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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1911 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted September 29, 2014 12:24 AM
I have sine questions, anyone up for exchanges,IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 599 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 29, 2014 12:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: I have sine questions, anyone up for exchanges,
What's your question? Mine is does jpg miss me
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1233 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 29, 2014 12:31 AM
I'll contribute! What are your questions?IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 599 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 29, 2014 12:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: I'll contribute! What are your questions?
Wanna exchange? Same question ^ IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1233 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 29, 2014 01:17 AM
What should I do to get out of my funk? Here are your cards:
Eight of Wands Ace of Cups Eight of Swords Eight of Wands. He is a little unsure of his feelings, but time is closing now. Are you pushing or chasing him at all? If so, this card is a signal to cool it down and wait patiently. He may feel that you were putting too much pressure on him, which caused him to make a knee-jerk reaction to whatever was said or done. I would assume he did not think before he acted or spoke, which upset you? I feel both of you have anxiety and nervousness over this issue, as no one wants to make the first move to reconcile or forgive.
Ace of Cups. He wants to open up and tell you how he feels, but he feels inhibited (see below). He is feeling very emotional about the situation, but because of whatever circumstances, doesn't feel ready to open up. His emotion depends on what happened between you but based on the outcome card, I would guess he feels guilty and doesn't know how to deal with the overflow of this emotion. He wants to reach out, but is afraid he will get hurt or trust that you will respond. Eight of Swords- He is holding back. He does have feelings for you, but are overwhelmed by self-doubts. He isn't sure whether you are going to accept his apology (Ace of Cups) and respond emotionally the way he would like. this lack of clear direction and meaning, purpose, commitment is making the person feel trapped. They have feel denied, ignored, and cannot act for some reason. The he may feel like a victim, thinking too much and being critical of these feelings. Perhaps he feels you are the one who caused him pain instead? Clarifier: Queen of Wands- often comes up when a woman is in a man's friend zone. Did the two of you recently date or consider it? Is one of you an Aries, Sag, or Leo? I think he may feel threatened by the power, confidence, and sexuality you exude which keeps him from communicating. It is also telling you to be independent and move forward, as there are better things out there. You will do perfectly fine without him. IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 599 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 29, 2014 01:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: What should I do to get out of my funk? Here are your cards:
Eight of Wands Ace of Cups Eight of Swords Eight of Wands. He is a little unsure of his feelings, but time is closing now. Are you pushing or chasing him at all? If so, this card is a signal to cool it down and wait patiently. He may feel that you were putting too much pressure on him, which caused him to make a knee-jerk reaction to whatever was said or done. I would assume he did not think before he acted or spoke, which upset you? I feel both of you have anxiety and nervousness over this issue, as no one wants to make the first move to reconcile or forgive.
Ace of Cups. He wants to open up and tell you how he feels, but he feels inhibited (see below). He is feeling very emotional about the situation, but because of whatever circumstances, doesn't feel ready to open up. His emotion depends on what happened between you but based on the outcome card, I would guess he feels guilty and doesn't know how to deal with the overflow of this emotion. He wants to reach out, but is afraid he will get hurt or trust that you will respond. Eight of Swords- He is holding back. He does have feelings for you, but are overwhelmed by self-doubts. He isn't sure whether you are going to accept his apology (Ace of Cups) and respond emotionally the way he would like. this lack of clear direction and meaning, purpose, commitment is making the person feel trapped. They have feel denied, ignored, and cannot act for some reason. The he may feel like a victim, thinking too much and being critical of these feelings. Perhaps he feels you are the one who caused him pain instead? Clarifier: Queen of Wands- often comes up when a woman is in a man's friend zone. Did the two of you recently date or consider it? Is one of you an Aries, Sag, or Leo? I think he may feel threatened by the power, confidence, and sexuality you exude which keeps him from communicating. It is also telling you to be independent and move forward, as there are better things out there. You will do perfectly fine without him.
We were together without the title for a year and a half, I was patiently waiting for it thinking he had to just work things out....then in the middle of august he stopped answering me and after 2 weeks I demanded to know wtf was going on..he said he had to sort his life out and himself because he doesn't know how he feels..I said take space that's OK but is there another girl..and he said he took one out a few times like that's suppose to be OK...I flipped..I said I tried everythingnwith him, was patient and cared And in the end I won't regret anything but he will when I'm not there anymore...
That was the last thing I said to him...I found out a week later he made that girl how girlfriend(so gross she's 19, he's 29) and she's Leo..broke me to prices..but I'm okay..I just miss him..want him to reach out..I won't make it easy but I do want him back
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1233 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 29, 2014 01:27 AM
Ugh, I am so sorry that sounds so messed up. Even though 19 is legal, I find it gross. Yep, the Q of Wands is telling you to move on, it is painful but remember you worth and know you deserve more.8 of Swords can also represent your fear of letting go- let him go, and move to better things. He will regret it too. IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 599 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 29, 2014 01:28 AM
Wow your good lol...what's your questionIP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1233 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 29, 2014 01:33 AM
^I posted it above, lol but here it is:What should I do to get out of my funk? IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Knowflake Posts: 599 From: boston mass Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 29, 2014 01:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: ^I posted it above, lol but here it is:What should I do to get out of my funk?
Ok so basically take charge of your life, you have the option to change your mind frame, be positive take chances and change the things you don't like which by you doing that will lead go a total rebirth and shove you strsghit out of that funk...also I see a guy tall and handsome coming for you who's going to sweep you off your feet grab life by the balls and push yourself, I believe in fake it until you make it because it works (king of wands, death and the world)
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venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 1911 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted September 29, 2014 01:45 AM
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1233 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 29, 2014 03:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Oops sorry ladies!My question is, did BD ever really love me? Why does he not want to reconcile? What are his feelings towards me?
Hey, I didn't forget, just have a busy day at school. I'll try to get to this tonight. Thanks Luckystar- I needed that kick in the butt! IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1233 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 29, 2014 05:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Oops sorry ladies!My question is, did BD ever really love me? Why does he not want to reconcile? What are his feelings towards me?
Answer is on the other thread, but: -Yes -No-working towards moving on -Fond memories but painful IP: Logged |