posted August 27, 2014 06:40 PM            

You can be honest.

Thanks. x

Let me know your question.

posted August 27, 2014 06:45 PM            

Mine is: "Will F and I meet this week? If so, how will we feel about it?"

posted August 27, 2014 06:59 PM            

The answer is that no, you will not meet him anytime soon. I think he is more busy with his own work.

I also see that you have some kind of misconception about him. Maybe you believe in something that is not true about him or have either too many high hopes or low.

posted August 27, 2014 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
If you have another question Mia or want another opinion on that same - happy to reply as well... I'm at home and a bit bored lol

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Thanks. that's very nice of you c:

Can you give me your opinion on the same question?

Thanks and if you have any question too, you can let me know. xx

posted August 27, 2014 07:02 PM            

Girl, your energy is SO strong!

Ok, I got Ace Swords Rx - 7 Pentacles - 2 Pentacles

posted August 27, 2014 07:15 PM            

I think he will think that you are a a bit secretive person who likes to talk. It's ironic lol. I think maybe he thinks that you like to gossip. Not in a bad way. I think you two might get along well in term of communication and understanding and talk about secretive or hidden things.

posted August 27, 2014 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
I want to know if he will feel something special about me when he sees me. What would he think of me when he sees me?

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The cards I got - 6 of swords + knight of wands + 10 of wands.

I think that when/if you meet him it will be during some travel time, he will be very (very) busy and he won't really have time for you.

So his feelings for you will be very fleeting as in 'I'm not going to see her again' this is one time thing.

However, he will find you very charismatic, with very powerful personality. I think you might be very inventive in the way you meet him as he will see you as someone who isn't ordinary (in the sense that you are very creative). So he will be impressed by your actions.

That's what I got anyway...

If you have time I'd love to get a horary from you - I'd like to know when will I'll have a solid relationship (or when will I meet my next partner). Horarys have been a hit or miss for me so maybe you should take your time and place for when you understood the question and we'll see if it works. (Otherwise I can tell you my time and place)

posted August 27, 2014 07:25 PM            

I think it was true, he's very busy and travelling a lot, and I don't just want to be seen as an ordinary person to him, or just any fan girl, because it means much more than that to me. I know from our synastry that it's not just anything.

I generated the chart for when I understood your question. Unfortunately, the ascendant was too late :/

It means that the question cannot be answered, it's too late to answer.

posted August 27, 2014 07:39 PM            

The ascendant is a bit early (2 degrees) but I think it will do.

On both occasions, the ascendant/descendant were in fixed signs. It means you really want/need a steady relationship.

The ruler of the querent and the ruler of the quesited (7th house) are strongly aspecting each other!

This means yes, you will meet him.

But I'm afraid not anytime soon. The moon is at the cusp and making no aspects.

But don't worry because there is someone there out for you. It will just take some time to meet each other.

posted September 12, 2014 04:58 PM            

I thought we were going to try move on past this crush obsession but, alas, empty words! Carry on with your crush and your threads. With the kind of attitude that you have, I wish you luck in life. You'll need it.

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♍ Sun | ♒ Moon | ♎ Mercury | ♌ Venus | ♈ Mars Rx | ♑ Rising

posted September 12, 2014 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
See, this is the thing I don't like about people sometimes: they'll tell you whatever they think you wanna hear and then do the opposite of what they said they would.

I thought we were going to try move on past this crush obsession but, alas, empty words! Carry on with your crush and your threads. With the kind of attitude that you have, I wish you luck in life. You'll need it.

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I was just bumping all my previous posts. This post is really old. And I don't think that it's that easy to forget about an obsession by just someone saying something that you always already knew.

Yes, I know it's unhealthy. I know it's bad etc. but then why didn't I stop obsessing over him 1 year ago? Because it's not something I can control. For now unfortunately it's this way. I can only wait. I have nothing to do in life currently but as I said my school is starting on Monday so hopefully I'll have other things on my mind.

Whether it's an obsession, or depression. You can't tell a depressed person to become happy one day and then next day the depressed person for 5 years become happy all of a sudden.

It's the same for me. I'm not going to stop thinking about him like magic. Obsession is like a drug and it's not like I like it.

I told you I would stop talking about him. I don't post as often as I want about him anymore. This post is old btw. But you need to understand that as a human I'm not perfect. I have weaknesses. I'm just being realistic here. I'm not saying I'm giving up.

I don't want to disappoint anyone here including you. But it's hard to do that when people put so much hopes and expectations on me as a human.

You just need to understand that this obsession can't vanish right away. If it was that easy, I would have done it a year ago and listened to that voice that says the same thing as you that keeps repeating every single day.

posted September 12, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Mia, listen carefully. The only expectation that I have of you is for you to be honest with me and yourself. That's all. For instance, when you asked me for a reading and I told you I'd give you one as long as it wasn't on your celebrity crush - what did you do? You asked about him and actually told me it wasn't him when I confronted you. That's what I meant, you know, by me not liking some of your attitudes. Were you purposefully trying to deceive me? No, I know you weren't. But the fact remains that you tried to trick me into doing something I told you upfront I didn't want to do. You ignored a personal boundary of mine just to appease your obsession.

You're a bright girl, but you hole yourself up and seem to get in these crazy spirals of obsessive questions about him. I know it's not easy to get over depression, and it's certainly not quick. I know because I was there when I was 14 and it took me 10 years to be completely at peace with myself. What I've been trying to get you to do is to proactively change your habits. You can't stop yourself thinking about him, I get it. But you can block his Twitter account so you don't know every single sneeze he decides to post. You can challenge yourself to do something small that you like whenever he pops up in your head - like, "oh, Jamie. No. No Jamie. Let me read this comic/love/historical/novel story that is really interesting." Or running. But also talk to people near you. The obsession gets worse if it's perceived by you as some great, cherished secret of yours. When the secret admiring becomes known, it loses its luster and strength, because it's not longer just yours but something you're sharing with others. You unburden yourself that way. You should try.

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Thank you for your understanding and kind words. I am sorry about deceiving you. I had no bad intention. It's a bit in my nature. I have Pisces ascendant and moon in libra 7th house. I am a people pleaser and with my Pisces ascendant I lie often in order to make others happy. I've done this mistake many times in life.

I will definitely try to share this obsession with others. But the only person I can talk to is my mom and 1 friend. And they already know it. Maybe at school if I make a new acquaintance it wouldn't hurt to share. In fact, I would do what I can to get over this obsession. I'll try. And I promise I'm not lying this time lol. xx