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Topic: Moderator to MiaPluto
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Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 5086
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 02, 2014 01:39 AM
  
I would like to request you to use a little bit restraint from now on on this forum.If you are not ready to hear advice from people on this forum,then do not request a reading or refrain from being verbally defensive. While I am sure you are someone with lots of qualities and you have your problems to deal with, please be aware that other people have their share and may choose not to disclose them on this site. You owe people who take time to give you a reading respect and gratitude. Please do appreciate it EVEN if you do not agree with what they say. How we handle ourselves, whether on the internet or in real life has a great impact on how people perceive us. If you feel people are perceiving you in a wrong way, you only have the choice of changing yourself, if you are not ready to do that, do not expect people to change for you.The world will never change for you. No matter what issues you have, or what problems you are facing at the moment in life, you need to understand that you owe respect to people who especially has taken the time to read for you OR has taken the time to give you advice. Consider this as a gentle reminder for the time being. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 1486
From:
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 02, 2014 01:45 AM
Just read that thread. Oh God, she needs help. O_o It's either childish behavior or just some deep issues. Was amusing but alittle sad. IP: Logged |
ifaf
Knowflake Posts: 26
From:
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 02, 2014 04:21 AM
This might not be the right place to ask but I was wondering, after seeing the thread, where are the forum guidelines?
And can't moderators ban people when this happens?I can understand most of what happened there - but will people gang up on me before I get banned if I'm ever annoying or whatever?
And I couldn't help but notice a certain post;
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Then again, you are a Quebecoise, and you all tend to have a tad strong of self-entitlement but you truly takes it to the next level!
...So... I'm not welcome here either?
Is my cultural background a problem?
I'm pretty confused as I've only been lurking for years, recently started posting and read this...  IP: Logged |
affy
Knowflake Posts: 169
From: Neptune because it's blue
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 02, 2014 04:30 AM
@ifafBy experience, the moderators start off with a gentle warning, then a stern warning asking the violator to abide by the rules of the basic forum etiquette and only then is any violator banned. We all have our bad days and sometimes it reflects in the way we communicate online. Thus, an immediate ban is unfair and not a very mature step to take. At LL, we don't even have a way to denote our genders, because sometimes, all a troll needs is an opportunity for attack. All genders, all races, all cultures and all ages are appreciated for their valuable input, not for a reason to be attacked. Be proud of your cultural background and don't be afraid to use it as a basis for your experience. The only way you can really irk people is if you continually disrespect their opinions, regardless of whether they are older or younger to you. Be respectful of everyone's time, and you should be good to go, ifaf!  And, of course, welcome to Lindaland EDIT: Here, a link to the guidelines.
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Capricorn Sun, Venus, Mars, Mercury and Ascendant
Libra Moon
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ifaf
Knowflake Posts: 26
From:
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 02, 2014 04:43 AM
Thanks Affy, I didn't think to check the reference library.So it does say hateful, racist, or defamatory content etc isn't allowed 
All good, thank you! IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 543
From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 05:41 AM
Sorry, didn't mean to be racist. I lived in Canada for 7 years, and it was grest, quebecoins are grsat but like any race, we all have jabs at stereotypes. It was a bad taste of me to use such joke in a heated thread,so a
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LoadedPistil
Moderator Posts: 2589
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:13 AM
@peacefulouds
That was awesome. Made my morning. I can stop hitting the snooze now. ------------------
Tarot Readings | Etsy
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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MiaPluto
Knowflake Posts: 891
From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:19 AM
Ok I understand but what about all those ladies who attacked on me? They weren't exactly nice either.They were saying bad words especially karkaqueen, bella fenice, and more. Maybe if you could check their posts on my threads you'll find out. Thanks. x ------------------
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FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 1234
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 02, 2014 06:21 AM
I'm glad the moderators have stepped in on this. I felt it was quite sad. I'm not defending anyone but I don't think we should be attacking each other. I think if you read a thread you don't agree with then don't answer it. However if you choose to answer and the person attacks you, you should be able to defend your advice/reading. My point, no one on any thread should be attacking anybody. I thought this forum was to be one of learning and respect. I'm sure I've been annoying with my questions at times but people have always been kind. I just think we need to try and be careful with choosing our words. And please, I'm not looking to offend anyone with my post. It's merely my own thoughts. Have a nice day everyone. IP: Logged |
MiaPluto
Knowflake Posts: 891
From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:23 AM
This is one of the things. Karka said:KarkaQueen
Knowflake
Posts: 6336
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011 posted October 01, 2014 09:11 PM
Na.
I'm done. I'm losing IQ points. Enjoy your pitiful existence and keep polluting others with it. You're a cancer to this forum.
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carm76
Knowflake Posts: 297
From: Sirius
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:26 AM
I am thankful for those 2 posts by Mia, they made me laugh while shaking my head. Every time I see someone acting out like that, it reminds me of just how far I've come, it reaffirms to me that life is a journey and our attitude determines the result.I am grateful that she's not my daughter. I'm am sending her mother lots love, she needs it, having Satan for a kid. IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 1277
From: Indonesia for now
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:28 AM
Mia, is it not true?You were baiting people covering it up as the 'truth'. I didn't even once see a simple 'thank you' to anyone who did a read/give you advice. Instead you went to say that you would do a horary for yourself.
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MiaPluto
Knowflake Posts: 891
From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:39 AM
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Mia, is it not true?You were baiting people covering it up as the 'truth'. I didn't even once see a simple 'thank you' to anyone who did a read/give you advice. Instead you went to say that you would do a horary for yourself.
That's when all the problem started. Just because I said I'll do horary. I appreciate your time to give me advice, I really do. But I just needed a reading. And I did not get 1 serious reading. Please remember thee is a difference between advice and reading. ------------------
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intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 215
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:41 AM
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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
That's when all the problem started. Just because I said I'll do horary. I appreciate your time to give me advice, I really do. But I just needed a reading. And I did not get 1 serious reading. Please remember thee is a difference between advice and reading.
Yes you did Mia, a person gave you a tarot reading but you chose to ignore it because she said "hell no "
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MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 1277
From: Indonesia for now
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:42 AM
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Yes you did Mia, a person gave you a tarot reading but you chose to ignore it because she said "hell no "
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carm76
Knowflake Posts: 297
From: Sirius
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 06:53 AM
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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
That's when all the problem started. Just because I said I'll do horary. I appreciate your time to give me advice, I really do. But I just needed a reading. And I did not get 1 serious reading. Please remember thee is a difference between advice and reading.
When I do a tarot reading I call your guides, soul spirit and energy to help give the best possible information in the NOW moment. I will not give you a reading. I don't like your energy nor your attitude. I don't want to exchange with you either, with such heavy negative energy, how can anything positive vibrate from you? IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 5086
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 02, 2014 07:28 AM
Huh, guys please this thread is not a 'come-on let's bash Miapluto' thread.@Miapluto, I read the replies. However I strongly feel you have to sort out your issues and TRY to be more respectful and the rest will follow.Heated words can escalate quickly into an internet brawl where insults are hurled at each other and to be honest everyone has their share, I agree, however you only get what you give out.I have decided to gently remind you to adhere to forum rules because I have seen multiple threads where you seem to have an issue with members. You can choose not to interact with a specific member if you feel hurt or offended by what he/she has said to you. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 6339
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 02, 2014 08:32 AM
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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
This is one of the things. Karka said:KarkaQueen
Knowflake
Posts: 6336
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011 posted October 01, 2014 09:11 PM
Na.
I'm done. I'm losing IQ points. Enjoy your pitiful existence and keep polluting others with it. You're a cancer to this forum.
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Well if u would stop acting like it I would of not said it
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 597
From:
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 02, 2014 09:44 AM
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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
Ok I understand but what about all those ladies who attacked on me? They weren't exactly nice either.They were saying bad words especially karkaqueen, bella fenice, and more. Maybe if you could check their posts on my threads you'll find out. Thanks. x
You attacked those people first. They just responded accordinly. Stop acting like a victim.
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MiaPluto
Knowflake Posts: 891
From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Yes you did Mia, a person gave you a tarot reading but you chose to ignore it because she said "hell no "
Her reading wasn't serious... ------------------
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MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 1277
From: Indonesia for now
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 02, 2014 10:29 AM
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Originally posted by MiaPluto:
Her reading wasn't serious...
Mia, why would I pull if I wasn't serious? I got a 'hell no' and a bunch of knives depicted in my cards. Your choice. Take it or leave it. You chose to leave it and call it a fluke. Get over yourself. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 5086
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 02, 2014 10:30 AM
Miapluto, I hope you got the message loud and clear.Locking this. IP: Logged |
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