posted September 28, 2014 04:43 AM            

So, I finally told F I was in love with him. He gave me the silent treatment since then with the excuse of being overloaded with work. A common friend of ours just found out yesterday, when they both talked about it, that he doesn't feel the same about me, and that's why he's cut contact with me.

I'd like a reading on romance, a general one, on what will come next for me.

I guess having a feeling that good stuff is coming will somehow cheer me up. But I will get over it, like I always did.

Thank you, if you just read this.

posted September 28, 2014 05:15 AM            

anyways back to u...the next 3-4 months are gonna be hit and misses...like a few dates, but it's u that gets "too over it" or stressed and throw in the towel. Its not because the few that come ur way are losers, but it seems u dont know what ur really looking for the stress and cost and time, emotions, etc that ur putting into this dates, finally catches up with u and so u hold off a bit. So maybe be looking forward to NY and afterwards...that's gonna be a better time for u, especially with ur stress level, it will go back down.

Can I ask what u see for me if I should move to Urbana...i'll have a job there, which is why id move there...but how will i like it, any man coming in, etc

thanks!

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Originally posted by Leoeve:
Hi everyone!

So, I finally told F I was in love with him. He gave me the silent treatment since then with the excuse of being overloaded with work. A common friend of ours just found out yesterday, when they both talked about it, that he doesn't feel the same about me, and that's why he's cut contact with me.

I'd like a reading on romance, a general one, on what will come next for me.

I guess having a feeling that good stuff is coming will somehow cheer me up. But I will get over it, like I always did.

Thank you, if you just read this.

And if you'd like to exchange, please leave your question!

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posted September 28, 2014 10:12 AM            

Thank you for giving a look into it

Now, for yours I got: Knight of Pentacles Rx - 4 of Cups - Queen of Wands Rx

If you accept the job, I see you becoming a bit bored over it. Maybe you'll be given repetitive tasks or it just does't challenge you enough to actually feel fulfilled. This will especially clash with your ideals as you definitely are a person who takes her job very seriously and keeps the standards no lower than absolute perfection. So, you can see how a waste it becomes when you have such a competent individual doing the same tasks over and over again. As a consequence to your disappointment regarding this situation, you'll be extremely unmotivated and facing a period of deep reevaluation, wondering if you should continue in the path you're going. Ultimately you would stick to it anyway because you're afraid that giving up could affect your image, what others think about you... sorta a pround thing. This would be the worst scenario as you'd loose your self confidence.

posted September 28, 2014 12:28 PM            

...the reading was for whats coming in in ur love life

Thanks for mine! Oh well, im use to bad jobs!

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Originally posted by Leoeve:
Hi cherful! Yes, you gave me some readings regarding F, but I'm not asking a reading on him now, just to whatever that may come!

Thank you for giving a look into it

Now, for yours I got: Knight of Pentacles Rx - 4 of Cups - Queen of Wands Rx

If you accept the job, I see you becoming a bit bored over it. Maybe you'll be given repetitive tasks or it just does't challenge you enough to actually feel fulfilled. This will especially clash with your ideals as you definitely are a person who takes her job very seriously and keeps the standards no lower than absolute perfection. So, you can see how a waste it becomes when you have such a competent individual doing the same tasks over and over again. As a consequence to your disappointment regarding this situation, you'll be extremely unmotivated and facing a period of deep reevaluation, wondering if you should continue in the path you're going. Ultimately you would stick to it anyway because you're afraid that giving up could affect your image, what others think about you... sorta a pround thing. This would be the worst scenario as you'd loose your self confidence.

I'm sorry, doesn't this job doesn't look good :/

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posted September 28, 2014 02:15 PM            

I dont use cards but will give what I get intuitively if its ok with you.

First of all I do see this F guy come back and forth into your life still, him not being sure of what he wants and having a fear of his options closing. I see you also trying to figure things out, you will want to move on but something about him will still haunt you even if you do know it wont bring you happiness you want and desire.
I do see other men in your life for short periods, nothing really stable, someone will catch your eye but later, in a few months. I get that you should try and give people chances just to heal faster and better.
Generally I see F not being someone you can count on right now even if he will have a few more moments in your life. For now I see you having some fun and trying what you might enjoy in life and seeing what kind of guy will suit you best. I do see a few more hit and misses before you stumble upon a better match.

I would like to ask, what do you see for me and A right now ?

posted September 28, 2014 03:30 PM            

Justice
2 of cups
6 of cups

So justice and 2 of cups really support that within 3-4 months you will have happy and a long-term relationship. I'm happy for these cards.

6 of cups also supports what I wrote above but also creates the possibility that an ex may show up in your list.

So I asked another question and pulled 1 card this time. Will Leone be happy even if it is with an ex?

posted September 28, 2014 03:41 PM            

King of Pentacles - 8 of Pentacles - 2 of Cups Rx

A is every girls' dream!
He's not going anywhere anytime soon, he's here to stay! I don't know at what stage, or what kind of relationship you two already have, but it's very likely that he'll let you know he wants you as a partner, if he hasn't already! This points out at how special you are, for this kind of guy wouldn't fall for just anyone, he's too secure and wise for that! It seems that no matter what happens, he will stay by your side, he's more than willing to keep the relationship going, so this might mean you'll talk things through and establish some ground "rules", negotiate your own terms, for what works or not. Maybe you recently had a disagreement (or even if you didn't), but it seems that establishing those terms to create a valuable relationship is a priority right now.
The outcome, bugs me though. If it were upright it would be just omg-love-all-over-your-face-you-just-can't-get-enough, but its reversed. Now, I do believe a reversal is just a blockage by the elements' card, so it's up to you to make it upright. Cups talks about emotions and feelings. I believe you will have a disagreement, indeed (if not already, like the 8 of Pentacles could suggest as well), and if you don't fix this things will go real sour in the relationship to the point of a possible breakup. To make it upright, you'll have to work on your emotions. Not just yours, but also his. He's the King of Pentacles, and while he's just almost perfect, he could lack on a developed emotional side.

posted September 28, 2014 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by VestaFlake:
I pulled 3 cards as follows

Justice
2 of cups
6 of cups

So justice and 2 of cups really support that within 3-4 months you will have happy and a long-term relationship. I'm happy for these cards.

6 of cups also supports what I wrote above but also creates the possibility that an ex may show up in your list.

So I asked another question and pulled 1 card this time. Will Leone be happy even if it is with an ex?

I got 4 of wands, which is a big YES.

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Thank you Vesta!
Does it really have to be an ex with the 6 of cups? Couldn't it just be someone I already know, or just from my past?

It's just that I can't imagine dating any of my ex's, just the thought makes me nauseous, to be honest!

posted September 28, 2014 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Leoeve:

Thank you Vesta!
Does it really have to be an ex with the 6 of cups? Couldn't it just be someone I already know, or just from my past?

It's just that I can't imagine dating any of my ex's, just the thought makes me nauseous, to be honest!

Do you have a question?

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Well yes, I don't see why it cannot be someone from your past that you haven't dated. You may meet this person if you are going to a mutual friends' wedding or that kind arrangements.

posted September 28, 2014 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you.
On some point I would say you are right but on other not so.
He is far away from perfect and a womans dream.
we are not even actually together, he is an ex of mine who I did have a fight with ( well he had one with me)
So some things dont really apply. And he hasnt really stood by my side all the time :/
again, he is far from almost perfect.

but thanks

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posted September 28, 2014 05:24 PM            

The World - Ace of Wands Rx - The Sun Rx