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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 08:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well, I was snooping around my crush's instagram and accidently liked a month old picture of his - don't we all love Mercury Rx periods? *headdesk* Anyways, I immediately unliked it and crossed my fingers people don't get notified when these things happen. Do they? *fretting*

My questions are: is he aware that I liked his pic? What is he thinking about that?

Leave your question. Thanks!

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moonstruck87
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posted October 10, 2014 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey there! I will brb w/your spread

haha poor thing I'm dealing w/some mercury retro stuff too

an old flame texted me last night after months of not speaking/not wanting anything to do w/me

what are his intentions?


brb!

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moonstruck87
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posted October 10, 2014 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
he did see it, according to 5/swords. this card tells me he is gloating about it some.

ace/rods and 6/rods for what he is thinking about it - it excited him, made him feel good and confident, he likes the acknowledgment and the "pat on the back" so to speak, it's a little bit arrogant but he's liking the attention

let me know how this resonates and if you have more questions fille!

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His intentions:

Base: 3 of hearts
Spread: 2 of diamonds - Ace of diamonds - King of hearts

It doesn't look at all bad. What he was looking for was to perhaps get a date with you or some kind of connection where you could start back and see if a romance is on the table. He's definitely vying for a new beginning, though we see here that he's a bit more commitment minded than he was in the past. He's lookign forward to spending time with you and seeing if there's still a spark there, so you guys can try at a relationship again.

He's not being fickle or looking for a hook up, if that's what's worrying you.

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moonstruck87:
he did see it, according to 5/swords. this card tells me he is gloating about it some.

ace/rods and 6/rods for what he is thinking about it - it excited him, made him feel good and confident, he likes the acknowledgment and the "pat on the back" so to speak, it's a little bit arrogant but he's liking the attention

let me know how this resonates and if you have more questions fille!


It does, it does!! He's a Leo, so he's prone to puffing up whenever he gets an ego stroke. I'm pretty sure that if he saw it, he'd feel exactly like you described.

I do have a few more, if you want to continue exchanging...

- What does he think I feel for him?
- What does HE feel for me?
- What will be his next move?

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moonstruck87
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posted October 10, 2014 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the reading Fille! and I will be back w/your other questions

I do want to ask the following also:

what is in my higher good for this situation?

the conversation died out pretty quickly, did he feel refused by me?

will he reach out to me again?

brb w/yours dear

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Twitterbird05
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posted October 10, 2014 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can we exchange too?

As far as I know Instagram notifications don't stick once you unlike. Unless he got a push message and saw it before you unliked.

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moonstruck87
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posted October 10, 2014 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Fille Aspirant:

It does, it does!! He's a Leo, so he's prone to puffing up whenever he gets an ego stroke. I'm pretty sure that if he saw it, he'd feel exactly like you described.

I do have a few more, if you want to continue exchanging...

- What does he think I feel for him?
Queen/Wands, Knight/Wands : he thinks you find him vibrant, popular and sexy, he thinks you find him physically attractive & he feels pretty sure of this :P

- What does HE feel for me?
10/swords, fool, sun
did he have a bad break up when you met or have you two had a tough situation? this 10/swords in the past position is showing me that there has been some sadness/despair here, but the fool shows moving into a new phase, even blindly so, and living in the moment, but having faith and the sun is a great card in the outcome, he feels good in your presence and sees you as someone who understands him, who makes him feel confident. this looks good

- What will be his next move?



4/wands, death, 10/cups
I think he will be open to new opportunities w/you (& happily so), death says there will be some heavy transition, he will be letting go of old attitudes/habits (this may time some time), this change is unavoidable and even karmic, (this feels like a karmic relationship for both of you and these aren't always easy)
10/cups in outcome shows me that harmony will be restored, you'll both be able to relax and able to embrace happiness.

this all feels and looks very good overall some karmic themes here and not w/o it's road blocks, but it looks good to me

let me know what you think dear

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My pleasure, hun! Okay, here are your next questions:

- what is in my higher good for this situation?
Base: 7 of hearts
Spread: 4 of diamonds - King of hearts - 7 of clubs
What is in your higher good is to give him a second chance and let him in again, because the results will be so much better than the last time he was around. Definitely go for a movie or a light date that can be written off as just 2 friends meeting, because that'll ease the pressure of seeing each other again. It's also in your higher good to not over-stress or over-analyze what's going on and let things flow naturally.

- the conversation died out pretty quickly, did he feel refused by me?
10 of diamonds - 5 of clubs - Queen of hearts
Yeah, he did. He felt that the time you spent apart changed your feelings for him, as he was expecting something like the sentiment behind "distance makes the heart grow fonder". He didn't get that from you, what he got was that you have moved on from him and is in your own element, even perhaps dating someone else. He didn't feel you were interested in him anymore.

- will he reach out to me again?
2 of clubs - 4 of spades - 2 of diamonds - 3 of diamonds - 6 of spades
I'm seeing a yes, but don't expect it soon, ok? He feels his stuck his foot in his mouth and doesn't know where to go from here, so he's going to take a while to reach out again. He'll go back and forth for some time, but he'll eventually make a move, mostly because he wants to put his fretting to rest.

Is he a Water sign? Are you? You both feel watery to me.

Let me know if this makes sense!

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moonstruck87
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posted October 10, 2014 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Fille Aspirant:
My pleasure, hun! Okay, here are your next questions:

- what is in my higher good for this situation?
Base: 7 of hearts
Spread: 4 of diamonds - King of hearts - 7 of clubs
What is in your higher good is to give him a second chance and let him in again, because the results will be so much better than the last time he was around. Definitely go for a movie or a light date that can be written off as just 2 friends meeting, because that'll ease the pressure of seeing each other again. It's also in your higher good to not over-stress or over-analyze what's going on and let things flow naturally.

- the conversation died out pretty quickly, did he feel refused by me?
10 of diamonds - 5 of clubs - Queen of hearts
Yeah, he did. He felt that the time you spent apart changed your feelings for him, as he was expecting something like the sentiment behind "distance makes the heart grow fonder". He didn't get that from you, what he got was that you have moved on from him and is in your own element, even perhaps dating someone else. He didn't feel you were interested in him anymore.

- will he reach out to me again?
2 of clubs - 4 of spades - 2 of diamonds - 3 of diamonds - 6 of spades
I'm seeing a yes, but don't expect it soon, ok? He feels his stuck his foot in his mouth and doesn't know where to go from here, so he's going to take a while to reach out again. He'll go back and forth for some time, but he'll eventually make a move, mostly because he wants to put his fretting to rest.

Is he a Water sign? Are you? You both feel watery to me.

Let me know if this makes sense!



hahaha he's a scorpio (sun/mercury/venus) with cancer moon. I'm a cancer (sun, mercury and venus) :-)


Fille, do you think I should reach out to him or let him pursue me again?

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
can we exchange too?

As far as I know Instagram notifications don't stick once you unlike. Unless he got a push message and saw it before you unliked.


Yes, hun! We can!
Been meaning to answer your email but something always comes up last minute. Definitely going to give you the run down soon!

Can you look into what course of action is best advised for me to take in regards to him?

Let me know yours!

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moonstruck87
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posted October 10, 2014 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
can we exchange too?

As far as I know Instagram notifications don't stick once you unlike. Unless he got a push message and saw it before you unliked.


Even if he didn't see the "like", he knows she looks at his profile. He's definitely aware & loving it.

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intuitivefish
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posted October 10, 2014 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I think he did see it and he was surprised but happy surprised, a bit intrigued and looked at it 2 times to make sure he saw correct. I
feel he thought Hmm wow thats an old pic she looked at sorta thing. He wonders if you looked at more pics and if it was to get his attention .

My question -
A ( my ex) and E ( his gf) where is their relationship now, as I have a difficult time to feel for myself, do you see them ending or still going good ?

Thank you

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moonstruck87:

hahaha he's a scorpio (sun/mercury/venus) with cancer moon. I'm a cancer (sun, mercury and venus) :-)


Fille, do you think I should reach out to him or let him pursue me again?


No wonder all that water came up!!

I think you should do what you feel comfortable with, Moon. Seriously. If you feel comfortable being a little pushy, go for it. If you don't, then DON'T obsess over his next contact. It's going to take him a while to sum up the balls to try again and he'll only do it because he'll explode of curiosity otherwise. Only when the what ifs are weighting heavy on his mind will he reach out. If you'd rather hurry him up, do it. He'll be receptive.

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posted October 10, 2014 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Fille Aspirant:
No wonder all that water came up!!

I think you should do what you feel comfortable with, Moon. Seriously. If you feel comfortable being a little pushy, go for it. If you don't, then DON'T obsess over his next contact. It's going to take him a while to sum up the balls to try again and he'll only do it because he'll explode of curiosity otherwise. Only when the what ifs are weighting heavy on his mind will he reach out. If you'd rather hurry him up, do it. He'll be receptive.


thanks dear!!! I wish you and that Leo crush the best

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Even if he didn't see the "like", he knows she looks at his profile. He's definitely aware & loving it.

Yeah, this is true. He once posted a pic on Facebook and the next day he was like, "did you see it?" And I told him that I had, so he knows I see his pics, yes.

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moonstruck87:
thanks dear!!! I wish you and that Leo crush the best

thank you, too!!! LOL

Oh, and your last readings resonated, too. Thanks

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intuitivefish
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posted October 10, 2014 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A lot of people live with their phone attached to them like life depended on it, and jump on any notification and, instagram does give notifications about liking and even if I didnt know it was instagram, I would say yes he saw you liked it even though you unliked it

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by intuitivefish:
A lot of people live with their phone attached to them like life depended on it, and jump on any notification and, instagram does give notifications about liking and even if I didnt know it was instagram, I would say yes he saw you liked it even though you unliked it

True, true. He seems like one of those, especially now that he's got his iPhone.

Brb with your reading, hun!

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Well I think he did see it and he was surprised but happy surprised, a bit intrigued and looked at it 2 times to make sure he saw correct. I
feel he thought Hmm wow thats an old pic she looked at sorta thing. He wonders if you looked at more pics and if it was to get his attention .

My question -
A ( my ex) and E ( his gf) where is their relationship now, as I have a difficult time to feel for myself, do you see them ending or still going good ?

Thank you


Base: 2 of hearts
Spread: 7 of diamonds - 6 of clubs - Jack of spades

Okay, so currently this is a relationship based on mutual love and caring. They see this relationship as something that can go on for a long while, that has future and can repay their efforts. They have good communication and the will to power through obstacles. That being said, they're having a little bit of an issue with inconsistency and erratic behaviour from one or both of them. There's also an issue of jealousy here, but nothing they don't feel like they can power through.

Thanks for the reading too, hun. It makes sense. I guess I'll just have to suck it up and make a joke about it, if he brings it up in conversation. LOL

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 11:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Twitterbird

quote:
Originally posted by Fille Aspirant:
Yes, hun! We can!
Been meaning to answer your email but something always comes up last minute. Definitely going to give you the run down soon!

Can you look into what course of action is best advised for me to take in regards to him?

Let me know yours!


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intuitivefish
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posted October 10, 2014 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you very much
If he ever does, yeah just joke about it

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posted October 10, 2014 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Coming! brb

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posted October 10, 2014 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Past: Five of Cups
Present: Sun
Hidden: Nine of Wands
Advice: Page of Wands
Outcome: Knight of Swords

So I did this with my Holy Light deck...so the meanings are a bit different. With 5/cups and sun I see a lot of good feelings abounding between you. With 9/wands in the hidden position I see a lot of underlying fear holding you back. Page of wands shows you need to be proactive in reaching out to him. One or both of you needs to move past your fears/concerns to reach each other. If you reach out, he will engage you and play his part.

my question: what's at play in the situation with J?

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Fille Aspirant
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posted October 10, 2014 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fille Aspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, we have been in a really nice, light interaction, with good things going back and forth. And I know if I reach out he'll correspond, either because he wants to or because he thinks he has to, out of politeness. I just have a reeeeally hard time making the first move.

For what's at play in the situation with J, I pulled:

Base: 10 of clubs
Spread: King of clubs - 9 of diamonds - King of hearts

This doesn't look really great, feelings wise. It looks like this a great social connection/interaction between the two of you, something that stimulates the both of you, but more in a surface, skin level than a profound one. What's currently at play is social interactions that can spark friendship and even some flirting, but nothing that goes deeper than that.

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