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crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 04:10 AM
Hello I saw you help a couple of members here with readings I would like to ask you please to help me with a readingIf you like I can do a horary for you. My q: what it suppose to happen/ what to do to be with A? How do you "see" things Thank you so much all the best IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 21, 2014 09:00 AM
Yeah sure no problem I will just put a disclosure, I do not use cards, I only give what I feel and what comes to me. And, I am not best with timing.- Ughh sorry I feel A is such a mess, I feel you should NOT do anything, you will have to leave this issue to him, if you want to be with him, you have have to let him make all the moves and I mean all the moves. If he has not been showing you a lot right now, I would say the best thing to do is to let it be alone for some time. Right now the best thing to do is actually do nothing. You HAVE TO show him you have your life, you do not think about him that much and that you are just happy with your life. What is supposed to happen? - right now things just feel like he is on the fence and is not sure which way to jump. Sorry but thats how things feel to me. I dont have a question now, thanks IP: Logged |
crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 09:06 AM
HiThank you He is a mess in which way? Regarding the fence lol he is the middle of desission in what area personal, professional? is he in some way negative influence by someone? Thank you take your time All the best IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 21, 2014 09:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by crys: HiThank you He is a mess in which way? Regarding the fence lol he is the middle of desission in what area personal, professional? is he in some way negative influence by someone? Thank you take your time All the best
He just feels like I mess, I cannot explain better, like he is not even sure in his head about anything. I am talking personal here I do not, nor have not thought about him in professional. No, no negative influence , its all him. Trying to figure out what to do, what to say, what to decide.
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crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 09:38 AM
Hi Thank you In other words he does not know what he wants anymore and now it is time to think about itThank you very much IP: Logged |
crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 09:46 AM
Aslo will he make his decison soon ... maybeIP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 21, 2014 09:53 AM
does he talk to you right now? is there any sort of relationship right now with the 2 of you ?I feel as of right now he actually enjoys being in this state, its easier and it takes no effort and he sort of knows you would be willing to do all the effort towards him. I dont see a decision soon, and when one comes I see you make it but it will be to sort of just give up and move on slowly IP: Logged |
crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 10:13 AM
Hi Yes from time to time He is out of town and work is stressful Regarding me I will not give up trust me.So he will not make any decision soon? He is used to woman come towards him not vice versa
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 21, 2014 10:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by crys: Hi Yes from time to time He is out of town and work is stressful Regarding me I will not give up trust me.So he will not make any decision soon? He is used to woman come towards him not vice versa
yes thats what I said, he knows you would do the effort. No I am sorry I do not see him make any major movement toward you. To me it just feels like he enjoys knowing you are always there and that you will not give up. That is something he does enjoy and trust me, he knows it. My best advice is not to make any action and you need to show you have a life away from him.
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crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 10:34 AM
Hi I do have a life trust me It is just I miss him.I know he is not a major mouvement person, that is why I ask what I (not he)have do to.Thelepaty message something lol. I understand for now nothing but in the near future. Now not even the situation nor the distance allow it Thank you
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 21, 2014 10:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by crys: Hi I do have a life trust me It is just I miss him.I know he is not a major mouvement person, that is why I ask what I (not he)have do to.Thelepaty message something lol. I understand for now nothing but in the near future. Now not even the situation nor the distance allow it Thank you
Sorry but I dont understand why you want me to say something different. I never said you dont have a life! I said make sure he sees you do have one and do not show him you miss him. Non intuitive - for a man who is used to women doing all the work, then the opposite can only help the situation. Why would he do any effort if he knows he would not have to ?
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crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 10:49 AM
Sorry my error. I understand what you said. I try not to talk/ text him that much, bec I personally do not like people that give too much attention. So about what you said I am on the right track. I do not like that he sees me like ... Way too nice, I am not that nice in a good way lol.I am an action person you know aries... so no camera no action is not quite me :joke: Thank you I hope I did not upset you I really appreciate you time and patience. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 21, 2014 10:58 AM
No you did not upset me I have been up since very early and I am not fully myself.I can understand you would like to do something, say something magical or anything to get things going. I am not saying it impossible, just that for your sake, do not ! You will get more satisfaction when something happens at it was from his side, not done by you! only then is when you will know/ see what he wants. Do not let him have his cake for free he has to put more effort in and will enjoy it for longer if he had to put more effort to get it IP: Logged |
crys Knowflake Posts: 919 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 11:07 AM
I understandThank you Have a good day and have some rest IP: Logged |