the context. Here you are taking my words out of context and trying to apply them to yourself.My statement has nothing to do with you. But I will be more specific and say the guys who pursued me and then told me they just wanted sex were jerks. I also don't believe in the "let's just be together for sex" thing either but that's just my preference.
You mean like you just took something applied to yourself and applied to her? Ohhhh ok. Totally get it now
------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 2300 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 10:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by strongwoman: Ok, let's don't talk about others... Don't mix two different things in one. I just needed others opinions about situation. Anyway I respect that guy who honest said to me what does he want from me. I know what to expeect. It's up to me what I will choose.
With Uranus on your Asc, I'd say he will come and go so fast. It will be a bit erratic and you get the short end of the stick. Mars Saturn will be argumentative and Venus Uranus will have him blaming you for the intermittency. I advise against it. The sex won't be worth it. ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
Iced8Ace Newflake Posts: 2 From: CA Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 12, 2014 09:32 PM
The composite looks scary. Mars-Uranus and Moon-Uranus squares. Run.IP: Logged |