posted September 11, 2014 12:12 PM            

I've been seeing a lot of charts around here with progressions and solar arcs to determine specific events. I don't really understand how to read them, I'm looking forward to know when I'll find true love and read that it is when prog venus conjuncts natal sun. Problem is, in my chart it's passed over 30 degrees and I'm not even 30 years old... so does that mean I'll never find it?

Sorry if I'm being ignorant, I'm clueless about this matter!

Is there other way to look for it in the chart?

Here, if anyone would be kind enough to shed some lights!

posted September 11, 2014 04:15 PM            

It means you find true love in yourself.

But i do see your Progressed sun will conjunct your progressed venus give or take 6 years.. double check on that. This will be your opportunity to meet that person.

posted September 11, 2014 05:11 PM            

I thought when prog venus would conjunct natal sun, those degrees would tell in how many years I'd find love, but if it's past it means I found it 30 years ago and I'm not even 30 xD
That was my twisted logic, I'm sorry!

I don't really attract others... really! My social life is practically inexistent.

posted September 11, 2014 09:29 PM            

So far I've dealt with a very serious knee injury that disabled me for 12 years now, money was always short and was a stress factor in household as long as I can remember, it took me 3 years over due time to finish my studies and after so many sacrifices I'm unemployed, never had a normal relationship with someone, my father died with lung cancer 2 years ago although he never ever touched a cigar, mom just survived breast cancer (still recovering, everything looks fine but it's been a constant struggle to cope with all the treatments), social life is unexistent and the few friends I thought I had don't really care about how I'm doing, they only seem to reach out when they need my help. And I know I seem very negative with all this stuff (I'm sorry, just venting), but it can't possibly be the reason why people don't care because I don't allow myself to show it.

posted September 12, 2014 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I guess its due to moon opposition saturn?

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Moon rules the 5th here,,and it's isolated from the rest of the chart in Gem in the 3rd, opp Saturn like you say.

I would think there's some struggle to get to the relationship at the DSC in the first place.

Have to travel from the 5th to get to the 7th, as 5th is about the first blush of romance, that fun getting to know you phase. Or not fun, as is the preference of some.

I would rather see Moon progressed to Libra, aspecting Venus, or progressed to the 7th. For starters.

Those would tend to prime you for thinking about your needs in relationships and how they could be satisfied. Being on the lookout for such.

posted September 12, 2014 08:49 PM            

Here's my two cents:

I'm going back to the transits as you have a real opportunity coming there. Natally you have Saturn in your 10th house--do you like to work a lot? During the last year you should have been evaluating what you are getting out of your relationships and how much responsibility you owe them and to yourself.

You will have opportunities coming, but you need to get out, so you can meet someone. I see you meeting that partner while socializing with coworkers, neighbors, friends, and family members. Around Halloween you will have an opportunity for social, so start thinking now what you need in a partner and what kind of a partner would be good for you--then put your best foot forward. The month of December going into 2015, as transiting Jupiter aspects your sixth/seventh house stellium giving you opportunities to meet someone until July of 2015 and then Venus will go retrograde in early Virgo late July 2015 and then direct in Leo in early September 2015 and I wouldn't be surprised if you are either married or in a committed relationship by October 2015.

You currently have transiting Saturn squaring your natal Venus among other planets making you see the downside of things and possibly feeling lonely, but that all should get better as transiting Saturn passes your stellum after the first week of November this year.

Don't let your aquarian ascendant tendency of being a non-conformist keep you from joining the crowd. Have a great time!!!