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Topic: tired of having no love life
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sparkleblue
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posted September 12, 2014 10:12 PM
  
I have the hardest time with romantic relationships. I can attract men but I can never seem to have any kind of dating relationship. I really want this in my life and I just don't know what's wrong with me. I've never had a true boyfriend and I'm a virgin. I want things to change for me so bad. I see that my 5th and 7th houses are empty? Does that have anything to do with it? Can anyone give me any insight or hope that things will get better? 
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venuscorpio86
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posted September 13, 2014 12:51 AM
You and I both  IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
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posted September 13, 2014 08:57 AM
That makes us 3 haha IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
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posted September 13, 2014 11:08 AM
Can you add the transits to your chart? IP: Logged |
sparkleblue
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posted September 13, 2014 11:12 AM
How do I do that? Do I go to astro.com?IP: Logged |
sparkleblue
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posted September 13, 2014 11:25 AM
Do you mean like this?  IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted September 13, 2014 12:14 PM
One of the most interesting charts I've ever seen!Dying to see what u look like with Mars Venus Pluto conj in 1st with Leo Sun and Libra rising!!!  Jessica Rabbit?  ------------------
Tarot Readings | Etsy
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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sparkleblue
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posted September 13, 2014 01:00 PM
lol! I'll post a picIP: Logged |
sparkleblue
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posted September 13, 2014 01:14 PM
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sparkleblue
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posted September 13, 2014 04:33 PM
Any ideas on my natal transit chart?IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted September 13, 2014 05:04 PM
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Originally posted by sparkleblue:
Any ideas on my natal transit chart?
Pretty!!!! GORGEOUS SKIN!!
I need natal and progressed, please. Sorry for the wild goose chase. We all do things differently. (I don't see romance in these transits. So, progressed should give me some info) ------------------
Tarot Readings | Etsy
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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sparkleblue
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posted September 13, 2014 07:27 PM
Thank you!!Here is my natal and progressed 
and progressed if you need it
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LoadedPistil
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posted September 13, 2014 10:45 PM
Sun is coming down to all you your love planets soon. Easy to see since you have Mars Venus conj. thing is, I'm not sure it's a committed relationship because there's no Sun Saturn aspect mix between natal and progressed. However, it may eventually if you stay together long enough. Look at the PDF of the first chart and it will tell you how fast sun moves every year in your chart under "speed". There are so many aspects to look at between natal and progressed to see the details of a relationship and when it's coming. I ain't got it like that as an astrologer 
But there was a nSun pVenus conjunction when I met a Man I eventually got engaged to, but the relationship stopped there. ------------------
Tarot Readings | Etsy
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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sparkleblue
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posted September 13, 2014 11:11 PM
Well I am very interested in a man and I think he's interested in me. We're good friends. I'd like for things to progress but I don't know if they ever will.IP: Logged |
sparkleblue
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posted September 14, 2014 04:11 PM
Can my chart tell you when I might lose my virginity?IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted September 14, 2014 04:16 PM
Within a year, two at the most, sun will be in orb of nMars. That should strike up a relationship, but again. I think you should consult a better astrologer. Scour the 2.0 sub forum for signs of new relationships in Progressed charts. ------------------
Tarot Readings | Etsy
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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melodiemelodie
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posted September 16, 2014 10:59 AM
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Originally posted by sparkleblue:
you're so pretty!! I just feel it's a confidence thing though...you need to learn to believe in yourself and perhaps take more risks! ps. we share the same birthday  )) good luck beautiful! xx IP: Logged |
sparkleblue
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posted September 16, 2014 07:39 PM
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Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
you're so pretty!! I just feel it's a confidence thing though...you need to learn to believe in yourself and perhaps take more risks! ps. we share the same birthday ))good luck beautiful! xx
Wow! Thank you! It's so cool that we share the same birthday! Yes I do have confidence problems. I've had a lot of rejection in my life and I'm so afraid of it happening again. The guy I'm interested in is so different from any of the other guys I've been involved with, but he's had a lot of bad relationships and I don't know how he feels about being with me. I feel like he's really interested in me but he's afraid to take a risk with me.
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Lonake
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posted September 17, 2014 03:55 PM
I'm gonna say be on the lookout in May of next year,
--tNN conj n Venus/Mars in the 1st (Asc/Dsc rulers)
--pMoon in Gemini trine nVenus/Mars (breath of fresh air since its out of the 8th)
--tSun/Mars/Merc stellium in early Gemini trine your Venus/Mars
Then later the nodes will conj your Asc/Dsc,and in Libra...
Do you think you need to be pushed to get into a relationship? Like some extra resolve to "get up and go for it"? Cos the energy in May is supporting you, but only in the sense of pressuring you and putting the issue at the forefront. Somehow here you're going to have to take the lead if you want it. You have Aries Dsc after all with Mars in the 1st, conj Asc ruler. A relationship thats on your terms, just fig out what you want. Pluto sq Pluto too (which is conj Venus, which are your pAsc/Dsc rulers). Natally you have the 5th ruler Uranus isolated from the chart..kind of like the other person who posted, their 5th ruler was isolated too. You're going to be noticed more, so any initiative you take will work to your benefit.
Do you take any kind of initiative now, or more just wait around hoping? IP: Logged |
kaianna
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posted September 17, 2014 04:50 PM
You should try online dating now to gain confidence for may, but you have good transits for a relationship coming up, even nowIP: Logged |
sparkleblue
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posted September 20, 2014 06:59 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
I'm gonna say be on the lookout in May of next year,
--tNN conj n Venus/Mars in the 1st (Asc/Dsc rulers)
--pMoon in Gemini trine nVenus/Mars (breath of fresh air since its out of the 8th)
--tSun/Mars/Merc stellium in early Gemini trine your Venus/Mars
Then later the nodes will conj your Asc/Dsc,and in Libra...
Do you think you need to be pushed to get into a relationship? Like some extra resolve to "get up and go for it"? Cos the energy in May is supporting you, but only in the sense of pressuring you and putting the issue at the forefront. Somehow here you're going to have to take the lead if you want it. You have Aries Dsc after all with Mars in the 1st, conj Asc ruler. A relationship thats on your terms, just fig out what you want. Pluto sq Pluto too (which is conj Venus, which are your pAsc/Dsc rulers). Natally you have the 5th ruler Uranus isolated from the chart..kind of like the other person who posted, their 5th ruler was isolated too. You're going to be noticed more, so any initiative you take will work to your benefit.
Do you take any kind of initiative now, or more just wait around hoping?
Thank you Lonake. I have taken some initiative with the guy I like. I asked him if he would be interested in doing something with me sometime and he had to look at his work schedule and get back to me. When he did he ended up asking me to dinner and driving me home that night.
I don't really need to be pushed. I just need someone who wants the same thing I do. I will say that it wasn't until someone made me think differently about him that I really started to take notice. We work together and someone said we would be good together. IP: Logged |
sparkleblue
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posted September 20, 2014 07:00 PM
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Originally posted by kaianna:
You should try online dating now to gain confidence for may, but you have good transits for a relationship coming up, even now
I really hope my transits are good now. I am good friends with the guy I like and everyday I learn something new about him that I just love.
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