posted October 15, 2014 04:23 PM            

The cards that came out were
Solar plexus chakra
Recognition & reward
Trapped in fear

The solar plexus card represents power, vitality, willpower & self confidence. This card is showing me that you're exercising these things right now because you're needing to show "J" your inner strength. This chakra is associated with clairsentience (inner feeling). Is something in your gut telling you that he thinks you're not self confident? Showing that you ARE is spot on right now. Continue to listen to your inner voice.

Recognition & reward is also telling me that the way you're acting is correct. This card literally says pat yourself on the back. It can also represent a family or a group coming together- is there someone or a few in your close circle who did not like or care for "J"? Or they would be happy to see you acting non chalant towards him? This card is showing that. Accept help that's being offered. Maybe at this time it is the support from a friend or loved one regarding this issue.

Trapped in fear is actually about yourself and what is preventing you from making decisions or choices. I believe this card came out because of the question you asked...you ARE questioning your own actions! The 2 previous cards are saying you know what to do & you're doing it right. You must face your fears to continue the journey so that new people & conditions can manifest. Staying in a place of uncertainty will increase your stress & anxiety. This card shows you have all the tools you need to free yourself and not to forget how strong you really are. Once you stop questioning- this period will end when you use your mind to cut thru emotional limitations.

posted October 15, 2014 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Hi, I have a question really bothering me...Could someone pull for me?
I'd like to know: am I doing the right or wrong thing by acting cold and nonchalant towards J? How should I be acting toward him given our past?

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posted October 15, 2014 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
I pulled a card for you and got strength...
I think you deep down know what this card means. Keep yourself and your needs first. Keep acting nonchalant, it will work out for the best that way.

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posted October 15, 2014 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Thank you for pulling as well..ya know I think the universe is trying to tell me something given the Strength card has come up in the last few of my readings and they were different questions LOL

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posted October 15, 2014 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
yeah I think I recall getting strength for you in another reading! I guess the message is clear hang in there love! itll get better!

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posted October 15, 2014 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Thank you so much! This nelps so much...Can I just ask one more question?
"Why won't he divorce me? As in, why won't he finalize it and get it over with?

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For your question why he won't divorce you, here's what I got:
King of Pentacles...
Here I believe it is perhaps a bit of an ego thing. He built something (your marriage), and he feels like he was king of it, or king of his life and he's just still holding on to the idea of the throne. I am not sure if there are also other motivations...Obviously divorces are very complicated matters, and go beyond the whole not loving the other person. There may be still a love for you or for what you had, and he is just not willing to give that idea up just yet.