posted September 17, 2014 06:30 PM            

I have 2 questions in need of answer, pick one, or both and I'll give back the same in number (and elaboration) with tarot.

1) Should I keep my relationship/feelings for F a secret from A?

2) Does F know I'm in love with him?

posted September 17, 2014 07:12 PM            

Is A a male? I feel it would be best for you if you let A know about your feelings for F. There's a sense of "fairness" here, as if it wouldn't be correct to hide this from this person. I don't necessarily pick up an extremelly bad outcome if you don't tell A, however this would cause him/her to feel like a tie between you was broken and hurt. I get the sense that he/she feels comfortable sharing just about anything with you, and there are expectations on their side for you to do the same, even if you didn't actually say it out loud. A is a worthy person to keep in your life and I feel they can turn out to be very significant in certain critical moments, but he/she needs to feel your bond is not one-sided in matters of trust... I don't see bad reactions to what you might have to say or anything. A is a very earthy person with good common sense and will respect whatever there is that is going on, as long as they know your "trust bond" is not an illusion on their part.

2) Does F know Leoeve is in love with him?

I think he suspects it, but somehow he is having trouble accepting that idea. It's like the minute he has that thought that you're into him, he pushes it away and thinks "no, that's not what is happening". However, deep down, I think he knows it. He just won't admit it outwardly, either to others or himself, for whatever reason. He does hold a lot of respect for you, that I pick up right away. It's like you're different, in his eyes... There's a wisdom and intelligence in you that he finds endearing. You make him think, take his thoughts to another level, see things through a new and fresh perspective.

posted September 17, 2014 07:17 PM            

#1: When do you see me and A having "the talk" that we've been meaning to have for a while now? (if you don't do timing questions that's okay, just ignore this one x)
#2: Is there someone new coming in my life or will A be the one I'll commit to?

posted September 17, 2014 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
1) Should Leoeve keep her relationship/feelings for F a secret from A?

Is A a male? I feel it would be best for you if you let A know about your feelings for F. There's a sense of "fairness" here, as if it wouldn't be correct to hide this from this person. I don't necessarily pick up an extremelly bad outcome if you don't tell A, however this would cause him/her to feel like a tie between you was broken and hurt. I get the sense that he/she feels comfortable sharing just about anything with you, and there are expectations on their side for you to do the same, even if you didn't actually say it out loud. A is a worthy person to keep in your life and I feel they can turn out to be very significant in certain critical moments, but he/she needs to feel your bond is not one-sided in matters of trust... I don't see bad reactions to what you might have to say or anything. A is a very earthy person with good common sense and will respect whatever there is that is going on, as long as they know your "trust bond" is not an illusion on their part.

A is a common friend of ours, female. It does resonate, she tells me everything about her lovelife, confides a lot with me, thus the fairness. I love her very much, but she tends to badmouch people, not for malice, it's just in her system. So, all in all, I have some secrets I don't want shared with others and because she and F are also good friends I was wondering if it would be better to keep it a secret for the time being.

2) Does F know Leoeve is in love with him?

I think he suspects it, but somehow he is having trouble accepting that idea. It's like the minute he has that thought that you're into him, he pushes it away and thinks "no, that's not what is happening". However, deep down, I think he knows it. He just won't admit it outwardly, either to others or himself, for whatever reason. He does hold a lot of respect for you, that I pick up right away. It's like you're different, in his eyes... There's a wisdom and intelligence in you that he finds endearing. You make him think, take his thoughts to another level, see things through a new and fresh perspective.

Well, this one I don't know... I really don't know. I'm 4 years older than him, maybe that's an issue form his point of view? Who knows!
I still haven't told him, I'm afraid he'd distance himself.

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Thank you Adimi!

posted September 17, 2014 08:03 PM            

I don't do timings, the tradicional way, I've never got one right (at least personally).
But I noticed the element is rarely wrong, so I'll give you an estmate!

Pulled: Ace of Wands.

See? This would mean 1 day... lol (it could be, though!)
My estimate is that you're having the talk in less than 30 days!
Wands is the fastest suit, so hang on in there, it's coming shortly!

#2: Will A be the one Adimi commits to?

Queen of swords rx - 3 of cups rx - 4 of wands

posted September 18, 2014 06:01 AM            

It's been for 3 months now, but it feels for way much longer. You're right, I'm just so confused. I was just saying this to someone the other day... I usually have such clear perceptions on the situations, even ones that concern myself and matters of the heart, but on this one... My mind is just a mess and I can't even figure out what I want. I can't differentiate between intuition and ego-related concerns. Yes, I've been thinking that maybe this isn't meant to be and that he might have entered in my life to help me get "prepared" for my next relationship, so to speak. I also have thoughts that perhaps everything would be better for me if I found someone with whom things would be easier, yes... However, I can't help how I feel about A and that I still want him and I'm not ready to completely let go of him yet. Thanks Leoeve, that's an awesome outcome! Maybe our talk will finally allow us to get past the obstacles that we've been dealing with. Thank you, Thank you!

posted September 18, 2014 10:29 AM            

I know what it is to feel your life suspended... like this huge cliff hanger in the end of a series and it takes foreeeeeever to start season 2 haha

posted September 18, 2014 03:02 PM            

Here are my questions:

1) Does F have romantic feelings about me?
2) Was F the person the Psychic Lady was talking about? (She said I'd be living in the near future with a person from my "past" returning soon).

posted September 18, 2014 07:21 PM            

1) Does F have romantic feelings about Leoeve?

Right off the bat I get the feeling that at this precise moment in time he is developing a sense of being "at home" with you... I don't think F. is someone who lets someone in their "personal world" that easily, but he is starting to feel that you're someone who deserves a place in it. He feels comfortable around you and is in the process of realizing that, with you, he is safe to be his whole true self. He takes a while to really develop serious feelings for someone, that is because he likes to rationalize things first, understand what's going on, process whatever feelings there are to process into logical thinking. This doesn't mean he is a "all intelect, no feelings" type of guy, but he does need to analyze and rationally go over what he is feeling, so he can be sure of it and then make a move. I don't feel that he looks at you and sees you just as a "plain connection". There is an attraction, yes. An attraction that mostly comes for the times you spent together and the interaction between the both of you. It is genuine, and not just a physical thing. Are they serious romantic feelings? I don't think they are as of yet, but this is definitely a good start because you have already captured his interest. It does feel like the beginning stages of something!

2) Was F the person the Psychic Lady was talking about?

Hum... I don't feel he is the person she was talking about, no. I do think this connection with F. has more to give you than what it is right now, but he's not the person she was picking up on. I feel like pulling away if I ask if it is him, and I don't get a precise direction of energy that points to him as the answer, and this tells me that the answer is no.

posted September 18, 2014 07:25 PM            

#1: What are P.'s feelings towards me?
#2: What is the purpose of me and P.'s connection in this lifetime?

posted September 18, 2014 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
Alrighty, here I am!

1) Does F have romantic feelings about Leoeve?

Right off the bat I get the feeling that at this precise moment in time he is developing a sense of being "at home" with you... I don't think F. is someone who lets someone in their "personal world" that easily, but he is starting to feel that you're someone who deserves a place in it. He feels comfortable around you and is in the process of realizing that, with you, he is safe to be his whole true self. He takes a while to really develop serious feelings for someone, that is because he likes to rationalize things first, understand what's going on, process whatever feelings there are to process into logical thinking. This doesn't mean he is a "all intelect, no feelings" type of guy, but he does need to analyze and rationally go over what he is feeling, so he can be sure of it and then make a move. I don't feel that he looks at you and sees you just as a "plain connection". There is an attraction, yes. An attraction that mostly comes for the times you spent together and the interaction between the both of you. It is genuine, and not just a physical thing. Are they serious romantic feelings? I don't think they are as of yet, but this is definitely a good start because you have already captured his interest. It does feel like the beginning stages of something!

Is it possible you've picking this up coming from me? I'm exactly like this... But he could be as well, I don't know! Thought he was more of a feelings guy with that Cancer Moon. I'm Gem, so... xD

2) Was F the person the Psychic Lady was talking about?

Hum... I don't feel he is the person she was talking about, no. I do think this connection with F. has more to give you than what it is right now, but he's not the person she was picking up on. I feel like pulling away if I ask if it is him, and I don't get a precise direction of energy that points to him as the answer, and this tells me that the answer is no.

This happened around end of June early July. She told my mom (I wasn't there!) that I was in a bad place emotionally because of a past connection lacking closure, that he would be "coming back" and to accept him! By 3 years we would be living together.
Now, I processed this rationally and while it is true that my past boyfriends are at distance, I don't have a lack of closure with any of them. And then there was F, who had left to the US for an internship in February. In the beginning we skyped and texted a lot but around April he kind of cutted contact with me and I never understood why. Until pictures with another girl started popping in my facebook. I was nearly depressed then. But I got on my feet again and was doing well blocking all my feelings for him. I kinda hated him actually lol, so when my mom told me this I panicked because I didn't really wanted him to be "the one". But then he did come back. And I still don't know how I've managed to (internally) forgive him (we never talked about feelings, we never even kissed or anything). So, I still wonder if it was him...

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Thank you so much Adimi!

posted September 18, 2014 09:03 PM            

Ace of Pentacles Rx - The Empress Rx - 4 of Wands Rx

I'm sorry, this doesn't look good... I see this and I think "rejection".
It's like he doesn't see any potencial in your relationship, it's not good enough to be grounded, to be real. He doesn't really care about your feelings, your well being.
And on top of that I'd say he doesn't "feel at home" with you. His family or friends could have something against you and this might have influenced him (this is purely speculative though, but shows up about 50% of times). Also, this guy is just too afraid to commit to anyone! Run Away!

(Note: Funny that 4 of wands showed up again! Before, with A, it was upright, and now reversed. I'm thinking this card represent what you're truly looking for: a solid, stable, harmonious partnership... one to go further. This is the marriage card, actually!)

#2: What is the purpose of Adimi and P.'s connection in this lifetime?

8 of Wands Rx - King of Swords Rx - 5 of Swords Rx

Key word here is frustration. Did he showed up in your life in a time you had a lot of plans going on? Such plans with significant delays? It seems one of the purposes to your connection was to help you learn to cope with set backs and delays.
Hum... I think the King of Swords is just representing him. So, master of puppets? Kind of selfish, manages to make the world spin towards the completion of his needs. He might be slightly older than you, extremely intelligent and educated (if he's not educated, he gives a sense of being because he speaks with big words). I'm thinking maybe you had to know somebody like this to be prepared for worse in the future!
Now, this doesn't work in only one direction. While we may feel there's a purposed for some people appearing in our lives, more often than not it also because there's a lesson to be learned in the other party. And I'm inclined to say the last card is working like this because the king showed up in the middle, so, the subject changes. This cards hints at being able to accept changes, and learning to let go of our own resentments, and this is what he learned from you.

posted September 19, 2014 05:50 PM            

About #1, I understand why he would feel that way about having a relationship with me, I feel the exact same way. Everything has been this whole big fantasy that doesn't have any solid support to it. We wouldn't be compatible as a couple (therefore, not what I wish for in a relationship, as you so well mentioned - 4 Wands Rx ). So, I guess what I feel about him, he feels the same towards me... I feel very uneasy around him. I know he is a trustworthy guy (for others, anyway), but I can't trust him. I feel he is sneaky. Some of his friends have tried to hook up with me some months ago, when I met them, and I rejected them, maybe that's what you picked up on... (Plus, I'm so happy to see the difference in this reading in relation to the one about A. ... Really makes me think that, in spite of everything, A. may be worth the effort. ).

About #2, you're spot on... I met him when I changed my major for the 3rd and final time (so delays in higher education). I felt like my life was "on hold" and I was not sure if that time I was going to experience a breakthrough or just dig myself into a deeper hole. I'm actually the one who's older than him (by 2 years) but you're totally right about the intelligent part... I often refer to him as a "smart as*" because that's really the impression he gives me, which is another trait that I can't stand lol. Again, there is so much about this guy that repels me, but the pull is present too, that's what's confusing and makes me think this may be a spiritual bond of some kind... His lessons in regards to me also make a lot of sense. He is way stubborn and doesn't want to let things go. I'm the one letting go now and I'm sure it will make him realize one or two things.

Thank you so much, I know it was not easy but you did a wonderful job, really!